Just Like Me

A Compassion Practice & Meditation. How do we relate to people who are wildly different? In truth, we have more in common than not. When we can see one another with the heart and eyes of wisdom, we're reminded that there is something bigger than all our ideas.

Transcript

Let yourself find a way to sit that's stable and comfortable and at ease.

And this guided meditation is built on some of the beautiful practices from Joanna Macy and Mirabai Bush and Ram Dass and other dear friends.

It is a practice sometimes called Just Like Me.

So when you're ready,

Feet flat on the floor or body resting on the cushion or wherever you are,

Let yourself settle on this earth halfway between heaven and earth in this human form.

Let your eyes close gently.

Take a few deep breaths to allow yourself to exhale and release whatever you can easily.

And let your eyes and face be soft.

Loosen the jaw.

If you like,

You can roll your head in a circle to release your neck and let it find a simple upright.

Let the shoulders relax and the arms and hands rest easily.

Feel your seat on the earth,

How gravity pulls you and you can let go and rest fully supported where you sit.

Let the belly be soft and the breath natural.

Let the heart be soft as well to receive whatever arises with a spirit of kindness.

And let the heart be soft as well to receive whatever arises with a spirit of kindness and compassion.

And now with this embodied presence,

Begin to notice the breathing of your body,

How it gently and rhythmically breathes itself into breathing with the air,

The trees,

The wind,

All the other creatures around you breathing the same breath.

And let your body breathe on its own and you become the witness,

The loving awareness that notices this breath.

Relax with it.

And from a place of presence and some invitation of stillness,

Now we'll do a guided reflection.

Let yourself picture and imagine or envision in the Thanksgiving and the holiday season coming up,

That you will be encountering people who sometimes feel very different than you or difficult for you,

Hard to understand or sometimes just hard to be with.

And let yourself select a person in that category.

In the traditional teachings of loving kindness,

This person is sometimes referred to as a difficult person.

And envision how you might see them,

Likely on Zoom this crazy year,

But oftentimes in person.

And imagine or sense that you can now gaze at this person with the heart of wisdom.

And as you picture them,

Let yourself reflect.

This person is incarnated in a body going through life,

Just like me.

This person was once a small child,

A little vulnerable child,

Just like me.

And be aware of all the emotions and feelings that arise with each of these reflections.

This person has had happy times in their life,

Just like me.

This person is creative,

Just like me.

This person has loved someone,

Just like me.

This person's heart has been broken,

Just like me.

This person has their measure of sorrows and sadness,

Just like me.

This person has been hurt and disappointed,

Just like me.

This person has been confused by life,

Just like me.

This person has known physical pain,

Just like me.

This person will be young and old,

Friend and enemy,

Just like me.

This person has regrets,

Just like me.

This person wants to be loved,

Just like me.

Look at their image,

Seeing with the heart.

Behind their eyes is the original spirit,

Born into each one of us.

Picture this person's happiest moments as a child,

Laughing,

Playing,

Joyful times.

The child of the spirit is still in them,

Just like me.

And as you gaze at them in your mind's eye with the heart of wisdom,

I know you want to be happy,

Just like me.

And I wish you strength and support and healing in your life,

So that you can offer your gifts to yourself and the world,

Just like me.

I wish for you blessings and courage,

Honesty and care,

Love and compassion,

For you are a human being,

Just like me.

And as you reflect,

As you see with the heart,

Notice how this practice has changed the way you hold this person.

And the way you hold yourself.

This practice is a form of loving kindness and compassion.

And now let yourself continue in the stillness and picture yet another one or two or three people.

And each one that you envision and hold in your mind's eye and in your heart,

In your own way,

Gaze at them and reflect just as we have.

This person is,

And you can fill in the blank,

Just like me.

Thank you.

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And if you are still continuing with this practice of compassion and loving kindness,

Just like me,

Stay with it.

And if you feel like you've had enough of this particular active practice and you want to just rest and be,

Let it go.

And rest in the reality of the present.

Become loving awareness that notices the breath breathing itself.

That notices the rise and fall of feelings and thoughts and sounds like waves of the ocean coming and going around the breath.

Rest in the present.

You are loving awareness.

Thank you.

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Reviews

Jack’s meditation practices always bring me back to my own presence, touching my heart with his words of kindness and compassion for all of humanity 💙🙏🧘‍♀️
I’m very Grateful for his wisdom

Powerful, simple practice. Excellent reminder we can live with more grace and compassion to others.

Jack is such a wonderful messenger for the practice of forgiveness & compassion, this meditation helped me sit more easily with those in my life that I find difficult to be with.

Beautiful way to practice lovingkindness towards others and oneself. In gratitude

Jack's voice is always warm and comforting. Many thanks Jack for all that you do🙏🏾

This meditation was difficult for me in another setting. This one was lovely.

I picture two people in my mind who really are difficult for me Ashley is one I love her but she not easy and Becky is the other who I've realized that I didn't know she was difficult for me he really made a difference

A good way to
Cultivate loving kindness towards self and others. Thx you.

🙏 thank you for this lovely message and great meditation for sending more love ❤️ in to the world 🌎✨☀️

A beautiful meditation. So important to practice ❣️

This was a moving form of loving kindness meditating that allowed me to have compassion for myself and for others.

Nice change of approach for a loving- kindness meditation

Thanks Jack. I follow you since 2013. When I first heard "a brief for the defense" in a Zen Cast
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NamahStê!

Lobr the reminder of “ Just like me”! Thank you 🙏

great practice!! It has definitely changed the way I’m present in relationships and how I deal with challenging situations.

Thank you, I needed to cry and I cried, I needed to feel the compassion and kindly reflect, and I did, I needed a quiet moment in my head, and I quiet it was

Marvellous, thank you. A throughly grounding experience, I feel more at one with myself and everyone. Today is a better day for this. 🙏

Fabulous- helpful to me, helpful to the youth I connect with! EVOLving www.gratefulness.org, ahimsa

Such great reminders that those we have difficulty with are just like me!

I love "Just like me" thank you for sharing your beautiful wisdom with all of us 🧘‍♀️💕🙇‍♂️🙏🦋