Welcome.
This is your host,
Marianne Pack,
Spiritual medium,
Author,
And geologist.
This reading is entitled,
Just Inside Your Comfort Zone.
Are they lying to us about our comfort zone?
Wouldn't our comfort zone really be our truest alignment?
We've all seen those posts of quotes about everything we want as being just outside of our comfort zone.
They tell us about how we must go outside our comfort zone and into the uncomfortable to be able to get what we want.
We must leave our comfort zone to find success.
That theory has never resonated with me.
Here's why.
Our comfort zone is the only zone of our true alignment.
When we're in alignment with who we really are,
This is the only time we are truly comfortable.
Why in the world would I want to move out of my comfort zone and into something uncomfortable that is out of alignment?
Anything that makes me that uncomfortable indicates that I'm heading in toward what I don't want.
Because when I'm heading toward what I truly want,
I'm following my bliss,
Which can't be uncomfortable.
For clarity,
Here's my definition of comfort zone.
It's where all is well and life is happy and fun.
Where I'm satisfied and yet eager for more.
It's where my peace is.
It's the place of my greatest joy.
It's all about the love I receive and give.
It's who I am.
It is in this place of full alignment that I am the most comfortable.
Now if your definition of a comfort zone is that place of complacency,
Laziness,
And procrastination,
It differs greatly from mine.
If your comfort zone is the place that keeps you locked down and playing small,
If it's the place where you don't really want to move forward for fear of the unknown or certainty that feels scary,
Then yeah,
Your comfort zone is totally different from mine.
If this is your definition of your comfort zone,
That doesn't feel too comfortable.
It feels pretty crappy to me.
This zone contains a shit ton of resistance to growth and being who I really am as joy and love embodied.
How can you call this your comfort zone?
And what about this thing of uncertainty or the unknown that they suggest we step into?
Why would uncertainty or the unknown be so scary?
I think it is only scary because the beholder is out of alignment.
If we're in alignment with who we really are as love and joy,
We are at perfect peace as we move forward because the uncertainty and the unknown give us the feeling of adventure.
When we're fully aligned,
We perceive the unknown to be exciting and greatly anticipate what might be coming next.
We would be looking forward to the uncertainty because we would trust Source to fulfill our desires by surprising and delighting us with something far greater than we could have imagined.
So I really don't understand all these posts about our comfort zone being so bad and living in such fear of the unknown are moving into an area of uncertainty.
Why would I leave my alignment,
My comfort zone,
To have success?
Now I will admit when I'm out of alignment,
I don't want to move forward.
But that resistance always feels like crap.
I can totally tell the difference by how I feel.
My inner being is always living the high life that I've asked for and is calling me,
Calling me,
Calling me toward it.
When I don't go,
It's because I'm out of alignment.
I resist everything I desire,
Which feels pretty shitty.
So I would never call that my comfort zone,
Even if it is what I've always known,
Even if that feels normal.
Just because we've gotten to the place where being out of alignment feels like our normal,
We don't call that our comfort zone.
I've experienced a ton of trauma from my religious upbringing and I thought it was just a normal childhood,
But I don't call it my comfort zone.
Yet for years I didn't want to move forward out of my normal because I was scared shitless to move toward my desire for freedom.
So if your definition of a comfort zone is where we refuse to move forward toward what we want because we're out of alignment,
That's not comfort to me.
Not to me anyway.
I think life should be more fun and light-hearted.
I've lived the heavy stuff.
I have struggled with being way too serious and not including the fun and joy of alignment.
If we're following our bliss as instructed by Joseph Campbell,
We will be on one adventure after another toward all of our desires.
That sounds pretty darn comfortable and maybe we wouldn't even need to zone our lives.
It would just be one beautiful blur of ease and flow.
How about we redefine comfort zone for what it really is?
Alignment.
Maybe we should find a different name for being out of alignment and living small because we're too afraid to reach out for our success we've already put into our vortexes of desire.
That's already done by the way.
Release all of these beliefs about everything we want as being just outside our comfort zone.
No,
It's inside our comfort zone.
It's inside our alignment and that's a done deal.
But where are we?
Here's a final word.
Wouldn't it be best for us to always stay inside our comfort zone simply moving from where we are in peace and comfort toward more of what we desire by following our bliss but always comfortable inside of our alignment.
Big hugs,
Marianne.
