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Accepting What Is

by Nicole Richards

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Feeling challenged with your needs not being met? This is a practice of asking yourself 5 questions to awaken presence as a tool to accepting what is. These reflective questions are an excerpt from the book, Sacred Powers, written by my meditation teacher, davidji, and can be used anytime to regain clarity, focus, and present moment awareness.

AcceptancePresenceClarityFocusPresent MomentNon AttachmentSelf InquiryBreathingSelf CompassionNeutralityLao TzuPresent Moment AwarenessDeep BreathingNeutrality CultivationReflective Questioning

Transcript

Greetings,

Beautiful beings.

Welcome to today's session,

Accepting What Is.

How many times in our day do we go through a wish list of if only this could change?

Or what if that line at the store was a little shorter?

I really hope that light stays green.

There are so many moments when we are looking for the world to fill our needs,

To fill us up from the external to the internal.

And today's question and invitation is to flip this idea.

How about looking at that same light and acknowledging,

Hmm,

It's green for the moment.

Maybe it'll be yellow by the time I get there.

Maybe it'll turn red.

Maybe I'll make it through on this particular light.

And truly just being with what is.

So much easier said than done.

Those thoughts whip in so quickly in a moment,

In a flash.

And yet with practice,

We have the opportunity to lessen the impact of these thoughts,

To let them float by or dissipate before they even come to fruition.

There are five questions that one of my meditation teachers asks before every practice.

These are the five sacred questions to awaken presence.

And they help us get back into that place of truly being right here with what is.

So if you're willing to play along with me,

Let's get comfortable.

Close your eyes if that feels good.

Be in a comfortable place and let these words and these ideas soak in.

Before answering,

Really settle in and feel into your body if there is congruency and authenticity in your answer.

Today's practice may simply be getting to that place where these questions feel aligned for you.

Question one,

Do I agree I cannot step into the past and change it?

Just envision for a moment that whatever's happened in the past is gone.

Right this moment is where you start from in being able to affect change.

And similarly,

Number two,

Do I agree I cannot step into the future to force it?

Just like the example of the stoplight,

It is what it is.

So in these first two questions,

Can you truly be letting go of the past and without worry of the future?

Just right now,

For a moment.

And then if possible,

Question three,

Do I have the patience to wait until my mud settles and the water is clear?

This is a beautiful line from Lao Tzu.

Sometimes we need to remain unmoving,

Even when the swirl is happening all around us,

For us to be that calm amidst the chaos.

Question four,

Do I give myself permission to show up right now as my best,

Most brilliant,

Most creative expression of myself?

And while of all these questions,

This may seem the most simple,

It is often the one that we waver between the most.

Those days of feeling incredibly balanced and imaginative and energized.

And other days where we just want to pull the covers up over our head,

Hit the snooze button all day long,

It is your birthright to be the most magnificent version of your incredible self.

And with that thought,

Question five,

Am I willing to breathe deeply into this moment and awaken my best version?

And so for some of us,

We may struggle with affirmative responses to all of these questions today.

And yet it is the practice to be able to come back to these questions.

Once a day when you start your practice or throughout the day when you realize you're getting caught up in the swirl of some story,

Being able to come back into yourself.

And so let's just take a few moments to breathe a little deeply,

To feel into what it's like to be here now,

In this moment with what is,

Not in the past or in the future.

Finding a glimpse of stillness amongst everything that's going on and allowing a glimmer to come through of our most authentic,

Brilliant self.

Take a nice long,

Slow,

Deep breath with me.

And exhaling.

And let's do that again.

Inhale.

And exhale.

And one last time.

Inhaling.

And exhaling.

So as you continue with your day today,

Notice where you're able to be with what is.

Feeling non-attachment,

Cultivating neutrality,

Experiencing balance.

And when a moment arises when you drift into the past or envision the future,

You know you have this tool to come back into the present moment.

Have a beautiful day.

Until next time.

Meet your Teacher

Nicole RichardsLos Angeles, CA, USA

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Recent Reviews

Karen

October 8, 2025

Thank you so much for reminding me how important my practice is.

Rebecca

July 7, 2025

Landed thank you- I think I will do this one all week!

Donna

April 3, 2025

This resonates in today's world of so much uncertainty as a much needed reminder to stay in this moment with calm. Namaste.

Heather

November 9, 2024

Gentle positive reminder that all we have is now, very soothing voice, thank you.

Lisa

May 15, 2024

This was just what I needed this morning. I’m going to use this meditation again tomorrow for the questions to really start embedding in my subconscious. Thankyou ✨

Astrid

February 21, 2024

Your voice was very soothing. Thank you for sharing. Namaste 🙏❤️

Vesna

January 8, 2024

Very powerful session, thank you for sharing, namaste.

Margaret

December 19, 2023

Thank you for these five vital questions, so poignant to living a fulfilling life. Namaste

Jeff

December 13, 2023

Thank you. Very much enjoyed the five questions. Will come back to this meditation often. This is the kind of meditation I really need to listen to on a daily basis.

Doug

December 10, 2023

Wow, your questions really hit me and I will soak further on those. Based on the amount of time I think about could have would have should have, I need to accept and truly believe that I can't change the past.

Alice

November 7, 2023

Wowwwwwww, that was wild!!!! In a good way!!! Love question #3... Do you have the patience for the mud? To Settle and wait for the water to clear? 🤯🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

Katy

November 1, 2023

🫶Every word spoke to me in such a meaningful way ✨️ 😊

Vince

October 16, 2023

Loved the 5 questions you shared from your teacher. Those will be good to ask in any moment. Maybe not always easy to answer and that is good information to return to the moment. Peace

Sher

July 30, 2023

oh my goodness your lovely voice and questions are exactly what i needed to hear today. thank you!

Marty

March 30, 2023

I will come back to this again and again! Thank you 🙏🏼

Seyi

September 26, 2022

This was really the perfect message that I needed at this moment. The reflection questions coupled with the breathing exercises were so helpful and grounding. This is a meditation that I will definitely come back to.

Rebecca

August 20, 2022

Great questions to reflect on and to remind yourself of the importance of presence 🤍 thank you!

Alice

June 26, 2021

Good questions to remind ourselves of

Kristina

February 3, 2021

Love contemplating the questions. I will return to this often. Thank you!

Lisa

January 25, 2021

Wonderful meditation to help me release my desire to control. Thank you, Nicole.🙏🏻

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