Now You See Me. Now You Don't.

Object Constancy is a cognitive skill we acquire at around 2 years old and is defined as the ability to maintain an emotional bond with others, even where there is distance and conflict. Babies that are instilled with object constancy develop secure attachment. Children with no object constancy are plagued with an intense fear of abandonment. If we experienced severe early preverbal attachment trauma our emotional development is stunted leading to an intense fear of abandonment as adults.

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