125 How To Get Good At Telling The Truth

Last week, I spoke about why I've stopped using "vulnerability"... and why being truthful is a prerequisite for control of your reality. But if you have a history of "low fidelity" (anything from compulsive lying to being vague), becoming more truthful is easier said than done.

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I absolutely needed to hear this, thank you. I find my biggest truth-telling challenge is when my people-pleasing program wants to kick in.

This is a huge one for me. I have spent a lifetime lying, running, half truths, massive lies, to be in control, massive lies because of feeling fear and not being good enough, lies to pretend, to mask, to exaggerate, to people please, to stay safe and out of danger and small lying habits have remained through addiction that my ego hasn't let go of. So many different lies but, I'm not a liar. My core self, has hated myself for each and every single time I've manipulated the truth or coerced a situation to prevent a result or change a result. Most lies are to wriggle out of doing something, to people please or to hide, after years of my feelings being suppressed within the family dynamics, thoughts that my core self is an awful person, so let's build up walls of lies and pretence and then noone will see me, the real me.
I've never intentionally sat and looked at myself from this perspective, so this spiritual person I've created myself to be, was another pretence, because all the while I've been continuing to lie, still holding that control, still not being honest with myself or anyone. This isn't living, this is surviving on a huge lie. So many parts of my life a complete lie. My ego isn't happy right now. Thank you for your insight.

Wow, blown away by how much revelatory information you packed into this talk. Astounding, so on point! Thank you 💫