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Softening Your Inner Critic

by Melissa Joy Bennett

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4.8
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guided
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Meditation
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Here you will meet both your Inner Critic and Inner Mentor. You'll ask each a set of questions that will give you a deeper understanding of their purpose and intentions. Developing compassionate understanding of your Inner Critic softens them, allowing them to be released with greater ease. Understanding your Inner Mentor allows you to connect with them and call on them any time you need their support. You'll be offered gentle reminders to remain in a space of curiosity as you ask these questions. You're then given a couple of minutes to receive the response and explore that on your own. After asking the questions, notice the very first thing that bubbles up for you. Without judging or responding, simply remain in a space of curiosity as you receive this information. You may wish to repeat the question, or ask "Is there more?". Having a journal nearby to record the responses you receive is recommended for deeper processing, and to notice how these energies change over time. Enjoy!

Inner CriticCompassionCuriositySelf ExplorationJournalingSupportRoot ChakraBody AwarenessInner Critic IntegrationAffirmationsBody Sensations AwarenessBreathingBreathing AwarenessInner MentorInner Mentor DialoguesSelf AffirmationsVisualizations

Transcript

Hello my friend,

This is Melissa at the watershed farm.

To make it easier for you to revisit this meditation,

I've added all of the information about it in the description and I encourage you to read that.

Let's begin.

When I ring my chime,

I invite you to follow the sound into the silence.

And as you do,

Gently close your eyes and follow your breath into your body.

Gently notice how far you can follow your breath into your body.

Does it seem to dissolve and fade away in your throat?

Are you able to follow it all the way into your lungs?

Perhaps you're able to draw your breath all the way down and into your seat and root chakra.

Gently notice how far you can follow your breath into your body.

With your next inhale,

Fill your breath further down into your body.

Imagine your breath swirling down into your chest,

Filling and inflating your lungs,

Circling your heart space,

Settling into your belly before being gently exhaled through your mouth.

With your next inhale,

Follow your breath down into your seat where your root chakra sits.

Imagine your breath moving directly into this space,

Providing energy and movement to awaken this part of your body.

Once again,

Inhale deeply,

Following your breath down into your seat.

And on the exhale,

Imagine a root attaching you,

Sturdy and strong,

Through the floor and into the earth beneath you as it descends from your seat into the center of the earth.

Deeply inhale into your root chakra.

On the exhale,

Bring all of your awareness to this strong,

Stable connection that you have.

Deeply inhale into your root chakra.

And on the exhale,

Speak aloud,

I am safe.

Repeat this cycle on your own for a few more breaths.

If you feel you need more time here before calling forward your inner critic,

Or at any time during this meditation,

You can pause and take as much time as you need to feel safe in your body and in your space.

Inhale into your root chakra.

On the exhale,

Speak aloud,

I am safe.

I now want you to call forward your inner critic.

You can do this by bringing to mind some of the phrases you've heard your inner critic speak to you.

As you do,

Notice where in your body this energy lives.

You may feel a tightening or heaviness here.

Notice on the sensations you notice your inner critic brings to your body.

I now want you to imagine what this energy might look like if it were sitting across from you.

Imagine this energy leaving your body and taking form in front of you.

It may appear as human or it may be more abstract.

What shape does it take?

What color is it?

What does it sound like?

What features does it have?

Knowing and trusting you are safe in this moment and with a great sense of curiosity and wonder,

Ask your inner critic,

What do you believe?

What do you believe?

What do you believe?

What do you believe?

What do you believe?

What do you believe?

With a great sense of curiosity and wonder,

Ask your inner critic,

What do you care about?

What do you care about?

What do you care about?

What do you care about?

What do you care about?

With a great sense of curiosity and wonder,

Ask your inner critic,

What do you think of my inner mentor?

What do you think of my mentor?

What do you think of my mentor?

What do you think of my mentor?

What do you think of my mentor?

What do you think of my mentor?

With a great sense of curiosity and wonder,

Ask your inner critic,

What are you afraid of?

What do you think of my mentor?

What do you think of my mentor?

What do you think of my mentor?

What do you think of my mentor?

What do you think of my mentor?

With a great sense of curiosity and wonder,

Ask your inner critic,

What do you need?

What do you need?

What do you need?

What do you need?

What do you need?

Now,

Extend gratitude toward your inner critic for sharing these responses with you.

