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Working With Difficulties

by Diana Winston

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Meditation
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This is a restful and kind mindfulness practice that will teaches you the basics of meditation. The objective of this practice is to allow you to work with the difficulties in your life and use them to improve your future.

MindfulnessMeditationDifficultiesSelf CompassionEmotional AwarenessInteroceptionFocusPainBody ScanKindnessImprovementRestfulness

Transcript

You can use this practice to work with difficult emotions or body sensations.

Find a posture that's comfortable to you.

And then check inside your body and try to locate a part of your body that feels good to you right now.

Pleasant,

Safe,

At ease,

Or at the very least,

Neutral.

You can check out your hands or feet or legs.

So let your attention go to this pleasant part of your body,

Hands or feet or wherever you've chosen.

And let your attention rest there.

Feel it,

Sense it.

Notice what those sensations are.

Let your mind relax a bit,

Feeling that part of the body.

And now if there's something difficult that's happening for you,

A difficult emotion or a physical sensation that's hard,

Let your attention go to that.

So it may be an aching in your shoulder or back or a head or a neck or a neck or a head.

Or it could be a sense of sadness or anxiety or anger.

Where do you feel that sensation in your body?

Where do you feel that emotion in your body?

Notice it,

Just notice it for one moment.

Tap into it,

Feel it,

Make sure to breathe.

And now return your attention back down to that area that feels at ease.

Your hands,

Your feet,

Your feet,

Your feet,

Your feet.

And just let yourself stay there for a moment,

Feeling it,

Sensing it,

Relaxing,

Maintaining the mindfulness,

Yet giving yourself a break from what could be potentially overwhelming to feel.

And now let your attention rest there.

And now once again,

Return your attention to that part of the body that feels unpleasant,

The body ache or pain or the emotion,

The sensations of the emotion in your body,

The vitality of the body,

The emotions of the body,

The emotions of the body.

In your body,

The vibrations on your chest or the clenching in your belly or the tightness in your jaw.

Just notice and breathe.

And let it be there.

Let whatever is there be there.

And then bring your attention again back down to this pleasant or neutral part of the body,

Hands,

Feet,

So forth.

Relaxing,

Staying present and alert,

Feeling the safety and the connection in that place.

And now let yourself stay connected to this place,

But see if you can cast what we might call a side long glance at the difficult area in your body.

Is it possible to still feel connected to your body in the area that feels good and yet know there's something going on that feels unpleasant and just let it be there,

Keeping maybe 75% of your attention on the part that feels peaceful and at ease.

Still breathing,

Casting the side long glance at this difficult area,

Noticing what happens to it.

Is it growing or shrinking?

Is it changing,

Shifting into something else,

Becoming aware of whatever it is it's doing,

Relaxing,

Breathing.

And now see if you can bring some loving kindness,

Just some kindness to yourself for a moment.

And then let yourself be there.

Bring some loving kindness,

Just some kindness to yourself for whatever you're feeling right now,

Physical pain,

Emotional pain.

Hold yourself with kindness.

You're not the only one.

So may we all be free from our pain and our suffering.

May we all have happiness.

Meet your Teacher

Diana WinstonNYC

4.6 (783)

Recent Reviews

Paula

April 28, 2022

This guidance offers useful practice in the arts of noticing the mind and heart and discerning different aspects of the mind and heart. It also guided listeners in noticing a difficult interview part with kindness SMS equanimity.

Mia

January 27, 2022

Lovely meditation. Yes it helped to focus on the more positive areas. Thank you. Namaste πŸ™

Usha

January 19, 2022

Thank you for this simple and effective focus to calm both mind and body!

Laura

January 11, 2022

Going back and forth from tight shoulders to relaxed feet helped relieve the pain in my shoulders and nexk area. I was skeptical at first. I thought the discomfort would expand, but it’s the relaxed state that expands while the stressed area begins to dissipate. I relaxed and was half asleep before I realized the session had ended.

Lisa

January 6, 2022

Thank you for that healing message I will do what you suggested today and concentrate on the 75% that feels good!

Liza

December 26, 2021

That was great! Isolated some tension in my body after a challenging day and felt lighter by the end.

Nicola

December 17, 2021

Thank you, a clear reminder it’s ok to acknowledge the body’s response to stress

Kyra

December 7, 2021

One of the very best for physical anxiety and unpleasant body sensations.

Kerry

September 17, 2021

This was a great way to connect and resolve! Thank you!

Joanna

September 17, 2021

Awesome Thank you

Jeannine

September 17, 2021

That was wonderful & helpful πŸ₯°

Rosemary

September 17, 2021

Very calming, a very effective practice for me. Thank you… πŸ™πŸŒΈπŸ¦‹

Janelle

September 17, 2021

Exactly what I needed today. Beautiful reminder to treat our own selves with grace, compassion and kindness. Thank you πŸ™πŸ’™

Heleen

March 31, 2020

Very effective and beautiful meditation ❀ This exercise has been one of my favorites for years, since I first found Diana's meditations online. Thank you for introducing me to meditation and mindfulness Diana! πŸ™πŸ’•

Gail

December 11, 2019

Very helpful! Thanks 😊

joe

December 6, 2019

Thank you Namaste

Jody

December 6, 2019

Truly lovely and skillful. This is exactly what I needed just now. I have worked with this approach before, but not for a long time, and it is so helpful and so grounding and so valuable. Thank you very very much. This is going to become a staple in my library. Your tone and style of speaking is also really kind and easeful. Thank you again.

Loretta

December 6, 2019

Thank you for teaching me a wonderful new tool!

Nora

December 6, 2019

This really eased my tension and emotional pain. Wonderful. Thanks.

Stephanie

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So valuable. One of my favorites, when needed. This really helps on so many levels. I would even love a longer version of this. Diana Winston truly has a gift. Grateful!

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