Drop Judgment & Transform Everything

Are you someone who struggles with judgment - of others, of yourself, or of the circumstances in your life? Tiger offers a profound and liberating perspective on how spirituality is not about changing the external world, but about transforming your relationship to it by dropping the judgment that blocks the flow of love. He invites you to see beyond the mind's conditioning and perceive the true nature of the people and situations you've been struggling with. He explains how the root issue is not the thing itself, but your own judgment of it - and how releasing that judgment is the key to restoring the love and acceptance that can heal your relationships and your relationship with yourself.

Transcript

We assume that we're going to discover some spiritual insight and then something out there is going to change.

Even in ourselves,

Right?

Something will finally change.

That thing that we've been judging will finally get fixed.

But here's what actually happens.

You transform your relationship with the thing.

The thing doesn't change at all.

You see,

Everything we are struggling with,

Whether it's parents or whatever,

What's so problematic is your judgment of the thing.

You're withholding love of the thing because it's not how you want it to be,

Which is your judgment.

And so the worldly path is,

How can I gain control over the thing to transform it in a way so I don't have to judge it anymore?

We do this in relationships,

Right?

How can I fix you so that I don't judge you anymore?

If only you would be like this and not like that,

That I could be at peace.

And we do that with ourselves,

Right?

We look at ourselves and we say,

Hmm,

I don't like you.

I need you to change.

And we find out it doesn't work in the world,

So we go to spirituality and we bring the same mindset.

Okay,

How can I use spirituality to make that thing change?

But that's not what spirituality is trying to do.

Spirituality is inviting you to just drop the judgment and to see that it's the judgment that is the issue,

Not the thing,

Right?

It's not life that is the problem.

It's seeing life as a problem that is the problem.

It's not your parents that are a problem.

It's seeing your parents as a problem that is the problem.

It's not death that is the problem.

It's thinking that death is a problem that is the problem.

Because when you step back and see what these things really are,

Like we do in these sessions,

Is you're seeing that they don't need your judgment.

You get a bigger picture of it.

You're like,

Oh,

I see what you really are.

I can love now.

This is what we want.

We want to restore the flow of love.

And so why is the love not flowing?

Because there's judgment.

Why can I not love my parents?

Because there's judgment.

Why can I not love myself?

Because there's judgment.

And why is there judgment?

Because you don't see what it really is.

Just like the parent,

You're seeing your idea of a parent.

You're seeing your parent compared to your idea,

Right?

So you're not even seeing reality.

You're seeing the mind's conditioning.

And spirituality is the invitation to look at what's there beyond the mind.

And you open up the aperture and you're like,

Oh,

That's not what I thought it was.

That's not in the way.

And then love flows.

Reviews

Thanks Tiger. There is always room for a switch in perspective. Mirror that sheit back to you right, Bec you are the world you see.. you either think it into being or you go on being a victim to your world once it hatched. I don't know why this didn't stick yrs ago cuz I've heard this b4, it's probably Bec therapist tend to make ish harder to grasp than it has to be. It clearer after I heard it last wk and now again. Thank you. Saved to my folders.

It’s seeing something as a problem that makes it a problem. Drop judgements and comparison to the idea we think someone or something should be, so love can flow. Thank you!

Thank you 🙏🏻

Wow! This should be mandatory listening material for all humans. Profound, yet simple and direct. Many, many thanks for this insight. ❤️🌞🙏

Thank you Tiger. Your explanation of judgement really opened my eyes today.

That was incredible! It was freeing and heart opening and super cool! Thank you!

Just the wake up I needed! Eyes and heart are open. Thank you for this awakening reminder 🙏

Drop the judgment, let love flow ✨️🤍 this was powerful, thank you.

I finally think I’ve got it! Thank you, this was revelatory 🙏

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LOVE

Love it

I loved this 🙌 thank you 💕

One to keep listening to your heart really receives it.

you always get me thinking- in a good way- thanks Tiger 🙏❤️🦋🙏❤️🦋🙏❤️🦋🙏❤️🦋🙏

So profound and wise 🙏 and I really appreciate the micro dose! I don’t have a ton of time sometimes and these short talks are PERFECT to reset and open 🙏💥

I can see how true this surely is, and appreciate the nudge to put this in the forefront of awareness for my healing.

Your laughing at the 'aha' moments with your own self, always make me laugh with you & bring me such joy!🤩