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Engaged Spirituality During Times Of Upheaval

by Tara Brach

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During these turbulent times, most of us wonder how do we hold enormous collective suffering? How do we hold the emotions of fear and anger in our hearts? Tara offers guidance on how to respond in a healing way and a wise heart to all these human-generated suffering.

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Transcript

Namaste.

Greetings,

My friends.

So thank you for being here,

Being with us.

I recently received an email,

A very caring,

Dedicated woman who is in our meditation teacher training program.

She lives in Europe close to Ukraine and really close,

Right close into the heart of the violence that is unfolding with over a million refugees from the war and she wanted guidance,

You know,

How do we hold such a huge collective suffering,

You know,

How do we hold the emotions of fear and anger and in our hearts and how do we respond in a healing way?

And I have been in touch with so many expressing grief and despair and outrage and fear.

And of course it's not towards the Russian people.

I was struck by one video of a young man who had been taken prisoner in Ukraine and he was talking to his mother who was in Russia and they were both weeping.

He hadn't known he was going to war.

So there is the horrors of violence and of course it's happening around the globe,

The genocide of the Rohingya and Myanmar and the war in South Sudan,

Wars in Colombia,

Syria and beyond,

Just all over.

And,

You know,

While violence against others has been this basic weave in our history,

In the history of our species,

It's heartbreaking to have to keep reckoning with what we are capable of in the twenty-first century,

You know,

The war and genocide,

The growing movement towards authoritarianism and the decline of existing democracies just are continued violating of our larger body,

This earth.

So on a path of awakening a real deep inquiry for us is how do we respond with a wise heart to this human-generated suffering?

And this is the domain of what's sometimes described as engaged spirituality.

I think of it as love in action which really is bringing our spiritual values of compassion and mindfulness and really respect for all beings,

Bringing that into the way we respond to our world.

So this is what we'll be exploring in this talk,

Reflecting Together.

And we'll look at three primary blocks to engage spirituality.

And there are really three ways that we react to suffering.

And one of them is with anger and blame,

Kind of that aggressive bad othering.

And another one is that we dissociate,

We kind of cut off from what's happening.

And then a third that we'll talk about is getting emotionally overwhelmed by what's happening.

But I'd like to start in a different place which is really what energizes and inspires engaged spirituality.

And that really is this realizing of our human potential that we have a vision of something more that's possible.

Because as many know it's written in the gospel that without a vision people perish.

And I often think in an evolutionary sense that our human brain has tripled in volume over the last several million years.

And a major cause of this has been that our relational capacities,

Our social capacities for empathy,

For bonding,

For compassion,

For collaboration,

They serve our species.

And those are the qualities we most need today.

So not only do we have them,

These pro-social qualities,

They're actually hardwired in for our surviving and flourishing.

And if we view the species over the many centuries,

We can see how these capacities have shaped our trajectory because there's generally less violence,

There's less tolerance for torture,

For rape,

For slavery,

For civilian killing,

There's more collaboration around the globe in addressing poverty and disease and natural disasters.

And under all of that there's this increasing capacity to connect across difference,

To realize our belonging to each other.

I saw a cartoon and in it there was this big wolf and a pretty little lamb and they're sitting at a table and they're in an intimate conversation,

You know,

Holding paws,

Their eyes into eyes,

And she's saying,

You know,

We should be more concerned about your parents' reaction.

And generation by generation in much of this interconnected world we are getting more fluid and more tolerant.

And it's happening.

We're widening our sense of belonging beyond differences in race or religion,

Sexual orientation,

Gender identity,

Many domains.

So the evolution of consciousness over the longer stretch of history,

Less violence,

More evidence of our capacity for love.

And I think for me the most compelling evidence is when I sense my own unfolding and I bear witness to so many of you.

I mean if you look at your own evolving in the past years,

Can you see how you've become kinder or more present or caring more about being kind and present because that counts,

You know,

More responsive to other people's suffering?

I mean my sense is if we can feel that awakening of consciousness in ourselves and then others around us it's happening,

It's happening around the world.

