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Stonewalling is a term that was developed by psychologist Dr. John Gottman, who specializes in relationship research and therapy. Stonewalling is when a person withdraws from a conversation or discussion and refuses to acknowledge you or your efforts to discuss anything, ignore your requests, respond with dismissive, invalidating replies or giving infuriatingly vague responses. Parents who are controlling, combative and dismissive use stonewalling as a way of marginalizing a child.