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The Harpy In Your Head

by Betsy Johnson

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Inhale. Exhale. When life gets hard, it’s easy to forget to breathe deeply. So let’s do that again. Inhale—like you mean it. Now exhale and let. it. go. Do you have a harpy who has taken up permanent residence in your head? If so, then this one’s for you. Welcome to a Hit of Hope, and this is another one that is definitely salty.

BreathingNegative Self TalkSelf CompassionPersonificationHopeFocused BreathingPositive Affirmations

Transcript

Inhale and exhale.

When life gets hard,

When we get stressed,

It's easy to forget to breathe.

So let's do that again.

Inhale like you mean it.

Now exhale and let it go.

Do you have a harpy who has taken up permanent residence in your head?

If so,

Then this one's for you.

Welcome to a hit of hope,

And this is another one that is definitely salty.

It's easy to let that harpy in your head have its way,

Isn't it?

To let the negative tapes run endlessly.

And this harpy can have so much power over us.

It can break us if we let it.

But let's not let it break us,

Shall we?

What if we give that harpy a name?

How about Cruella?

You know,

As in Cruella DeVille from Disney's 101 Dalmatians?

For those of you who might be unfamiliar with this character,

She is someone who skins puppies to make herself a fur coat.

She loves to hurt the innocent,

The joyful.

And maybe this resembles the character who stands inside your head with a boombox,

Much like that famous scene with Lloyd Dobler in the movie Say Anything,

Where he stands outside the girl's window with a boombox on his shoulder,

Blasting Peter Gabriel's In Your Eyes.

Except this Cruella in your head probably isn't playing you love songs.

She's blasting you with all of the things you've done wrong,

All of the ways you've fallen short,

All of the ways you've fucked up again.

Hi there,

Cruella.

We see you.

And you know what?

We no longer need your services.

We're ready to have a different character take up residence in our heads.

And we choose Charlotte from Charlotte's Web.

Charlotte,

You see,

Is used to hanging out in the dark corners.

She's used to watching kindly and with interest.

And she's ready to step up to remind those thrashing around in the shit.

She's ready to say,

You are good.

You are terrific.

You are radiant.

Charlotte is willing to work all night to compose beautiful messages,

Things to remind you and everyone around that you are worth saving.

You are worth cheering on.

God,

It is so easy to buy into Cruella's bullshit,

Isn't it?

But let's tell her to pack up her boombox and get out.

Listen to Charlotte.

You are terrific.

You are radiant.

You.

Yes,

You.

Please.

Listen to Charlotte.

You are radiant.

You are radiant.

Meet your Teacher

Betsy JohnsonCastle Danger, MN, USA

4.7 (203)

Recent Reviews

deb

February 2, 2026

You are amazing and get all the right stuff about struggling. You are a Rockstar

James

June 9, 2024

Betsy has a way of messaging that you feel deeply. Thank you for your positive energy!

Michelle

May 20, 2024

Radiant......what a wonderful reminder 🎗️💙🕉️💙🎗️

Leslie

February 7, 2024

Another wonderful meditation from this teacher. Makes me want to go back and read Charlottes Web. Really appreciated the you, yes you are terrific. Many thanks.

Robin

September 9, 2023

Okay but the first time my inner Charlotte tells me that I'm "some pig" 😂😂😂 (IYKYK) Yes, I have the literary jokes... but this was a fantastic meditation.

Nancy

June 20, 2023

Yes I sure am, radient!! Thx for reminding me. Enjoy today Betsy.

Sloth

June 12, 2023

After listening to this I know that I am trying my hardest to jump into the negative talk in my head ASAP Zander’s remind myself of all the good I did for “my kiddos” in 3rd grade for 26 years. I work as an aide in school now and thought I could make this simpler and share it with the kids. So many call themselves dumb, stupid,idiot when things get to be challenging for them. It’s so sad when I hear them say those words and I do my best to let them know that things can be hard for me, but I tell myself that eventually I will understand the concepts and they will too because I tell them that they are “my champions, my warriors, and my winners”! I turn tears into smiles and hugs. I am sad that many children may only hear positive messages from me and I would LOVE to adopt them and fill their hearts with minds with joy and happiness 🦋

Lisa

March 21, 2023

Perfect! Thank you. I’m unable to play your latest track so I dipped into the archives and-of course-it was what I needed. Thank You Betsy.

brigid

November 29, 2020

Betsy you friggin rock!

🌬Belle🥀

November 20, 2020

Oh how I need to get rid of cruela😖!! Thank you so much for this🙏

Lynda

March 30, 2020

Love. Love. Love this. I have been working on silencing the Harpy in my head. This was spot on. 💙🙏

Kim

March 25, 2020

Perfect timing! Thank you 💕

Lynne

March 16, 2020

I appreciate how raw and real you are. Peace, love, and a little go smudge yourself fits my reality perfectly!

kiki

March 15, 2020

🙏Betsy, I LOVE how you keep it real - it’s such a relief!! (I just wish you could put an S for Salty rating upfront so the people who get so freakin offended would know just not to listen!) I love your authenticity and down to Earth🌎 insights!!! Thank you! 🙏 🙏 🙏 ❤️

Sue

March 14, 2020

Love this! I actually felt radiant!

Nancy

March 13, 2020

Yes! Yes! Yes! A message we all need to hear. Self compassion means we can be more compassionate with others.

Lotus

March 13, 2020

Awesome!!! I love this! Exactly what I needed this morning. Namaste 🙏

KJ

March 13, 2020

Totally unconventional and totally delightful!!

Julie

March 13, 2020

Fierce and fun! Love it! Thank you!🤎

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