And it's natural that evolution towards a more compassionate world isn't smooth.

It's fits and starts.

And I guess we're in a real fit right now.

But there is a dialectic.

And,

You know,

If you look through the… in the last let's say 30 years we can see progress,

You know,

We can see I think of restorative justice,

You know,

Learning to reconcile conflicts and difference nonviolently and growing a more real democracy.

And,

You know,

So there is this progress that happens and then backlash.

There is white supremacy that becomes more in its fullness,

Laws against refugees – and this is in the US and Europe – then the United States a growing percentage saying violence against government is legitimate,

You know,

Restrictions on abortion,

Voter rights,

Banning books.

And then this is all the last few years,

You know,

Outlawing the teaching of real history.

So it's what we sometimes call a limbic hijack.

It's a swing back.

And this happens.

This happens through history.

And there is huge suffering in it.

And if we want to keep moving forward we have to recognize the realness of it.

But here is what's important.

The qualities that can move us forward – which really are mindful presence,

Compassion,

A real cherishing of life – they are in us and they can be cultivated.

In other words – and this is to me the big deal – we can actually consciously shape our evolution.

We can further it.

It requires having vision.

You know,

It requires being able to sense what is the world we want to see emerge from these challenging times.

Because if you think of it,

One of the most notable things about spiritual leaders – you know,

Martin Luther King Jr.

,

Mahatma Gandhi,

Nelson Mandela – and also about transformative social movements,

You know,

Abolitionism,

The movements for social justice and so on – there is a vision of the world that we sense is possible.

There is a vision of a world that expresses our human potential.

And vision needs to be real in our consciousness before it manifests as real in the world.

You know,

It calls us forward,

It evolves us,

It energizes us.

You know,

I think of the vision of Ruby Sales who is a living spiritual leader – she is deeply inspiring to me – African-American social activist who is also a scholar and a theologian.

Ruby has a wonderful way of describing true democracy.

And it's not inviting excluded people to the white table but together creating a new table,

You know,

One that honors the contributions and values of all people equally.

And I listened to Ruby kind of describe this vision and I just want to hold hands with her and with others and create that table.

It's so compelling.

So we need vision,

We need to start with vision.

And I'd like to invite us all to pause for a moment and let the attention go inward.

Take this as a moment to arrive.

And just sense for yourself what that means,

This vision of what's possible.

Sense for yourself what do you really long to see unfold in our world?

You know,

We think of the word imagine,

Most know the song imagine,

John Lennon,

And why it touches us so much.

There is something that we long for,

That we can sense is possible but not here yet.

What is it?

Maybe it's a sense of a non-violent world where there is peaceful civil ways of resolving conflict.

Maybe democratic governments where each citizen truly is treated equitably,

Where there is mutual trust between people.

Or maybe it's this world where we really take care of the vulnerable including non-human animals,

Including the earth.

What is it you envision?

In cultivating engaged spirituality we start with vision and possibility and then we honestly look at what's between us and the world we believe in.

And you might think of this,

That we already have the science,

The resources,

The technology,

The capacity to problem-solve that's needed to respond to climate change in a way that avoids the worst catastrophes,

That handles pandemics in a way that can eliminate poverty,

Bring good medicine,

Education to everyone on earth.

We have the science.

So what stops us?

And it's really greed for money,

For power,

Hatred,

That bad othering,

And then the aggression that's used to enforce power to eliminate the bad other.

And then the fear that's unprocessed and keeps us reactive.

Greed,

Hatred,

Aggression,

Fear.

You know,

One general of the army,

Omar Bradley,

Wrote,

Ours is a world of nuclear giants and ethical infants.

We know more about war than we know about peace,

More about killing than we know about living.

We've grasped the mystery of the atom and rejected the sermon on the mount.

Our real challenge is not a lack of know-how,

Nor is it a particular bad actor.

The real challenge is when the universal and primitive energies of greed and hatred,

Aggression and fear dominate when they take over.

