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Thoughts Are Like Commercials

by Charles Freligh

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Thoughts during practice can be perceived as similar to commercials when watching a show or sporting event on TV. You decided to engage in and enjoy something in particular, and then the commercials arise. Here's a practice that aims to help you simply notice the commercials clearly and then return again and again to the "main event." I hope you enjoy!

ThoughtsCommercialsBreathingDistractionFocusAwarenessRelaxationNotingBreath CountingPresent Moment AwarenessBody RelaxationMental NotingAnalogiesNoticingPracticesSensations

Transcript

Hey there.

And so for this practice,

I've got another visual for you that hopefully can be helpful.

This is a sports broadcaster analogy.

And so you can imagine your mind as being like a game or a match that's being televised.

And you can think of a commentator during the game that is just reporting only what's happening.

So the game's going on and they're talking about the different things that are happening in the game objectively.

And then you have commercials,

These things that are distractions from the game that are offering you products that you're not really interested in.

And so for this meditation,

We'll use the sensations of the breath as your sort of tethering point to the present moment.

And I want you to try counting with the breath.

And this counting,

You can see it as like the commentator of the game that's going on.

And so on the in-breath,

You'll count one.

On the out-breath,

You'll count two.

In-breath three,

Out-breath four.

And then you can go all the way up to ten.

And then just repeat,

Go back to one.

And then whenever you become distracted from that counting of the breath practice,

You can just notice that you're no longer counting.

You can notice wherever you are,

Oh,

I'm planning,

Oh,

I'm hearing something,

Oh,

I'm remembering something from the past,

Oh,

I'm just daydreaming.

And you can notice that.

And those are your commercials.

And so just notice whenever you've slipped into one of these distraction commercials.

And then you can say,

And we're back.

And so that's you as the commentator.

Now we're back.

And then just start back over,

Counting the breath at one.

And you can resettle your position here.

Again,

Notice if anything has tightened back up,

Whatever sort of internal friction your body might be acting on.

And see if you can just resettle all of that.

Allow it to soften.

Specifically in your face,

You can feel into the mouth and the jaw and the eyes and the muscles behind the eyes.

You can allow those to soften.

And let's begin to pay very close attention to the ongoing changes of the sensations of the breath.

Here's your primary object of attention here.

And you want to find one precise area to focus that attention.

And it can be anything for you,

Whatever works best.

What I find most useful is the tip of the nostrils.

And then feeling the air coming in cold.

And then out warm.

Feeling that all the way through as if it's one continuous wave,

Because that's what it is.

This is your tether.

Still finding that one specific area of focus on the sensations of breath in each moment.

You can always pay attention to it.

And now as the commentator,

Let's begin to count along with the sensations of the breath.

So on the in-breath,

You can count in your mind one.

And then as you transition into the out-breath,

Two.

And then three on the in-breath.

And four on the out-breath.

And in your mind,

You can make that sound however you like.

It might be an extended number to encompass the whole length of the breath.

But to see if you can follow along,

This can help you return to that one very specific focus by counting the whole time through.

So one on the in-breath,

Two out-breath,

All the way up to ten on the out-breath.

And then just start back over at one.

And then whenever your mind wanders away,

And it will,

And it's totally fine,

Just become aware of whatever that distraction commercial is.

Make a mental note of whatever it is.

And then just come back,

And we're back.

And then come back to counting back at one on the in-breath.

And I'll give you a little space to practice that now.

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Meet your Teacher

Charles FrelighMinneapolis, MN, USA

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Recent Reviews

Ian

February 15, 2026

Loved this metaphor, it was instantly relatable and helped ground me when I was feeling overwhelmed with cooking earlier.

Candice

February 6, 2026

I liked this practice & will be trying it throughout my day. Thanks!

Naveen

February 2, 2026

Counting breath is a nice tool. Thank you so much🙏

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February 1, 2026

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Josie

January 27, 2026

Love this! “And now we’re back” going to try this out today!

Caroline

January 11, 2026

Such a helpful practice. Calm and detailed instructions with space to practice and a tool that I can also carry into my day. Thank you 🙏

Estra

December 29, 2025

I love this idea of wondering thoughts being like commercials. The “And we’re back “ cue is very effective. It allows me to re-focus back to the breath in a very fun and neutral way.

Stacey

December 17, 2025

A useful tool for meditating that will carry me far in a challenging space.

Catherine

December 10, 2025

I really liked this meditation. It was very insightful and grounding. I will practice this daily. Thank you!🙏

Lerone

December 8, 2025

Loved the concept. Going to try it because with my adhd I find myself in this situation often. Thank you very much for this strategy!!

Bethany

December 4, 2025

I'm not a watcher of sports, but I enjoyed the creative analogy. It felt like less pressure to come back from a commercial than "thinking"

Dieguz

November 19, 2025

Very interesting meditation, thank you for sharing!🙏🏼

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September 7, 2025

Headline: “Ever-inventive instructor offers yet another paradigm to edify and illuminate in an appealing manner.”

Lauren

September 5, 2024

I really love this metaphor! Thinking of the breath, the anchor as the game and the thoughts in between as commercials is fun and adds humor to the experience of both meditation and daily life. Thanks Charles!

Alice

June 23, 2024

Thanks Charles. I’ll practice this for a while. I woke up from A very upsetting dream. Thanks for the tools.

Sara

August 26, 2023

Thank you Charles. I love your analogies they are so helpful.

Annie

April 29, 2023

Cool analogy. I realised counting wasn’t enough and had to include the tether to the breath at the nostrils to focus, otherwise I’d keep counting and drift off. Thanks for this tool. 🙏♥️

Gabylinn

November 18, 2021

This is a good tool for getting back the mind to the here and now. Thank you 🤍

Linda

September 17, 2021

Charles’ meditations are so inventive and creative. He gives so many creative options for stilling “monkey mind”.

Maksym

July 22, 2021

Interesting technique 👍

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