Befriending and Opening to Life

Contact and relax with the changing flow, energetically saying yes to whatever arises.

Transcript

The following meditation is led by Tara Brock,

Meditation teacher,

Psychologist and author.

You might close your eyes and then from the inside out make those subtle shifts in sitting so that your posture is upright,

So you are sitting tall,

Sitting in a balanced way,

And sense possibility of relaxing in this uprightness.

Just see what will naturally let go and soften and be more at ease.

As you come into stillness you might let the attention move to the heart area.

Just feel your breath at your heart.

Very simple inquiry.

What is it that brings you here tonight?

Really?

What is your intention?

And as you check for the quality of sincerity because the more you feel sincere about your intention the more you know you are really contacting your heart.

What really matters?

We open together as community with a very simple chant.

The mantra om is the mantra of connectedness.

You might want to bring the palms together to deepen that sense of heart connection.

We will chant three times.

Please inhale deeply.

Om.

And exhale at a Vay,

The two wings of a full attention are the wing of mindfulness,

Of recognizing what's happening right here in this moment.

What is happening?

And the wing of compassion or love that creates a tender space,

A friendly way of relating to what's happening.

It can be helpful in beginning a meditation to create the inner experience of friendliness with the image of a smile.

You might imagine a smile spreading through space,

Filling the whole of the sky,

The curve,

The receptivity,

The openness.

Let your mind merge with that sky so that the whole mind is filled with the luminosity and openness of a smile.

Feel that you could smile into your eyes so that it spreads right through the eyes,

Letting the corners of the eyes be lifted up a bit.

Slight smile at the mouth.

And even sense the inside of the mouth smiling.

And smile into the heart.

Imagine that you're visualizing and feeling that curve of a smile spreading through the heart and the chest area,

Hoping to create the space for whatever is there to be there.

Letting our intention be to befriend the life that's right here,

Moment to moment.

You might relax the shoulders and feel the shoulders from the inside out.

A gentle presence that senses whatever life is inside the shoulders,

There may be tightness or tension,

Pressing,

Squeezing,

Movement,

Flow.

Just filling the shoulders with awareness.

And imagine your whole arms filled with space of awareness,

Awake,

Alive,

Present.

Right into the hands,

You might consciously soften the hands.

And then feel them from the inside out,

Filled with awareness.

Can you sense the aliveness inside the hands?

Perhaps the vibrating,

Pulsing,

Tingling.

What's it like to feel the hands filled with awareness?

Feeling an openness at the chest,

Letting the chest be filled with awareness,

The heart filled with awareness.

Be aware of the actual flow of sensation,

The space that's here.

Friendly present attention.

Relaxing down the torso and relaxing the belly.

See if you can let this next breath be received in a softening belly.

This breath.

Now this one.

And again,

Let the belly be filled with awareness.

Feeling from the inside out the life that's right here.

Scanning down to feel the whole pelvic region filled with awareness.

From the inside out,

Feeling the aliveness,

The flow of sensation.

Perhaps you can be aware of the contact points where you're sitting on your cushion or chair,

Where your hands touch your legs or each other,

Where your feet touch the ground,

Places of pressure or warmth.

And feel inside the legs,

Inside the feet.

Feeling from the inside out the play of sensation.

And simultaneously feeling this whole body,

This whole energetic form filled with awareness.

Feeling this body as a true field of sensation.

See if there's any places that can relax even a bit more right now.

That go even more into this dance of sensation.

Including sound.

Feeling the space around you and listening not just with your ears,

Your whole awareness.

You might sense that vast curve of a smile spreading through awareness,

Great sky of awareness.

Feeling a profound receptivity to this dance of sound and sensation.

Feeling how it springs out of awareness,

Dissolves back into awareness.

When the mind contracts into thoughts,

The practice is simply to notice that without any judgment,

To pause and re-relax back into this awareness,

Really the essence of what we are,

Wakeful,

Open.

For some it can be helpful to use the anchor of the breath,

The flow of the breath as it comes in and out of the nostrils or perhaps the rising falling at the chest or expanding and settling at the belly as a sensory anchor to help remind us and collect us right here,

Right now.

So,

Just to give you a transparency on how you maintain this awareness,

At what time You might notice that your mind is drifted into thoughts about the future or the past,

Commentary.

Just pause and relax back again,

Letting your senses help to bring you into full presence,

Listening to the sounds that are actually here,

Opening to the felt sense of sensation in the body.

If there is tightness,

Re-relaxing the shoulders,

Softening the hands,

Loosening and softening the belly.

Again,

Feel the body is filled with awareness,

Feel from the inside out this aliveness that is here,

Relaxing and smiling into the heart.

At last,

Please enjoy these Give yourself the gift of re-relaxing whenever you notice contraction or tension whether it's the contraction of thinking in the mind or tightness in the shoulders,

Fear in the heart,

Re-relax,

Bring a gentle,

Clear attention to what's right here and soften.

See if you can let the life that's here be just as it is.

Perfect.

Deepening the intention to befriend and relax with whatever arises moment to moment.

With the intention to befriend and relax with whatever arises moment to moment.

Honestly sensing how your body experiences sound and holding that with gentleness.

Is that better?

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Close in a simple way with a brief loving-kindness reflection to sensing your own heart and mind and offering whatever wish most resonates right now to yourself.

Bringing to mind someone dear who could use your energy or prayer and offering some wish,

Offering some blessing to that person.

And sensing your heart-space including all those who have gathered here,

All those who might be practicing or listening in our cyber world,

All those beings everywhere,

The earth,

Our mother,

All of life.

Just offering your prayer to all beings.

Reviews

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This was a great meditation that gave a lot of space to sit and be in the moment. Tara has a gift of being able to get you into a space that allows for deep relaxation and truly being with oneself and in the moment.

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This helped me to get going this morning when all I wanted to was not.

Lots of silence. In a good way. A more “advanced” practitioner meditation.🧘

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Thank you so much! I loved the calm relaxed space I felt during this meditation. I will definitely come back to this one.

Just what I needed, Tara.
Just enough guidance.
Just enough space.
Thank you.
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Amy

Absolutely wonderful. The perfect balance of guidance and space. Thank you 🤍

Excellent!! Best meditation I’ve done in a long time. Reminds me of working with my mentor 9 years ago 💕

Your meditations are so exquisite, Tara. They truly deliver me into a state of indescribable peace. Thank you.

I arrived at the present to find myself there waiting. Wandering, but not lost. Thank you for beckoning me to this place, for it is here I have returned and begun to return again and again.

Tara is my favourite meditation teacher. She has such beautiful calming grounding energy and guides her meditations in a way that is easy to follow. I always drop in. Thank you Tara.

I found it tricky, but extremely worthwhile learning to re-relax. Thank you Tara!

I love this meditation. The length is perfect and the way Tara guides and takes you back to the present moment resonates deeply with me.

Calming & grounded as always, so grateful to Tara for consistently bringing me back to awareness of body breath & my heart ❤️

Very calming, helpful in bringing me back from worries.

Thank you Tara, very relaxing and grounding, as always 🙏🥰🌻

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