
Trusting The Process
by Nikki Heyder
It's normal to want to control everything around us... being in control makes us feel safe and secure. The reality however is that there is very little that we can actually control outside of ourselves. Learning how to trust ourselves, to trust in the process of our lives, and to trust in things to unfold as they should help us to let go of the fear or anxiety of the unknown. Enjoy this short meditation to help you start to cultivate trust.
Transcript
Welcome to today's meditation.
In today's meditation we're going to be exploring the concept of trust,
Trusting ourselves,
Trusting the process of life and moving into a state of acceptance and allowance as opposed to resistance and constriction.
Before we get started I invite you to take your meditation seat,
Ensuring that your sit bones feel heavy and connected to the earth and your spine is tall,
Crown of the head as always reaching towards the sky.
Take a few moments to settle into your seat and allow the breath to become slow and deep in cleansing,
Focusing on extending the inhale,
Filling up the lungs and the belly and a long cleansing exhale,
Just letting go of any tension that the body or the mind may be holding.
Just breathe for a few moments,
Settling in,
Allowing any constrictions from the day,
Any thoughts from the day,
Any frustrations from the day to settle and getting the body and the mind into a state of simply being.
As we explore the topic of trust,
I invite you to become curious about the body when you hear the word resistance.
When we resist something,
We do not accept it,
We do not trust it,
We often fight against it.
Take a few moments to really feel into what that experience is like in your body.
Maybe there is something in your life right now that you are resisting,
Denying its presence,
Not allowing it to be true,
To be real.
Think of anything in your life that you are resisting and reflect inward,
Do any other emotions arise when you think of this resistance?
Is there a sense of desperation,
Frustration,
A need for control,
Perhaps fear or worry?
Simply recognize the emotions or the thoughts which come up when you notice what you are resisting.
I now invite you to explore what that feels like in the physical body.
Using your mind's eye to scan the body,
Exploring where does resistance sit for me within my body,
What sensations arise for me and where is it present?
Notice what's going on in your pelvis and your hips,
In your womb space,
In your stomach,
Your chest,
Your heart,
Your throat,
Tops of your shoulders and your neck,
Possibly even your jaw or the space behind your eyes.
What does resistance feel like?
Is there a constriction,
An anxiety,
A blocking,
Perhaps even a pressure?
Learn to hold this and recognize it.
We don't run away from it but we recognize what resistance brings us,
What it makes us feel on multiple levels.
Does resistance serve you?
Does resistance align you to who you truly are?
Does it help you or hinder you?
Take a deep breath into this feeling of resistance.
Let's inhale through the nose and exhale through the mouth together,
Breathing in.
Exhale through the mouth to release.
I'm now going to introduce a new word and this word is trust.
I trust.
I trust in things to unfold as they should.
I trust that this is what is supposed to be happening for me right now.
I trust that there will be a resolution.
I trust in divine timing.
I trust in the path of my life.
I trust in the purpose of roadblocks and difficulties.
Notice when I use the word trust,
What other thoughts or emotions come to your mind.
I trust.
When we trust,
What do we feel?
When we accept,
What becomes easier?
Perhaps there is a feeling of relief,
Maybe of hope.
Perhaps there is a feeling of safety,
Kind of like a knowing that everything will be okay and everything will work out exactly as it's supposed to.
Allow this feeling of trust to wash over your body.
Try to apply it to the situation you had in mind and just observe what happens in your body when you stop resisting and you start trusting.
Once again noticing the hips and the pelvis,
The space of the womb,
The belly,
The chest,
The heart,
The throat,
The tops of the shoulders,
The jaw,
The space behind the eyes.
I trust.
I accept.
What happens to the feelings of tightness,
Constriction or anxiety?
Where do they go?
How do they feel?
What happens to the nervous system?
Does this feeling of relief and safety feel more comfortable for you?
Does it feel more right,
More purposeful,
More useful?
Take a deep breath in to trust,
Inhaling together through the nose,
Opening the mouth to exhale.
I trust.
I accept.
Allow yourself a few more moments,
A few more breaths to be with this feeling.
Remember to call upon trust whenever you get stuck in resistance,
To notice the choice between resistance and accepting,
To follow the path of least resistance,
To know that that is always available to you.
Stay for as long as you need to in this meditation.
Otherwise you can take a few more breaths and gently start to move the body,
To awaken the body and to come back to present.
The meditation practice is now complete.
I invite you to journal on your experience of resistance versus trust and perhaps see what needs to be done,
What needs to be remembered in order to live a life which feels more at peace.
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Recent Reviews
Gail
April 8, 2025
Beautiful practice. Just what I needed this morning. Thank you ππ½ NamastΓ© π§π½ββοΈπͺ·
Mark
March 30, 2025
The audio could be better. She sounds far away. Great message and I will definitely listen to this important meditation again. Thanks
Drechir
March 27, 2025
This meditation helped me to identify the places where I am holding resistance in my body. Replacing that resistance with trust literally unlocked a door for me. Thank you.
Morgan
January 7, 2025
Resistance vs. trust felt different in my body. What a lovely way to start my day. Thank you for this gift.
Erika
September 19, 2024
This was beautiful and so very helpful thank you π
Noemi
September 12, 2024
Beautifully guided. Soft and perfectly suited background music. A gem. Thank you
Alice
September 6, 2024
iβm so glad i found this meditation. itβs really good and helpful πππ»ππππ»ππππ»ππππ»ππ
Marijo
August 19, 2024
This meditation is like a blanket of compassion around our suffering. Thank you ππͺ·π«Ά
Leonie
August 11, 2024
Left me feeling much better about my circumstances and life! I trust that all will be well. Thank you so much for this β¨π
Mar
July 8, 2024
Thank You π it is not easy to accept what life gives us sometimes and trust itβs what needs to happen
Gill
July 4, 2024
Perfect meditation for me today. ππ» Beautifully expressed. ππ₯°
FairySarah
July 4, 2024
Perfect for today thsnk you β¦ and everyday. I have so much going on and Iβm now starting my day trusting in the proseas and letting go π§ββοΈππ§ββοΈthsnk you I will return to this practice again and again π§ββοΈπ
Brianna
June 24, 2024
This was a powerful meditation and eased my soul. I will return to this one. Thank you! β€οΈ
jesse
May 29, 2024
Iβm a greatful humble Christian actor sisnegrvwith with courage kindess and. A purpose to inspire transpire people around the world with good purpose amen and good deeds amen
Dawn
May 17, 2024
This gave me a window into a seemingly small but troubling interaction yesterday in which I see I was experiencing resistance. Reimagining it from a perspective of trust was very helpful. I will be returning to this meditation and your soothing voice. Thank you.
Steve
April 23, 2024
When I have the courage to set down resistance, peace visits. May we make a home for calm heling.
Dawn
November 13, 2023
So lovely and helpful. Thank you, Nikki ππ»π
Jeff
October 29, 2023
Thank you! This is exactly what I needed to hear this morning. Having a physical issue that has just popped up in my life and resisting and not accepting and fearful and not trusting right now. Your meditation was a beautiful reminder for me needing to stay in the solution and out of the problem. Thank you again!
Jack
October 15, 2023
Thank you, Nikki. I trust at this moment; I accept. πβ¨
Lupe
September 21, 2023
Beautiful words and meditation. One to bookmark for sure π«ΆπΌ
