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Deep Acceptance

by Peter Bolland

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We all face loss and grief. We've all had to let go, sometimes suddenly, sometimes gradually, of so many things we've loved. The poignancy of life can be overwhelming. And yet as meditators we know that we carry within us a boundless sea of stillness, wholeness, and well-being. This 15-minute guided practice leads us into direct experience of that boundless presence where deep acceptance, love, and wellness envelop and heal our painful sense of loss.

AcceptanceLossGriefStillnessWholenessWell BeingLoveWellnessInner WitnessEmotional ReleaseThought ObservationBody ScanMind Body ConnectionSilenceRestful PostureBody Mind Spirit ConnectionSilence PracticeGuided PracticesHealingPostures

Transcript

Welcome to our 15 minute guided meditation called Deep Acceptance including five minutes of silence toward the end.

So let's get started.

So by now you're already sitting down either on a cushion on the floor or on the couch or in a chair.

And if you're in a chair or on the couch take a moment to scoot all the way back so that your back is supported and you're neither leaning forward or slouching back.

And sit up nice and straight.

And if your legs are crossed,

Uncross them and place both feet flat on the floor.

And simply let your hands fall and rest in your lap however they fall.

And one final adjustment to posture.

Take a moment to lift the crown of your head slightly toward the ceiling without stretching or straining.

Just a slight lift of the top of your head while at the same time allowing both of your shoulders to go soft and sink down as low as they can go.

So again the crown of the head lifted slightly and the shoulders dropped.

This is an active yet restful posture ideal for meditation.

And now simply breathe deeply with me three times.

Take a deep inhalation into the belly.

Let's inhale now.

And out.

And again in.

And out.

And one last very deep inward breath.

And release.

And allow your breathing now to resume its natural rhythm.

And now let's take a moment to honor our mind-body by allowing it to consciously move into a more restful state.

Bring your attention to the muscles of your face,

Your eyes,

And your jaw,

And your mouth.

And simply allow them to relax and release whatever tension and tiredness they are holding.

Let it all drain away and vanish like water draining into sand.

Leaving your face relaxed,

Rested,

Open,

And free.

And moving lower,

Bring your attention now into the area of your neck and shoulders.

And here there is so much strain and tension.

Sometimes grief and pain.

As we did with our face,

Simply allow the tissues of your neck and shoulders to relax and open and warm and release all of the emotion and tension and tiredness and grief.

That we often hold there.

Feel them opening and resting as we release everything that does not serve our highest good.

And now we move our mind's eye,

Our attention into the area of our chest.

And here too we hold so much grief and anxiety and worry.

Lovingly release all of that tension and let it sink away like water draining into sand.

Feel it sliding lower and lower into your body.

Moving over your thighs,

Across your knees,

Down your calves,

Through your ankles,

And into your feet and out of the bottom of the soles of your feet into the floor and into the earth beneath the floor.

Let it all go.

Release everything that is not contributing to our stillness,

Our illumination,

And our restful awareness.

And now notice that the mind body has moved into a more restful,

Peaceful state.

Finally,

Let's return our attention to our thoughts.

Bring your focus now to the mind,

To the steady stream of thoughts that flow naturally and simply over the field of awareness of our deeper self.

And many of us are feeling particularly heavy and aggrieved and pained by all of the woundedness of the world and by our own wounds and griefs and our relationships and our families,

Maybe around issues of finance or in our loneliness and in our longing.

And in so many ways,

Many of us rush around in an attempt to mask this woundedness.

But right now,

Let's look right at it and feel it and notice it and not look away.

And as we move into a deeper awareness of our woundedness and sorrow and depression and anxiety,

Let us for the next few minutes promise to keep vigil with these important messages that rise up out of our psyche to tell us that all is not well,

That we are hurting.

And in the stillness and patience with which we bring this loving eye to this woundedness within,

We notice that all of our thoughts and feelings and judgments and longings and aversions are thoughts.

They are concepts and feelings that arise on the screen of our deep awareness and we view them and we identify with them.

But for the next few minutes,

As we prepare to move into the silence,

Let's practice releasing our attachment to our thoughts.

Let's watch them from a deep place of peace and stillness.

Let's shift into what Krishna in the Bhagavad Gita calls the inner witness.

And as we prepare now to move into a time of silence,

Simply practice witnessing your sadness and your grief as if they were clouds blowing across the sky and feel what that feels like to not identify with them but to witness them as we now move into a time of silence.

I invite you now to move up out of the silence and the stillness.

Open your eyes,

Look around the space,

Feel free to move and stretch.

And as we prepare to bring this guided meditation to a close,

Reflect on the experience we just had of deep acceptance.

That as we shift into the inner witness and observe our woundedness,

A certain calm begins to arise out of our own depths,

A certain stillness that we do not create,

That we are.

And that ground of being,

That stillness is the source of our solace and our comfort in the face of the difficulties of our lives.

And that we always take this deep acceptance with us wherever we are.

Namaste.

Meet your Teacher

Peter BollandSan Diego, CA, USA

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Recent Reviews

Alexandra

December 11, 2025

I really appreciate the depth of your meditations. Thank you. 🫢✨

Hamid

April 11, 2025

That was great and I can get it that I am everything and nothing and there is nothing to achieve. All the rushness is pointless and you have all that you want in your each breath. Thanks

Dick

January 15, 2025

Thank you. As I listened to this, I reflected on my father's death 57 years ago today almost to the hour. I wish he and I could have spent time together after I had grown more mature

Margaret

January 5, 2023

Thank you for this calming, simple practice to help deal with bereavement. Namaste

Evelyn

July 19, 2021

Namaste 🌺🌸

Allyoo

November 7, 2020

Deeply reassuring brotherly voice and calming message. Very helpful.

Linda

July 22, 2019

Comforting words plus silence. Nice balance.

Sheila

July 17, 2019

Thanks. Excellent practice. Appreciate having this to use. Acceptance for me is ongoing. Thank you for contributing such a powerful tool. πŸ™ Shelia

Jackie

July 17, 2019

I’ve been looking for a meditation like this! Thank you!!!πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–

Heather

July 16, 2019

This was exactly what I needed this morning. Thank you. πŸ™

Cindy

July 16, 2019

Thank u Love this meditation Blessings to u

Maureen

July 16, 2019

Beautiful-thank you πŸ™

Nancy

July 16, 2019

Beautiful meditation! I am currently on a painful journey and found it freeing to turn towards my pain instead of try to avoid it. Your voice is the perfect tone, volume, pace and is very compassionate. I will save this meditation to return to it. Namaste πŸ™πŸ»

Rebecca

July 14, 2019

Lovely. I especially liked the acknowledgement that some people sit on chairs or couches. I personally use a meditation bench, which I have never heard mentioned, but I figure it's close enough in concept to a cushion to make that work. It's either lying down or a couch/chair otherwise, due to medical issues. I deeply appreciate the inclusivity. Tone of voice and pacing were excellent, and the content was definitely on point. I also was extremely happy to hear the note in advance that there would be a five minute silent pause at the end; this allowed me to not be startled out of my practice, wondering if the audio had unexpectedly stopped or ended. Thank you for that! Overall, a wonderful practice, one I have downloaded and bookmarked so I can return to it again as needed. Thank you for sharing this with me and the world. I see the light in you. 🀲❀️🀲

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