Tell them their time is up,

And watch as this energy dissipates into the air,

Floating up and dissolving until it is completely gone.

I now want you to call forward your inner mentor.

You can do this by bringing to mind some of the phrases that you've heard your inner mentor use to cheer you on.

If this is the first time you're meeting your inner mentor,

Bring to mind a phrase you would most want this energy to convey to you.

Your inner mentor may have a simple message for you,

Such as,

You are worthy,

Or they may wish to advise you on a current challenge.

As you hear your inner mentor come forward,

Notice where in your body this energy lives.

You may feel an expansion or lightness here.

Focus on the sensations you notice your inner mentor brings to your body.

I now want you to imagine what this energy might look like if it were sitting across from you.

It may appear as human,

Or it may be abstract.

What shape does it take?

What color is it?

What does it sound like?

What features does it have?

Again with a great sense of curiosity and wonder,

Ask your inner mentor,

What do you believe?

You becomeод You You With a great sense of curiosity and wonder ask your inner mentor.

What do you care about?

What do you care about?

You You You With a great sense of curiosity and wonder ask your inner mentor What do you think of my inner critic?

What do you think of my inner critic?

You You You With a great sense of curiosity and wonder ask your inner mentor.

What are you afraid of?

What are you afraid of?

You You You You With a great sense of curiosity and wonder ask your inner mentor.

What do you need?

What do you need?

You You You You You Invite them to stay with you throughout your day as you once again focus on where in your body this energy of your inner mentor lives.

This energy resides in your cells,

In your body,

Deep within the very bones of you.

It is available to you at any time.

Bring your awareness now throughout your entire body.

Notice the sensations of your seat on the chair or floor beneath you,

The way your feet rest on the ground.

Notice the temperature of the air on your skin.

And when you are ready,

Slowly open your eyes.

Thank you for being.

Meet your Teacher

Melissa Joy BennettRinggold, GA 30736, United States

4.8 (528)

Recent Reviews

Nora

June 12, 2024

I fell asleep in 1 minute it was sooooooo goood!!!!!!

Hiram

September 4, 2022

I really enjoyed this meditation. I gained some great insight from my inner critic and inner mentor

Eylene

January 6, 2022

This was such a powerful meditation for me! Thank you for sharing this 🙏🙏🙏

Louise

February 12, 2021

Very helpful. Beautiful music. I will listen again.

Deborah

June 14, 2020

Thankyou for allowing the time to reflect on the answers from the mind. I will listen again. Felt very nurturing 🙏

Maria

June 2, 2020

Amazing! Thank you

Heather

May 19, 2020

Mmmm thank you.

Brad

November 3, 2019

Great meditation to meet your inner critic and inner mentor. I loved the pace. There were lots of pauses in between ideas to really settle un. I will he doing this meditation again! Thank you for sharing your gift. Namaste.

Miriam

October 18, 2019

That was powerful. Amazing who my inner critic was very demanding whilst my mentor was more gentle. Felt really good letting the mentor take presidency for once 🥰. Thank so such wise guidance and asking provoking questions I could clearly hear the answers 😀

Anna

October 17, 2019

Thank you for this profound en healing meditation! It helped me a lot and gave me such wonderful Insights. 🙏👌💖🌟

Isabelle

July 8, 2019

Really powerful. I really got into deep insight and meditation. Thank you so much

Anita

May 27, 2019

Thank you for those great questions 🙏🏽

K

February 15, 2019

Eternally grateful Melissa. ♥️ Thank you for calming me when nothing else helped in this moment.

Raisa

January 30, 2019

I’ve been beating myself up at work and feeling I’m not good enough. I get recognized from many parties but my inner critic gets the best of me. This was amazing, powerful and a huge relief. Thank you!

Sadie

November 28, 2018

This is an incredibly powerful meditation exercise. I received new insights that were so clear and strong as well as clearing out some blocked energy I didn’t realise I was carrying. Thank you for making this available 🙏🏼

Eric

November 19, 2018

Wonderful! After all these years I had never been acquainted with my Inner Mentor. This is really a helpful construct, thank you!

Hippie

September 6, 2018

Beautiful and helpful. Thanks for sharing🌹

Rob

September 1, 2018

Great !!! So helpful.

Deb

August 18, 2018

This was amazing for me! It was at a perfect pace that allowed me to ask the questions and wait for answers. I had my journal close by to jot down my discoveries from this experience. Thank you!

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