
EFT For Sadness
by KC Gonzalez
This EFT/tapping practice can be used to help alleviate sadness. Tapping is beneficial for moving stuck emotions. Remember, this is not a one-and-done kind of practice. Please keep coming back when experiencing sadness to benefit from this practice.
Transcript
Hello and welcome to your EFT practice for sadness.
My name is Casey and I will be leading you during this exercise today.
Before we begin,
Take a moment to find a comfortable seat,
Feeling your sitting bones rooted beneath you and the crown of your head reaching towards the sky.
Stay here and take a few cycles of breath,
Becoming still.
Gently breathe in through your nose and a slow smooth exhale through your lips.
Take two more breaths just like that,
Inhaling slowly and fully through the nose and a slow smooth exhale through the lips.
One last time,
Inhaling slowly and smoothly and exhaling gently through the lips.
As we start,
Take a moment here to assess where you are on a scale of one to ten for your sadness.
Ten being extreme sadness and one being none at all.
And if you find yourself anywhere,
Five,
Six,
Seven,
Eight or nine,
The goal is to hopefully by the end of this practice move that number down the scale so the intensity is a little less.
We will begin with our setup statement.
Finding the karate chop point on the outside edge of the pinky side of your hand,
Somewhere between the wrist bone and the top of the pinky finger bone and just tap there gently with the opposite hand.
I will guide you to where we are tapping.
Just breathe and listen to my voice and if it makes sense to you to repeat the phrase please do so.
Even though I am feeling extreme sadness,
I honor how I feel.
And we say that statement three times total.
Tapping the karate chop point.
Even though I am feeling extreme sadness,
I honor how I feel.
Even though I am feeling extreme sadness,
I honor how I feel.
Tapping at the third eye,
I accept that I am feeling sad.
I accept that I am feeling sad.
Side Eye.
I feel it in my chest,
In my throat,
My stomach and my head.
I feel it in my chest,
My throat,
My stomach and my head.
Under Eye.
I welcome sadness in like an old friend.
I welcome sadness in like an old friend.
Under the nose.
I will sit here and breathe with my sadness.
I will sit here and breathe with my sadness.
Chin point.
It is safe for me to feel this way.
It is safe for me to feel this way.
Collarbone.
I can stay here for as long as I need.
I can stay here for as long as I need.
Underarm.
I know this sadness feels heavy.
I know this sadness feels heavy.
Crown.
I can breathe and feel my feelings safely.
I can breathe and feel my feelings safely.
Round two here.
Third Eye.
I know this sadness won't last forever.
I know this sadness won't last forever.
Side Eye.
I know my feelings will pass.
I know my feelings will pass.
Under Eye.
I can feel relief knowing my mind can help me feel differently.
I can feel relief knowing my mind can help me feel differently.
Under the nose.
I can breathe into my sadness.
I can breathe into my sadness.
Chin.
I can breathe in and let go of my sadness when I exhale.
I can breathe in and let go of my sadness when I exhale.
Collarbone.
I can breathe in gratitude for all that is good in my life.
I can breathe in gratitude for all that is good in my life.
Underarm.
I can choose to feel differently when I'm ready.
I can choose to feel differently when I'm ready.
Crown.
I stay and honor and accept my sadness.
I stay and honor and accept my sadness.
Round three.
Third Eye.
I can feel the sadness slowly shifting.
I can feel the sadness slowly shifting.
Side Eye.
With each exhale I feel more relief.
With each exhale I feel more relief.
Under Eye.
My throat,
Chest,
Stomach feel more relaxed.
Under the nose.
My collarbones are wide and I can take deeper breaths into my belly and heart space.
My collarbones are wide and I can take deeper breaths into my belly and heart space.
Chin.
I feel lighter less heaviness in my heart.
I feel lighter less heaviness in my heart.
I feel lighter less heaviness in my heart.
Collarbone.
Let my heart be filled with gratitude instead of sadness.