Because when they take over they disconnect us from the more recently evolved capacities for reason and empathy and love.

And you can see the mark of the primitive energies and the values and assumptions of most contemporary cultures.

And just to name one is the green light on aggression,

The attraction to strong men leaders,

The rightness of leading with military might,

Aggression.

One New Yorker cartoon had two highly decorated generals talking to each other and one saying,

I had a bad dream last night,

It really shook me.

The meek had inherited the earth.

So the cause of suffering,

The domination of greed,

Hatred,

Aggression,

Fear,

It's in every human heart.

I mean I think of Zen master and lifelong peace activist Thich Nhat Hanh saying,

We often think of peace as the absence of war,

That if powerful countries would reduce their weapon arsenals we could have peace.

But if we look deeply into the weapons we see our own minds,

Our own prejudices,

Fears and ignorance.

So if we want to pursue a path aligned with our heart we have to ask ourselves how might these energies be in me,

How may they be blocking moving forward?

And we start with anger and blame because I know for myself I don't think of myself as filled with hatred and aggression.

But I can see daily how easy it is for me to react to the suffering in the world by focusing on a bad other,

A group of people or a bad actor.

And I know this creates separation,

It's the root of war and I'm also not alone,

It's entirely natural to do that.

And yet unless we do the inner work – you know,

Mindfully,

Compassionately uprooting what Thich Nhat Hanh is pointing to that's in each of us – we are perpetuating the energies that cause suffering.

And perhaps one of the most well-known verses from the Buddha scriptures is this,

That hatred never ceases by hatred but by love alone is healed,

That this is the ancient and eternal law.

So for our words and actions to be transformational,

To help evolve our world,

They must come from a spiritually awakening heart.

Gandhi famously took a day a week for just spiritual practice.

And people would,

You know,

Try to get in touch with him but he was religious about carving out this day.

And he did,

He said,

Because he wanted to ensure that his activism was coming from his heart,

From his spirit.

In a similar way Nelson Mandela practiced daily meditation through the course of his imprisonment,

You know,

Really dedicated to cultivating the good.

And as many of you know on that February day in 1990 when he walked out of prison he said he forgave all who had imprisoned him,

Tortured him and murdered his countrymen.

This is what he wrote,

"'No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin or his background or religion.

They must learn to hate and if they can learn to hate they can be taught to love for love comes more naturally to the human heart than the opposite.

Love comes more naturally.

' And we know this.

In the deepest ways we know that when we feel most at home in our being it's when we're feeling loving.

And we have to learn love,

We have to actively train in it because we're in cultures that train us to bad other each other,

To have enemies.

" Again I think of Thich Nhat Hanh.

Many know his peace activism started during the Vietnamese war.

Well he and the monks and nuns that were with him refused to take sides so that the US suspected they were Viet Cong and the Viet Cong considered them the enemy.

And so there they were.

And they were really young,

Late teens,

Early twenties,

This group of monks and nuns.

And one night their encampment was bombed and all but a few of them were killed.

Survivors were asked to make a statement.

And I'll never forget this.

This was just a few days after losing dear ones.

And he said,

"'All are forgiven.

This violence was done out of ignorance.

'" So I'll just speak personally for a few minutes on this theme that I was involved with social activism starting in my late teens.

And it was before I had a spiritual practice and I was en route to law school.

And then midway through undergraduate work in college I started yoga and meditation.

So I started experiencing this really disconcerting swing where I'd go to… Like on the weekends I'd go to rallies and meetings and so on.

And it would be very us-them,

Real strident see and aggression,

You know,

The enemy out there and police officers were referred to as pigs and those were total distrust,

Dismissal of anyone that wasn't,

You know,

Completely in line with a certain set of beliefs.

You get the idea.

This is not love in action.

And then on Tuesday nights I'd go to my yoga class and meditate and this peace and harmony and open-heartedness.

And,

You know,

I remember one particular occasion where my body and mind were in the very same place at the same time.

