Transform Negative Thinking - Defusion To Reframe Thoughts

This meditation is designed to help you navigate and reframe challenging thoughts. You will begin by grounding yourself, then gently examine a specific negative thought through two clear questions: "Is this thought accurate?" and "Is this thought helpful?" Using these questions as a guide, you'll gain clarity about whether the thought serves you.

Through defusion techniques, like using phrases such as "I'm noticing the thought that…" or "I feel like…," you'll create space between yourself and the thought, reducing its emotional intensity. Finally, you'll transform the thought's energy into something uplifting and constructive, leaving you with a sense of peace, empowerment, and renewed focus.

Benefits of this Meditation:

Increased self-awareness and mindfulness around thought patterns.
Reduced emotional attachment to negative or unhelpful thoughts.
Greater ability to transform mental energy into positive, constructive states.
A sense of clarity and calm to carry through your day.

Transcript

Hello and welcome to this meditation designed to help you transform negative thoughts into more positive energy.

Together we will explore a process of recognizing your thoughts,

Creating space between yourself and those thoughts,

And discovering a path to greater clarity and peace.

As always,

Let's begin by finding a comfortable position.

Let your body settle in.

Gently close your eyes or soften your gaze.

Take a deep breath in through your nose,

Exhaling fully through your mouth.

Feel the weight of your body supported by the surface beneath you.

Take a moment to simply notice your breath as it flows naturally in and out.

Allow your shoulders to soften,

Your jaw to relax,

And your whole body to settle into stillness.

Now bring your awareness to your mind.

Without trying to change anything,

Notice if a particular thought is present.

It might be a recurring worry,

A self-critical thought,

Or a fear that's been lingering.

In order to challenge these thoughts,

When you're ready,

Ask yourself these two questions.

First,

Is this thought accurate?

And second,

Is the thought helpful?

Answer these questions honestly with a simple yes or no.

There's no need to analyze or judge,

Just observe the answer as it arises.

Is this thought accurate and is this thought helpful?

If the answer to either or both is no,

This is a good reminder that this thought may not serve you and is likely creating a negative experience for you that isn't necessarily attached to reality.

Take a moment to sit with the suffering created by believing a thought that is not helpful or true.

This is a common human experience and one that we are working to both acknowledge and shift.

In order to create some space between you and this thought,

We will use diffusion.

This can sound like,

I'm noticing the thought that.

For example,

If the thought is I'm not good enough,

You might say,

I'm noticing the thought that I'm not good enough.

You may also use a phrase like,

I feel like.

For instance,

I'm falling short,

Is very different from,

I feel like I'm falling short.

Notice how these phrases allow the thought to step back,

Giving you room to observe it rather than simply believing it as truth.

Try practicing using one of these methods to create some distance between you and your thought.

Now imagine this thought as a cloud in the sky,

Watching it gently drift away,

Clearing away the darkness and opening up to a beautiful open sky.

As the thought cloud drifts away,

Notice how much brighter the sky begins to become.

Feel the energy that thought once held transforming.

Picture it becoming light,

Vibrant,

And uplifting.

Feel the warm glow of the sun as that thought continues to drift away.

Take a moment to notice how it feels to let go of the heaviness of the thought and embrace this positive flowing energy.

To close today,

Take a deep breath in,

Drawing in this newfound lightness,

And exhale,

Letting go of any lingering tension.

Offer yourself gratitude for taking this time to tend to your thoughts and emotions.

Remind yourself that you can return to this practice whenever you need.

When you feel ready,

Gently wiggle your fingers and toes.

Slowly open your eyes if they were closed.

Take a moment to reorient yourself to the space around you,

Carrying this sense of clarity and positive energy into your day.

Thank you so much for practicing with me today.

Well done practicing a new skill,

Diffusion.

See if you can take this skill with you into your day.

Notice when those dark clouds begin to drift back in and try to practice just noticing them with this diffusion.

You've got this.

Take care.

Reviews

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I am especially thankful for bringing this topic here. I was introduced to this tool quite recently and this recording really spoke to me. It made me aware of some previously long-held & tended thoughts that I have released. It made me see how much space and lightness that opened up for me to use in a very creative way. When I am not stuck in a ruminative thought groove of doom… there is so much creativity and joy just skittering about in my thoughts instead. It is almost like that old groove got so deep it was hard to see out of it it over the top of it.
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