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7-Minute Reset: Calm Nerves

by Paige Gilchrist

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This short practice break – another in the 7-Minute Reset series – offers an efficient recipe for getting calm and collected before the big meeting, the big speech, the big day, or whatever has your nervous system on high alert.

ResetCalmNervous SystemGroundingBreathingShoulder ExercisesStretchingHomeostasisNervous System RegulationExtended Exhale BreathingNasal BreathingShort PracticesShoulder ShrugsSide Bending Stretches

Transcript

Hi,

This is Paige.

Today's embodied meditation,

Another in the seven-minute reset series,

Is an efficient recipe for getting calm and collected before the big meeting,

The big speech,

The big day,

Or whatever has your nervous system on high alert.

Let's stay standing for this practice.

Feel your feet on the ground.

Feel your shoulders relax away from your ears.

And feel your energy begin to gather in.

It can be helpful to know that all the physical symptoms of nervousness,

Racing heart,

Sweaty palms,

Dry mouth,

Or the worry that you'll forget what you're supposed to say,

Are classic fight,

Flight,

Or freeze responses that were wired into us eons ago.

Your nervous system doesn't know the difference between being chased by a saber-toothed tiger or having to give a presentation.

Understanding that,

And with your feet planted here safely,

Acknowledging that you're not in imminent danger,

Can help disempower the symptoms so you don't have the added stress of being nervous about being nervous.

As you stand here,

Feet on the ground,

Begin to breathe in and out through your nose only,

If that's comfortable,

With your lips closed.

Just breathing in and out through your nose.

Mouth breathing can be a little agitating to the system.

It's what we do if we need to run.

So simply by breathing in and out through the nose,

The breath naturally slows down and deepens and calms down.

Let's help the system move from scattered and racing to a little bit more anchored in the body with some side bends.

When you're ready to inhale,

You can stretch both arms up overhead.

If it's comfortable on your shoulders,

You could link your thumbs up there.

When you feel ready to exhale,

Let your body stretch up and over to the left.

As you do that,

Really consciously plant your right foot on the ground.

And then inhale,

Bring yourself back through center.

Exhale up and over to the right.

Really let yourself ground that left foot so you feel that anchoring.

One more time each side,

Up through center on an inhale,

Up and over to the left as you exhale,

Grounding the right foot.

Inhale back through center,

Up and over to the right.

The left foot plugs into the grounding quality of the earth.

And then inhale all the way back through center.

Release the link of the thumbs if you have that.

And let both arms simply float down to your sides.

Let's move into a physical release of tension in the body.

When you're ready to inhale,

Squeeze your shoulders right up to your ears.

And as you do that,

You might gently clench the whole body just a little bit.

And then as you exhale,

Let the exhale releases a ha sound as the shoulders drop down and the whole body releases.

Do that again as you inhale,

Shoulders really shrug up toward the ears.

Whole body can clench a little bit.

And as you exhale,

A ha sound relax the shoulders,

Release any tension in the body.

Once more,

Inhale,

Shoulders way up to the ears.

Whole body can engage,

Maybe even clench.

Ha sound as you exhale and the shoulders drop and the body releases.

From here,

Just notice how your breath is moving again in and out through your nose if that's still comfortable.

And we'll begin to very gently lengthen the exhaling half of the breath.

So as you inhale,

Let the inhale be perfectly natural.

And as you exhale,

Just some gentle attention to drawing out the length of the exhale,

Maybe even pausing at the very bottom of that exhale.

And again,

When you're ready to inhale,

A normal easy inhale.

And as you exhale,

Nothing forced,

Just an allowing of some length to the exhale,

Maybe a gentle pause.

Inhale natural,

Easy breath,

Exhale allowing a bit of length.

Just continuing that a couple more times on your own.

It's like Morse code to the nervous system,

That lengthening of the exhale,

Drawing everything back to homeostasis.

Once more,

As you prepare to head into what's next,

Feel your feet on the ground,

Feel your energy anchored in your body and feel your slowed down breath letting your nervous system know everything is actually okay.

Good luck and I'll be with you again soon.

Meet your Teacher

Paige GilchristAsheville, NC, USA

4.7 (659)

Recent Reviews

Ami

December 3, 2024

Love this one. I come back to it often when I’m feeling nervous about something. Always helps. Thank you!

Meg

September 1, 2023

Very calming! Loved how it included movement as I picked this meditation to calm my nervous before a sporting elimination final I am playing in today. I’ll probably do it again later!!!

Kelsey

March 12, 2022

Helped calm the nerves before the wedding!

Doris

November 29, 2021

Thank you for your embodied meditations - they are a blessing!!! 🧡

Shona

November 23, 2021

Gently powerful. Or is it powerfully gentle. Either way … a beautiful start to the day. Thank you Paige.

Joules

November 22, 2021

Super helpful thank you

Trinity

November 9, 2021

Lovely. I did this before a nap because I couldn't sleep. Thank you for the reminder that ease isn't so far away after all.

Rayson

October 16, 2021

Relaxing and feels great after that 😊👍

Maddie

October 13, 2021

Needed something to move some stress out and this was perfect!

Andrew

August 7, 2021

Great thank you. For a performance in my amateur pianists' club!

Vanessa

April 16, 2021

Helped calm me down before an online CA share immensely! Only thing is I was too lazy & troubled to stand. I did it from a laying down position & grounded my feet on the arm of the sofa. My speech is in an hour. Mat have to do again. For now I'm good. More like this from laying position would be appreciated. Thanks!

khanna

November 14, 2020

Ideal! Thank you

Joe

November 13, 2020

That was really a nice meditation Paige. I enjoyed the pace and your voice has a very calming effect during the whole meditation. Thanks 🙏

Alicia

November 13, 2020

Lovely calming stretches & breathing. I can feel my nervous system is relaxed before my meeting today! 🙏

Emma

June 11, 2020

I found this very effective for calming my nerves. Thank you.

Michelle

April 29, 2020

Did this before a big meeting. Felt much more calm and less anxious. Thank you 🙏🙏

Nancy

April 6, 2020

Thanks for that Paige. A different beginning to my day...

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