There was a real oneness and it became so clear that this loving place was home and this was my true nature and that any action,

You know,

For social change it had to come from this,

You know,

Had to have my work,

My life come from this.

So it was a hundred and eighty degree turn,

You know,

Instead of going to law school I spent ten years in an ashram and then left and got deeply involved with the Buddhist path.

And over the years increasingly engaged in activism and it only gets more real for me that our activism has to come from care,

Not from hate and anger.

So it's a daily practice for me.

It continues to be to wake up at a bad othering because the reflex is right in there.

And I share because I know it's deep conditioning for all of us and it's such an important element in moving forward towards more freedom,

More justice,

More healing to be able to face that and work with it.

So we'll pause here.

Just do a brief reflection.

And in this reflection you'll be invited to choose something that stirs you up and that is going on in the world right now that brings up anger and blame,

Bad othering.

And whether it's you're thinking of what's going on in Ukraine or the politics in your own country or other places of suffering,

Let yourself become aware of some place where you're targeting,

Where you're looking at a group or an individual and fixated,

Sensing anger,

Hatred,

Deep aversion.

And if some of you are finding there is none of that going on for you then any place where you're having a reaction that's difficult to what's going on in the world – it might be fear or despair.

And bring it to mind,

Bring to mind what's going on and let yourself focus in on it enough so you can really feel the reaction,

Feel what brings up your anger,

Your blame.

And we'll practice a light rain,

The acronym RAIN,

Which is an acronym for mindfulness and compassion.

And we begin by recognizing,

Just mentally whisper whatever the strongest emotions are that you're aware of.

The A of RAIN is allow,

Let them be there,

Not judging them,

Not trying to fix anything.

The A of RAIN is to investigate,

To sense what you're believing and feeling.

Perhaps you're believing that this person or group is responsible for great suffering and what you're feeling,

Just feel it in your body,

Know where you feel it most strongly – it might be your throat or your chest or your belly – and if it helps just let your body take the posture of anger and blame,

You know,

Maybe fists,

Maybe your jaw is clenched.

And feel deep into it,

Deep,

Deep into the place where you feel it most strongly in your body and just sense what might be under that.

If you let the anger-blame be there but feel under it,

What's it trying to do?

What's the deepest feeling in there?

Is it trying to protect?

Is it trying to help?

Is it trying to change things?

The AIN or NURTURE is to bring a sense of real care towards the most vulnerable part within you.

You might put your hand on your heart.

And just offer kindness.

When we're angry it's because we care about something,

We care deeply.

So just offer kindness to that vulnerability underneath the anger that cares about something.

And breathe and be here and sense as you do that there is a larger presence that you are a part of,

That there is more heart-space.

And you might sense that you are practicing with others and that this collective heart-space can hold what's here.

We don't have to be lost in the stories.

Take a few full breaths and come on back.

So one of the blocks to engage spirituality is responding with a kind of bad othering because it keeps us from the deeper care that's there.

If we stay on the level of you're bad we won't get down to what is really going on under the anger which is that we care about something.

Now I want to explore two other blocks to engage spirituality.

I mentioned them earlier.

You might think of one as being dissociated and the other as being over-associated.

And dissociation appears as kind of being disinterested in the suffering around us – not touch,

Not caring,

Not feeling it affects us – that what's happening doesn't really matter to us.

It reminds me of this coach asked an athlete what was the cause for his poor performance.

He says,

So what is it with you?

Is it ignorance or apathy?

And the response was,

Coach,

I don't know and I don't care.

It's easy to be in our bubble especially when things are stressful,

Handling our own difficulties,

Our own concerns and forget that we belong to a wider hurting world.

And then whatever our expressions of activism,

Whatever our words are,

They are not coming from a tender heart as much as a sense of habit or a sense of should,

You know,

A moral obligation.

There is a word out,

Slacktivism,

Which is a new word for me but it means just minimal output through the Internet.

I wish I hadn't heard it but I can relate.

But more of what we are talking about with dissociation is generally when we do act or speak we are doing what is convenient for us.

