05:11

Conflict Resolution

by AJ Bicât

Rated
4.1
Type
guided
Activity
Meditation
Suitable for
Everyone
Plays
3.2k

This practice removes obstacles to resolution by reframing conflict as an entirely compassionate and human interaction. Harness your very own powerful energies of love and kindness to put new momentum into the places that need it most and to bring the perspectives of those who are in conflict closer together. Use the pause feature during the practice if you wish to spend more time with each section.

Conflict ResolutionCompassionHuman InteractionLoveKindnessConflictBody AwarenessLoving KindnessEmpathyEmpathy PracticeRelationship HealingBreathing AwarenessLoving Kindness MeditationsPosturesRelationshipsVisualizationsPerspective

Transcript

Make sure you're sitting comfortably with your feet flat on the floor,

Your buttocks on the seat,

Your back away from the backrest if your back is strong,

And your hands on your thighs.

Bring all of your attention and all of your awareness to your body just as you would to start any other practice.

Breathe in through your nose and gently become aware of the breath entering the boundaries of your body and leaving the boundaries of your body.

Allow yourself to willfully and deliberately relax any parts of your body that you know to be tense.

And while you're at it,

Drop your shoulders,

Relax your tongue,

And generally pull yourself into a gently relaxed and comfortable position.

Take your breaths just as they come,

Not breathing particularly fast,

Not breathing particularly slow,

Just allowing your breath to come in and come out,

And gently observe the physical sensation of the breath.

Now when you feel comfortable,

When you feel ready,

Picture yourself in a room sitting on a chair.

Allow a loved one to enter the room,

Someone who has only love,

Kindness,

Compassion,

And patience for you.

Someone with whom you can really feel the love,

The kindness,

The compassion,

The patience,

The generosity that they have for you.

And share this,

The same love,

Compassion,

Kindness,

Generosity,

Patience,

And grace with them.

And when you're ready,

When you feel comfortable moving on,

Allow your loved one to leave and invite a friend into the room.

Someone with whom you also have a great deal of empathy and understanding and love and kindness and compassion.

And allow yourself to share that love and kindness,

That compassion with your friend.

And when you feel ready,

When you feel comfortable moving on,

Allow your friend to leave and invite into the room a work colleague.

Not necessarily a friend,

But certainly an acquaintance,

Perhaps someone you work with every day.

And again,

In the spirit of love and kindness and compassion and patience and empathy,

All those positive human characteristics,

Share that same energy,

That same feeling with your work colleague or acquaintance.

And when you feel ready,

When you feel comfortable moving on,

Allow your work colleague to leave the room.

And this time,

Take an extra deep breath and invite someone who you're having difficulties with at work into the room.

Someone who perhaps you're finding it difficult to work with,

Or you are disagreeing on a point which you feel passionate about,

And they do too.

When they come into the room,

Practice the same loving kindness that you practiced with your loved one,

Your friend,

And your other work colleague.

Allow yourself to share those human qualities of empathy,

Compassion,

Patience,

Love and kindness with this person too.

And when you feel ready,

When you feel comfortable moving on,

Allow your work colleague to leave the room and slowly come back to clock time,

Gently wiggling your fingers,

Wiggling your toes,

Slowly allowing your eyes to open.

You can come back quickly,

You can come back slowly,

It really doesn't matter.

Meet your Teacher

AJ BicâtOxfordshire, United Kingdom

4.1 (245)

Recent Reviews

Kylee

April 10, 2022

I’m going to practice this daily for a while. I logged in searching for a path of love through a place currently filled with conflict This is it. Much thanks!

Candace

March 8, 2022

Excellent process for approaching conflict with compassion.

Peter

October 3, 2021

Very simple, approachable, direct, calming. No assumptions about shared metaphysical frameworks, no patronising. If I can make a small suggestion, it might help some people if it were suggested in the printed intro to press the pause button when we process the mental encounter with different ‘others’. Also, the conflict which brought me here was not with a colleague but with my wife, whom I love deeply but, in the way of things, with whom conflicts sometimes arise. (This was not hard to work around). Thanks, five stars.

Tiffanie

April 18, 2021

Thanks 🙏🏾 4/17/21

Emily

March 8, 2021

Of course, all we need is love, compassion and empathy! Thank you for this beautiful practice

kindall

January 22, 2021

Thank you! This is very helpful

Melissa

January 12, 2020

Update on the call. The call went better than I ever hoped. I was even more of the mindset for empathy and understanding after this meditation. Walking through the visuals of this meditation was magical. Thank you again! Thank you!! I have a very hard conversation with a client coming up and needed this meditation to give empathy and understanding. ❤️

James

July 30, 2019

Extremely helpful. Thank you.

Michael

July 9, 2019

A form of loving kindness meditation. ❤️🙏

Joseph

July 9, 2019

Great!! Thank You 🙏🏼

Jean

July 8, 2019

Beautiful effective exercise! Thank you

Odalys

July 7, 2019

👍💓😇🙏👼👼🏻👼🏼👼🏽👼🏾👼🏿🙏💓💯

Iris

July 7, 2019

Super practice 2 connect 🧘🏼‍♀️🙏🎯

More from AJ Bicât

Loading...

Related Meditations

Loading...

Related Teachers

Loading...
© 2026 AJ Bicât. All rights reserved. All copyright in this work remains with the original creator. No part of this material may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means, without the prior written permission of the copyright owner.

How can we help?

Sleep better
Reduce stress or anxiety
Meditation
Spirituality
Something else