The Secret To Childrearing & A Good Life

With her signature humor and ability to put words to vague perceptions and feelings, together with her healing touch, Premasudha's work is life-changing. She has a truly great knack for assisting people out of the emotional prison of their ego/intellect into true freedom. This means that sometimes even serious diseases disappear too, as part of the emotional shift into a new more love-based understanding.

Transcript

There's a lot in this video,

I don't even know what to call it,

But it's about child rearing and also about how we're taught to manipulate,

But the secret is just to be our authentic selves.

So when I was a young mom,

I was very interested in raising compassionate,

Noble young men.

And I read all kinds of parenting books and even went to channels about this.

Now,

The channels uniformly said to me,

Look,

You're asking the same question in different words,

But the question is this,

You're asking what behaviors from you are going to elicit certain behaviors from your sons.

And I didn't even really understand what they were saying back then,

But now I do.

And it's that if I wanted noble,

Compassionate sons,

The most important thing I could do was be a noble,

Compassionate person myself.

Apples don't fall too far from the trees.

It's glaringly obvious.

It didn't take,

You know,

A rocket scientist to see this,

But I was making it so complicated,

Thinking that I had to be some kind of automaton or,

You know,

Follow some rules to get this outcome.

And it was taking me into my head and away from my heart.

And I think this is what the channels were pointing to.

So this is just a video to help,

You know,

Promote just us relaxing,

Coming down to the ground,

Coming down into our hearts and common sense and,

You know,

Being our most authentic selves ourselves if we want our children to turn out well.

Okay.

Again,

I just wanted to say all this.

Okay.

Bless your hearts.

Reviews

I definitely understand this very much. Thank you for sharing.
I can see in real time how well I am handling parenting by how my kids react with one another. It’s very interesting when we take the time to stop and see what is going on and listen to them. They teach us so much, kids.