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Theory - Why You Are Here & Why You Haven’t Changed (Yet)
In this theory session, you find out why you haven’t (yet) lived up to your true potential. If you haven’t changed yet, that is not your fault. You can change!
In this session, I discuss the myths of change that are holding us back, and I point out what actually matters for change: not willpower, not self-criticism, not great goals, and not doing it big.
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Practice - How To Set Up Your Practice
In this practice session, you will apply the rules of change and design how you will make a habit out of listening to this course. This session is designed to give you the best chances of successfully completing the course.
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Theory - Why You Do What You Do: How Humans Learn New Behavior
In this theory session, you will become aware of how your inner voice influences your learning process. You will challenge the assumption that in order to improve, you need to be hard on yourself.
In this session, you learn how positive emotions and a positive mindset will help you to return to your practice again and again.
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Practice - How To Release Difficult Emotions & Reframe Your Beliefs
In this practice session, you will learn to feel and name difficult emotions, place kind attention on them, and release their intensity. Allowing and releasing these emotions help to not get attached to the negative beliefs that follow if we don’t pay attention to how we feel. We can reframe the stories we tell ourselves by practicing loving-kindness.
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Theory - Why You Are Who You Are
In this theory session, you will become aware of how you identify yourself. What do you say when someone asks you who you are or what you do? We often define ourselves with one or a few labels. In this session, we talk about the limitations you may unconsciously be putting on your capacity for change if you define yourself in this way.
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Practice - How To (Re)Frame Your Identity: From Canal To River
In this practice session, you will re-frame your identity. Defining yourself broadly and flexibly allows you to loosen rigidity around what you need to achieve. It allows you to live true to how you really want to spend your life, instead of shooting straight towards a fixed goal that needs to validate who you are.
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Theory - Who Do You Wish To Become?
In this theory session, you will find out (more about) who you wish to become. We will explore your aspirations to build a new identity, and expand your understanding of how you can build a new identity with the use of the river metaphor.
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How To Identify Your River & Its Streams
In this practice session, you will define who you wish to become, and which qualities and behaviors will help you to become that person. You will put the river metaphor into practice, visualizing who you want to become: the river, and what you need to do in order to become that person: the streams that feed the river.
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Theory - Why The Key To Change Is Specific Behavior
In this theory session, you will learn about the importance of behavior. Far too often, we focus on goals, intentions, and on confidence. What we should focus on, is clearly defining, with precision, exactly what behavior is needed to change.
The key to change is not goals, not intentions, not confidence, the key to change is consistent behavior.
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Practice - How To Select Your Super Source
In this practice session, you will select the sources you need to feed your streams. We will select specific behaviors that are easy to do, enjoyable to do, and have a big impact on your river. At the end of this session, you will have selected a super source: a behavior you will start with that has the highest chances of becoming a consistent source for your river.
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Theory - Why The Learning Loop Affects Your Future Behaviors
In this theory session, you will expand your knowledge about how you learn behavior. You will explore the learning loop, a sequence of events in your brain and body that follows the same pattern every time you learn and consolidate behavior.
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Practice - How To Design Your Learning Loop
In this practice session, you will implement your knowledge about how you learn behavior. You will design your own learning loop, identify the right cue, the right reason, the right ability level, and the right reward.
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Theory - Why Seasons Will Affect The Waterflow & Why The Optimal Environment Is Essential
In this theory session, you will become aware of the inevitability of seasonal changes, and the importance of designing the environment of your super source with care. Building your super source can be easy if you design it well, changing your identity is a process that needs to run its course and will come with seasons.
Patience and consistency are the keys to a sustainable water cycle.
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Practice - How To Spring The Source
Amazing! You have been consistent with your practice. By now, you may start to feel that yes you can change!
In this last session, you will spring your super source. Combining everything you have learned over the past 13 sessions; you leave this session with your personal roadmap to change. It is time for you to start walking!
Thank you for practicing with me, I am honored to witness the start of a great journey.