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Breathing Space With Kindness

by Erik van den Brink

Rated
4.6
Type
guided
Activity
Meditation
Suitable for
Everyone
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The Breathing Space with Kindness is a short informal practice, suitable to do at any moment in your everyday life when you are in need of a pause. The first phase invites you to be mindfully present with whatever arises. The second phase invites to gather attention on the breath. his phase is expanded with allowing a Soothing Breathing Rhythm to emerge, a basic practice in Compassion Focused Therapy. In the third phase you widen the field of awareness to the body as a whole. This phase is expanded with attuning to your deeper needs and allowing a kind wish to yourself to come up and letting the words flow through you on the rhythm of the soothing breath. Enjoy this soothing practice with Erik, the creator of Mindfulness-Based Compassionate Living (MBCL), a deepening course for those who have already followed MBSR or MBCT.

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Transcript

This short exercise you can practice any time when it is safe to pause.

Finding yourself a comfortable position,

Whether you are sitting,

Lying down or standing up.

The practice consists of three phases.

In the first phase,

Inviting yourself to be mindful.

Kindly acknowledging your experience moment by moment.

Perhaps sounds.

Physical sensations.

Thoughts or feelings.

Welcoming whatever arises.

Whether pleasant or unpleasant.

Also noticing any reactions you might have to or chose itself.

Simply holding your experience in kind awareness as it comes and goes.

And then,

In the second phase,

Letting your attention rest on the sensations of the breath.

Allowing a calming,

Soothing breathing rhythm to emerge.

Gently slowing down and deepening the movements of the breath.

Without effort.

Letting the breath flow freely into the body,

Through the body and out of the body.

This may be supported by consciously sensing the ground that supports you.

Allowing the muscles to soften.

The face to relax.

The chest to open.

The belly to rise and fall,

Unhindered.

If you like kindly placing one or both hands on the body.

And when the breath has found its soothing rhythm just following its natural course.

And when you notice the tension has drifted off.

Mindfulness has already returned.

Just noticing what's there right now.

And kindly guiding your attention back to the breath.

Allowing the soothing rhythm to return whenever you lost it.

And then in the third phase,

Expanding your awareness.

Sensing the body as a whole.

Attuning to yourself the way you are right now.

Sensing your deeper needs.

Noticing what comes up with the question,

What could be a kind wish to myself?

Examples could be,

May I feel safe?

Or may I feel healthy,

Or as healthy as can be?

May I enjoy happiness?

May I feel at ease?

Choosing words that connect well with you.

And gently repeating the wish.

Letting it flow through you.

If you like on the rhythm of the soothing breath.

May I on the in-breath and the second part on the out-breath.

And the offering of the wish may be supported by a gentle smile.

The receiving of the wish by placing one or both hands on your chest.

Taking the wish to heart.

And welcoming every experience as part of the practice.

Meaning with the same wish,

Or adjusting the words in response to what arises.

Rather than ending the practice in your own time to resume your daily activities.

Thank you.

Meet your Teacher

Erik van den BrinkGroningen, Netherlands

4.6 (191)

Recent Reviews

Yvonne

February 16, 2021

Really liked the 3 phases in this short session. Thank you for sharing 😊

Susan

July 28, 2019

Very helpful brief practice. A great pause in the day to help you get back to being mindful and kind to yourself. Soothing voice. Thank you, Erik 🙏

Mary

April 20, 2019

Simple and quite perfect. 🙏

Genee

April 19, 2019

Simple yet effective. Thank you!

Juliana

April 19, 2019

Clear guidance, simple and powerful! Namaste!

Siobhan

April 19, 2019

Thank you that was wonderful

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