The Feeling Of Insecurity and Insufficiency

We all feel this mysterious feeling of insecurity when there is a chance of losing something we have (a person, a skill, a customer, etc) that is based on our skills or us (in some cases). This triggers this ball in our stomach or our chest that questions our capability or our worth. We don't know what to do with this visceral feeling of insecurity so we try everything in our power to get rid of it - even resorting to anger or fighting to protect what we have.

This contemplation is about seeing this feeling of insecurity as a messenger rather than an unwanted guest. The message can either be a call to reflect and improve our actions, our skills, make time for our relationships OR it could be a call for intelligence to let people/siutations/things go.

When we do end up losing what was threatened, we feel utter sadness. This feeling of insecurity is a premonition giving us a chance to correct things so that we don't feel the sadness or regret as bad as we would if he had continued!