You know,

It kind of reminds me of this story of children on a school bus and they are in the back eating treats and one little girl brings a handful of peanuts to the bus driver and he says,

Oh,

Thank you.

How generous.

And she does it a second time,

Brings him some peanuts and he goes,

Oh,

How kind of you.

Thank you.

The third time she brings him a handful he says,

No,

No,

No.

You children keep it.

You enjoy.

And she goes,

Oh,

No.

We are just sucking the chocolate off of them.

So you get the idea.

It is not out of the depth of our caring that we are acting when we are dissociated.

Our heart is not being touched.

So the inquiry is if dissociated what wakes up and widens our caring?

And what it is is something in us knows we are not fully inhabiting our heart and our lives.

And the beginning of coming back is coming back into our bodies just to begin the practices like a body scan of just on purpose feeling our bodies from the inside out with mindfulness,

With kindness.

The second part of this when we are dissociated is to deepen our attention on purpose to suffering.

It's our own suffering and the suffering of others to really attend.

And that means when we are talking about widening circles of suffering,

Learning,

You know,

Tuning to what's going on for others and not the headlines,

A deeper dive where we can really be asking what's it like being you for those that are in positions of real vulnerability,

Reading the books,

Watching the documentaries and most important talking to people who are struggling,

Really listening deeply.

I love the way Ruby Sales describes it that kind of curious care that says,

Where does it hurt?

Where does it hurt?

My son Narayan is 35 and you know for most of his life he was informed but his care was pretty mental,

Pretty abstract,

Kind of dissociated from the world and the world's suffering.

And then he became a dad and things started changing and he became more tender in response to his own experience and his partners and his children especially these last years,

All the stressors of pandemic.

And he started purposely attending and imagining into the experience of others in wider circles,

You know,

Perspective taking like what's it like being you?

And he called me a few days ago because what had broken him open was the story of this terrified Ukrainian woman who was calling and talking to her mother who was in Russia,

A Russian mother,

And she was saying to her mother,

My building is being shelled by the Russian military.

And she was,

You know,

So scared.

And her mother refused to believe her.

Her mother just said,

No,

It couldn't be.

Our government wouldn't do that to you.

And she is saying,

It's happening.

It's happening right now.

We are being shelled.

No,

No,

That can't be happening.

So we are talking about this second block,

Dissociation,

What gets us more attending.

And the word that I love is getting proximate with suffering.

This is from Bryan Stevenson.

Because the more close in we get to what's going on for people the more we'll naturally care.

Now dissociation generally comes from fear.

We are afraid of the wrongness of what's there.

And when we start opening we can easily swing to being over-associated or overwhelmed.

And I think that's what's most prevalent right now.

It's not so easy to turn away from the horrors of the world.

And of course,

You know,

If we are caught in doom-scrolling or if we are in a panic or rage or powerless or traumatized that is more suffering.

It doesn't serve.

So this is the third block which is over-associated,

You know,

Overwhelmed.

And how do we deal with that?

And there are many practices that are individual practices.

We can do grounding,

Feeling the earth underneath us,

You know,

Feeling our senses awake,

Okay,

Right this moment,

Listening,

Seeing,

Breathing,

Extending the breath,

Long deep breathing,

We can practice,

You know,

Moving,

Walking,

Shaking,

Dancing,

We can turn our attention to what brings ease,

You know,

Nature,

Music.

But what I want to most emphasize which is to me a key in working with the overwhelm that gets in the way of engaged spirituality is reaffirming a larger belonging,

Knowing what we belong to that's larger than our individual self.

And this is the importance of being together in what's going on,

You know,

Because our shared awareness has space,

Has heart-space for what's here.

We can't do it alone.

Some of you might know I'm co-founder of what's called the Cloud Sangha and that's mindfulness groups that each have a mentor.

And the primary focus in these last weeks has been reckoning with the suffering of our world,

The grief and despair and powerlessness.

And one person in one of the groups shared that this would have broken me without being able to share with others,

Being able to name what's going on inside her and hear how others are resourcing themselves and widening her view,

You know,

Just feeling part of a larger caring community.

