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Tonglen Compassion - Self-Practice

by Grace Bryant

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Tonglen is a powerful Tibetan Buddhist Meditation practice. This 10 minute guided meditation for self-tonglen will start your journey to self-love, self-forgiveness and transforming your every day reality from a compassionate center.

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Transcript

Welcome to the practice of self tonglen.

Find a comfortable seat and allow the eyes to close or to close partially so that you're not looking around but the eyes are just fixed on one spot,

Relaxed with the lids half closed.

And with a tall spine,

Relax.

Let go of any tension in the body.

Let go of any tension in the mind.

Bring your attention to your breath.

Following the flow of the in-breath to the slight pause.

And the flow of the out-breath to the slight pause after exhalation.

And whenever the mind wanders,

Bring it back.

Observing the breath and the pauses after inhalation and exhalation.

Bring it to bring your attention to the heart,

The center of the chest.

Stepping into that place in you that is deeply connected to everything else.

The spiritual heart or the witness consciousness.

The depth of love that is your true essence.

The depth of love that is your true essence.

And now begin to become present to a pain or suffering that you are carrying around.

Being very specific and clear.

On the inhale we begin to breathe that pain or that suffering into the heart.

Into the depth of our being.

From which we are whole.

Love.

And as you exhale back out from this place of wholeness,

Feel that deep essence,

Glowing radiance moving back into the place of suffering.

We inhale pain and exhale healing.

Inhale suffering and exhale light.

This transformation of the pain into love happens automatically.

Once this pain of separation,

This limited expression hits the depth of our being,

It's automatically transformed into that diamond,

Into that radiant essence.

Inhale pain into the heart.

Inhale freedom.

Let go of any sense of being the doer,

Accomplishing anything with this practice.

From the absolute depth of your being,

The place of connection and surrender.

Inhale pain.

Exhale love.

A few more moments.

Inhale suffering.

Exhale freedom.

Exhale love.

Think about our Gently let go of the practice.

Let your attention rest on the heart.

We remain in the space,

The stillness that follows this practice.

From the heart,

We ask the question,

Who am I?

Let go of any identity response,

Simply resting in the space of pure being.

Let go of any identity response,

Simply resting in the space of pure being.

We conclude with a thought of gratitude.

Ending the practice here,

Or continuing with the practice of T'anglen for others.

Meet your Teacher

Grace BryantSeattle, WA, United States

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Recent Reviews

Paula

December 11, 2023

Easy to listen to and very calming

Gracelight

July 21, 2022

Thank you for the meditation πŸ™πŸΌπŸ€

Alison

May 6, 2022

Beautiful and much needed this morning πŸŒ„ πŸ’• thank you Grace πŸ™

Kelly

April 26, 2021

This is a beautiful practice, has become my daily medicine πŸ™

Darren

November 16, 2020

I found it difficult sit with distressing feelings but managed to continue and experience the feelings as they are without aversion

Debby

July 1, 2020

Helpful, Thank you.

Kelli

May 7, 2020

An essential in my toolbox

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March 1, 2020

This self Tonglen practice really helped me to let go of self-hate with which I’m dealing with on a daily basis thank you for this small but effective practice

Doug

January 6, 2020

Relaxing and centering. Began to feel uplifting towards the end. Plan to repeat often.

Gonnie

October 27, 2019

Thank you for your clarity and connection to the heart.

Lori

April 30, 2019

A beautiful way to begin my day πŸ™

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