The feeling of being loved is not something that we get from other people.
So when we say,
I want to feel loved,
I want to meet someone and I want to feel loved.
The only place you can have the feeling of someone loving you is from first having the feeling of loving yourself.
And that means being loved in action.
So how do we be loved?
Being loved means I accept all of who I am.
Being in love means I have released any resentment,
Bitterness,
Anger,
Judgment,
Criticism towards myself.
So am I hard about anything in the past that I've ever done to hurt anyone?
Have I ever been angry at myself about something that I've done?
Is there a part of me that I don't like physically,
Mentally,
Emotionally,
The way that I am?
Where do I resist myself?
Where do I challenge my connection with myself?
So am I hard on myself about anything?
Am I judgmental or critical about anything about myself,
Any qualities about myself?
A way to love ourselves more is to be accepting of our shortcomings,
Accepting of the things that we want to work on and improve.
We're patient with ourselves.
We acknowledge that wherever we're at in our journey is perfect for us.
So the more I love myself,
The more I actually speak up in my relationships.
The more I love myself,
The more I prioritize self care.
The more I love myself,
The more I make time to just appreciate,
Be grateful,
Myself and others.
Because whatever I am with myself is going to translate into how others treat me.
So if I make time to appreciate myself,
Self care,
Exercise,
Eating healthy,
Fitness,
Having healthy thoughts,
I'm going to attract people that prioritize themselves and prioritize me in their life.
So I want to feel loved means I already have felt loved with myself,
Which creates then a magnet pulling inwards,
Coming to you of someone loving you,
Someone being able to actually give to you because you know how to receive already yourself.
So if we're not receiving people that want to give to us and love us,
That's a feedback that we can have about our own self relationship that we can strengthen more giving back to ourselves.
So when we say,
Oh,
You know,
He never prioritizes me,
He doesn't stay,
He doesn't make me a priority,
That translates into feedback for you about,
Oh,
Where am I not prioritizing myself?
Where am I checking out and leaving myself for others?
So we can just look at relationships like that and then where we are at,
What kind of people we're attracting is just giving us feedback for where we are at with our inner relationship with ourself.
And that's all relationships are is reflections of where we're at in our own relationship with ourself.
Amazing,
Right?
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