And you might be thinking,

Well,

I don't have a spiritual group with a trained facilitator and certainly,

You know,

Groups like Cloud Sangha help.

And all we really need is even one trusted person who is like us dedicated to engage spirituality and with that person sharing,

Listening.

For some of you who listened to this talk as a webcast on Wednesdays,

There is a mindful dialogue group that meets directly after.

It's a lovely community that's growing fast.

You can find that on tarabrak.

Com slash class.

We need friends.

We need beings that we can share our distress with,

Our fears,

Our despair and our hopes and our vision.

Because here's the thing,

We are more intelligent and wise and caring together.

I often think of a story that a friend and colleague Frank Ostostewski shares.

He gave a workshop in Berlin on grief and forgiveness.

And as the workshop was ending,

A woman in the very back of the room stood up and said,

You know,

I've been listening to you talk about forgiveness but my father was a prisoner in the concentration camps and I can't forgive his killers.

My heart is like ice.

The whole room went silent.

The only appropriate response was to bear witness.

And then another woman on the other side of the room raised her hand to speak.

And Frank was thinking to himself,

Now all the stories of the camps and the grief of those losses will come.

And she stood and she said,

My heart is like ice too.

It feels like a stone.

My father was a Nazi officer who was a guard in the camps.

I know that he killed people.

I can't forgive him.

There was silence.

And then these two women did the bravest thing that Frank says he had ever seen.

He said they made their way across this large conference hall,

200 people,

And they embraced.

They didn't say a word.

They didn't have to.

They just held each other.

They weren't alone in their pain.

And as Frank put it,

For that moment their suffering was all of our suffering.

We need to feel grounded in a larger belonging in order to be able to touch the suffering,

To care and to respond.

Frank has a wonderful question.

He says,

What is love asking from me today?

To me that's an inquiry of engaged spirituality.

What is love asking from me today?

And we can ask ourselves that.

You know,

How is love and action going to look like today?

And we can explore how can we best respond given our own skills and our personalities and the places of most concern,

What most touches us.

We can start intuiting and sensing how we can actively respond.

And for some of us,

You know,

For all of us,

If we are in some version of democracy it's voting and,

You know,

We can give our time to protect and support others in their effort to vote.

Some it means speaking out more publicly,

Some it's writing,

Some it's more demonstrations and protests or peace walks.

For many donating money,

Donating goods,

Donating time to organizations that serve the greater good,

Giving of ourselves however fits us.

But here is what's important.

I found this in my own life that to sustain energy and heart we need to team up with others,

We need to talk and act together,

We really need to know we are part of a larger movement of goodness,

That there is basic goodness in all beings and that we are part of that.

You know,

After the killing of George Floyd,

African-American friend told me about being at a demonstration near the capital in D.

C.

And everybody was chanting there,

Black Lives Matters,

Over and over again.

And when he looked up,

He looked around,

He realized,

Oh,

It's primarily white faces.

And then he started weeping.

You know,

His thought was,

You know,

They care.

And he could feel the goodness of that caring.

And then as he shared… As I heard this story I teared up just feeling his good heart being touched by caring and how much that widened the field of belonging for me.

And that's the rippling and it happens.

Martin Luther King Jr.

I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality.

This is why right,

Temporarily defeated,

Is stronger than evil,

Often.

Truth and love will have the final word in reality.

On your path of engaged spirituality it's this trust in what's possible and this knowledge of belonging to a larger movement of goodness that will carry you forward.

And maybe as a way of closing we can reflect together.

You might take a moment to very consciously pause,

Come into stillness,

Perhaps close your eyes or let your gaze be downcast and feel yourself right here.

And allow yourself to bring to mind a sense of our world,

Both the suffering in our world and also to think of all the people in this world right now that are caring deeply.

Think of the millions of refugees from Ukraine into Poland and how in Poland they don't have to set up a refugee center yet because people are opening their homes.

Think of the care.

Think of all the people who like you and you really want a more peaceful and loving world.