Let my heart be filled with gratitude instead of sadness.
Underarm.
I honor all my feelings and allow them to pass.
I honor all my feelings and allow them to pass.
Crown.
I know I don't need to become my feelings.
I know I don't need to become my feelings.
Round four.
Third Eye.
My sadness has shifted and I have let it move through me.
My sadness has shifted and I have let it move through me.
Side Eye.
I welcome in the good feelings.
I welcome in the good feelings.
Under Eye.
Knowing all feelings are normal and accepted.
Knowing all feelings are normal and accepted.
Under the nose.
I breathe into my open heart.
I breathe into my open heart.
Chin.
I know I will be okay.
I know I will be okay.
Collarbone.
It's okay to feel sad.
It's okay to feel sad.
Underarm.
It's not okay to unpack and live there.
It's not okay to unpack and live there.
Crown.
I can shift my emotions by practicing with my tools.
I can shift my emotions by practicing with my tools.
On an exhale allow your hands to rest gently in your lap.
Take another breath into your nose.
Slowly release out the mouth.
Before we close take a moment to assess where you are on that scale of one to ten.
Ten being extremely sad.
One being no sadness.
And just notice if anything has shifted or changed inside of you.
If you find the number has moved down the scale and you feel some relief,
Wonderful.
If not,
No worries.
Just keep coming back to this practice.
Understand that this is not a one-and-done kind of thing.
Healing takes time and patience.
On your next inhale reach your arms up and overhead.
And as you exhale bringing down all of that divine universal energy to your heart center.
And that energy vibrates as the frequency of love through which you and I and all sentient beings are connected on this planet.
The light in me salutes and honors the light in you.
Namaste.
Thank you so much for allowing me to be of service.
Have a great day.
4.8 (305)
Recent Reviews
Linda
October 20, 2025
Thank you, KC. You encourage me to allow these feelings of sorrow to “be” and to flow through me. I appreciate this awareness more than you know. Be well—Linda
Cindy
October 1, 2025
Thank you so very much for sharing this beautiful meditation. You’ve made a positive difference in my day and I appreciate you 🌸
Tina
August 3, 2025
I was a 10 on the sadness scale and completely overcome by it. This EFT completely shifted me to a 4. This works! Thank you!
Allison
April 26, 2025
I have been sort of unconsciously tapping in my own as a release and this specific practice was truly helpful! Thank you! ☺️
Vanessa
March 25, 2025
I loved how you helped shift the emotion towards the positive while allowing space and honor for the sadness.
Michella
September 10, 2024
So powerful. I will be coming back to this practice. I went from an 8 to a 5. Thank you 😊
Natalie
January 17, 2024
I hadn’t tried tapping before and I’m not sure if it was the kind reassuring words or the tapping (probably both) but I definitely feel a slight shift. Will return again. Thankyou 🙏🏻
Amete
November 19, 2023
Awesome! Much Gratitude.. the shift of energy is evident ..and I definitely will return,( work in progress) truly healing rescue. 🕊🌎🕊🙏🏾
Crystal
November 6, 2023
Thank you for this practice. I am new to tapping and that was quite helpful. Brought me from a 7 to a 3. Much gratitude to you. ❤️
Lorette
September 27, 2023
Thank you for this really awesome practice which I always come back to when I need it. It feels so much clearer after, ♥️♥️♥️💚💚💚
Paula
April 26, 2023
This guidance was truly helpful! I’ve been feeling some stuck generalized sadness, which was souring into irritability. This session was a great relief. 🙏very much.
Doreen
April 20, 2023
Wowwww, did I need that! A thousand thanks for helping me shed that heaviness 🤍
Gill
April 7, 2023
KC, thank you so much. I went from a 5 to a 2. Such a wonderful script ‘I honour my sadness’ and ‘it’s ok to be sad , it’s not ok to unpack and live there’ to name but a few. Thank you.
Andrea
December 10, 2022
Thank you
