Overly ResponsiBULLoney (Season 2)

For as long as I can remember, I’ve been over-responsible. I was hypervigilant and hyper attuned to my surroundings and was expected to read minds (particularly my deaf mother) from birth. Many people, like me, learned very early in life to put everyone else first and myself last. I spent decades as a people pleaser who suppressed and repressed everything about me to minimize conflict, criticism, rejection and disappointment. I did good things for the wrong reasons.

Reviews

Great thank you

I'm the one who other people always yell: you're welcome! After they open the door for me. I'm a freeze type. This was a fun discussion to listen to.

Thank you women- so helpful and real. Love the puns and the song too.
It’s a bit of a carousel- just a change of carnival.

You guys. 🥹🫶 All my love from a codependent adult child of an alcoholic malignant narcissist who married the nonalcoholic malignant homosexual narcissist version of the male who I found a gay email about 10 years ago (and still not over it), and he himself still denies it to this day.🕺🏻

Thank you thank you thank you❣️

Namaste 🙏✨🪬🌝

p.s. you’re both certified in my book! 🎓

OMG... how could I not know I am overly responsible and over scheduled! What an eye opener for me. As long as I can remember I’ve had low tolerance for irresponsible people and that is most of my family and some friends! This has caused me much anguish through my life. I could never understand why they could not just be responsible and do the right thing. I am doing a lot better in this area now. It just never occurred to me I was the source of much of my misery! I’m trying to concentrate on myself , doing for myself and saying no to most of the others and this seems to be working out pretty damn good for me!

Everything you mentioned in this episode related to me. How in the world can that be? This just blows my mind in a good way though! I’m learning so much more about myself and how to heal and repair my brokenness and I’m so fucking ready!!!

Have a great week ladies and I’ll see you next week. 💜💪✌️