You might think of all those who are consciously working with their own experience trying to wake up more mindfulness,

More kindness,

Those who are dedicated to a path of love and action,

All those trying to make a difference,

Help the most vulnerable.

And just to think of all those in the midst of great suffering who are vulnerable and helping each other through the war,

Through oppression,

Through pandemics,

Through famines,

Through floods and fires,

The goodness.

Again,

All of us here now,

Hearts that care – this caring is our hope,

It's the grounds of what's possible for our species.

And you might remind yourself of what you long for,

For our world.

And feeling millions around the world,

Most beings really deep down longing for the same.

And putting your trust in the power of our human hearts because the more we trust the more we'll let our hearts guide us,

Guide our words and our actions.

We close,

Friends,

With a simple prayer as we feel our shared heart-space.

May consciousness across the globe continue to awaken,

Increasing compassion,

Justice and love.

May there be an end to war.

May we live in a world where all beings are peaceful and happy,

Healthy and free.

Namaste and bless you for your good hearts.

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Tara BrachGreat Falls, VA

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Recent Reviews

Mo

November 16, 2024

Met me where I am. Somewhere in between a part of me that feels an obligation to channel anger into a battle against those meaning harm toward those nost culnerable - and - a part of me that wants to be the peace I want to see in others and in the world. Now to investigate that further with deep curiosity. And to nurture myself and my experience along the way to more clarity. Thank you.

Katie

July 21, 2024

Blissfully and exquisitely grounding, as always with Tara Brach 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟Love To All β€οΈπŸŒπŸ€πŸŒπŸ«‚πŸŒŽβ€οΈ

Nina

June 7, 2024

This reanchored me. Thank you Tara and bless you for your good heart πŸ’›

Judy

February 23, 2023

This meditation so challenging and truly special … than you … Judy Doncaster Australia…

Linda

February 16, 2023

I love Tara. She is a wise and gentle sourtualguide

Maureen

January 27, 2023

A beautiful meditationfor all times. Love, blessings and gratitude.πŸ™πŸ’™

Colleen

October 23, 2022

So helpful to me.So much wisdom to rescue me from falling into hateful othering and overwhelm and despair at all of the war, aggression and greed in the world these days.

Elton

October 13, 2022

A talk, not a meditation as such. Still meditated to it though! Some good reminders and the wise voice of Tara. Thank you.

Lorre

October 9, 2022

The loving powerful message Tara offers is inspired by the deep spiritual healing work of our greatest souls.

khanna

September 16, 2022

Beautiful. Thank you and the prayer to close was perfect at the very end.

Anni

September 12, 2022

I feel more at peace, less alone, less angry, willing to TRY to understand certain behaviour of people close to me, not to blame them, but instead feel this united will and longing for peace and love& freedom& HEALTH….

Rupert

August 6, 2022

Thank you so much for your thoughts and words of support

Lisa

July 9, 2022

Wonderful talk .πŸ’• Let us all envision a world 🌎 of peace and love. Touched on all of the heartbreaking things our planet is going through . Gives hope. Namaste and thank you for your kind heart Tara πŸ’œ

Jolene

July 5, 2022

Thank you so much for this talk. I am trying and working on keeping my heart open. It is difficult. Thank you again for your words πŸ™πŸ„πŸ¦‹

Amanda

May 19, 2022

I feel connected to spirit and guided to love for all πŸ’ž

Silvia

April 11, 2022

Tara, your kindness does half of the speech. The rest is wonderful mindfulness. Thank you πŸ’œ

Mary

April 8, 2022

Thank you Tara for all your wonderful help in this life.

Joe

April 1, 2022

This was precisely what I needed to hear at this moment in time.

Gillian

March 25, 2022

Raked by anxiety administered by disassociation, this talk touched the light in my heart.

Svend-Peter

March 22, 2022

With simplicity and clarity Tara walks right into my heart, bringing forth care and love, from hidden places in my subconscious mind. Namaste Tara and the globe of people πŸ’–

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