There's a point on the journey and in the development of a human being where you become non-attached and what that means is that you're more attached to your own soul,
To the creator inside you and the guidance that comes from that eternal energy than you are to your family of origin or really any human being.
But it doesn't mean you don't love them.
You love them.
In fact,
The more you love and are faithful to your inner guidance,
The more you really love people and the better a friend and a mate you can be.
And you'll be with your whole heart then.
But it can be a little scary to get to this point of non-attachment because it's sort of like where you've got a weave and you start unraveling the weave and you think you're just making a mess of the whole thing.
You might feel like you're making a mess of your life,
You know.
But indeed,
You know,
Some of your life unravels and you start making contact with this truth inside and it's like you always knew it was there.
You always felt it.
You'll start remembering when you were a kid and special days where you really felt like,
You know,
That God was in its heaven and all was right with the world.
Like where you had kind of these peak experiences.
They'll all come back to you and reminding you that it's true.
Yeah,
It takes courage,
All right.
But once you make this connection to your true nature and you're faithful to it,
You're kind of attached to it,
You have your freedom.
Because when you do this,
You see beyond what the normal person sees.
And part of it is that you had to move through some fear to come to this place of non-attachment.
And,
You know,
Fear really blinds people and the person who's dealt with their fear can see so much more than people that have never faced any fear.
So,
You know,
Even if you just do that a little bit,
You'll be rewarded by a much bigger view and a much bigger understanding.
And then if you,
You know,
Get interested in developing this relationship with your true essence,
You'll get more and more information,
More and more wisdom,
More and more guidance.
You see,
Our culture teaches us to,
In the West,
We're actually,
We think we're really independent,
You know,
And we're,
But we're all taught to,
You know,
Basically focus on things,
You know,
Use people,
Accumulate things.
And it's not very individualistic at all.
Yeah,
It's really just conformist.
So,
You know,
When we're putting our roots into other people,
Instead of our true nature,
We're ignoring this huge intelligence that's inside us.
And,
You know,
With everybody's roots in everybody else,
Nobody can really move.
And it's very unstable.
If suddenly,
You know,
Somebody right in front of you moves away,
You can fall over.
You know,
Supposing,
You know,
Like if your mate leaves,
You can fall over,
Devastating.
But if you have this connection to yourself,
It's much easier for you just to embrace the experience and go,
You know,
Mourn and go through the heartbreak if,
You know,
But,
But that this deeper understanding that it's all coming to help you,
And that it's meant to be,
And that there's something much better coming.
Yeah.
So,
I just really just wanted to talk about the whole idea of finding,
Attaching to the self within you,
And having that be your major attachment,
Not some other fallible person who's got their own neuroses,
You know,
And will be,
Will naturally just put themselves first.
I mean,
That's what people do.
But if you have this connection to yourself,
You know,
You just get stronger and stronger with every challenge.
And,
You know,
Women,
We're taught with relationships and everything,
But inside us,
You know,
We have a male energy that's very objective,
That's very steady.
And it doesn't take that much to connect up.
Yeah.
Okay.
Bless your hearts.
