The Hidden Truth About The Law Of Attraction

In this eye-opening episode of Enheartened Living, we dive deep into the common misconceptions surrounding the Law of Attraction and reveal why it's often misunderstood. While many focus solely on positive thoughts and emotions, we explore how the flow of energy through manifestation goes far beyond these surface-level practices. What if your ancestral energies, inherited patterns, and unconscious beliefs are playing a bigger role in your manifestations than you realize? We break down how ancestral influences might be shaping your present reality and how unconscious blocks could be sabotaging your conscious desires.

Transcript

Hello beautiful souls.

Welcome to the Enheartened Living Podcast.

A gathering place for heart-centered souls seeking personal empowerment,

Consciousness growth,

And transformative healing.

I'm energy intuitive and metaphysical healing teacher Marie Blythe,

And in each episode we dive into topics that help you remember how powerful you are,

How wise your heart is,

And how magical your soul is.

So enter this sacred space with me friends and let's enhearten your day.

When we first start our spiritual awakening,

When we first start exploring spiritual topics,

One of the most popular topics and most accessible topics out there is this idea of manifestation and the law of attraction.

And this makes sense because we might have gone our whole lives up until we start exploring it more,

Thinking that our lives are chants and we just have these experiences that keep repeating and that's just how things are.

And when we start to realize that there's actually a process at play here,

There's a process that's unfolding that's causing me to repeat certain experiences or attract certain things or manifest certain things,

And that I actually have some kind of level of say over that or control over that,

Initially that can feel really empowering.

And so what do we do?

We start trying to do the things that we're told,

Which is to align our thoughts and emotions with what we're wanting to create.

That's often what we're told,

Is that we attract and manifest our experiences through our thoughts and emotions.

So when I first started exploring this for myself,

And you know this has probably been 15 years ago now,

The things that I initially started thinking were not super kind to myself because when I first started doing manifestation work and trying to shift these experiences and even understanding that I was attracting these really,

Really difficult,

Kind of crappy experiences that I was having in my life,

The first thing I thought was,

Wow,

I must have really gross energy.

I must be really low vibe,

Right?

And I'm sure at some point we've all had something like this run through our minds,

That if we're having difficult and challenging experiences and those keep repeating,

That we must be at fault somehow and we must be a real failure at the spiritual game.

So in today's episode,

My goal here is to turn the law of attraction on its head and take the things that I've learned through my spiritual journey,

Through my healing journey,

And from my guides about how manifestation actually works to help clear and remove any self-judgment,

Negative self-talk,

And unloving thoughts that you might have had or be having about yourself if your experience is less than pleasant or if your thoughts and emotions that you're trying to create to manifest what you want don't seem to be working well or don't seem to be sticking because there are a lot more factors at play here than just thoughts and emotions attract our experience.

So what's the first thing here?

Well,

Energy manifests from least dense to most dense.

Energy starts as life force energy,

Pure life force energy,

Pure creation energy.

And then it moves from that high vibrational state down through the layers of our energy body,

Which each contain different frequencies,

Programming,

And different distortions that serve to shape that energy into eventually our physical experience.

So our thoughts and emotions,

Which is where our attention is usually drawn to,

Are two of the most dense energies that we experience.

They exist in the innermost layers of our energy body.

Our thoughts are created and held and processed in the third auric layer,

The mental body,

And our emotions are processed,

Created,

And held in our second auric layer,

The emotional body.

And these energies do attract experiences and do inform what we're manifesting in our lives.

But what caused us to create those thoughts and emotions?

We all have etheric templates or quantum level templates in the fifth auric layer of our energy body,

Some of which are balanced and some which are not,

That inform how energy takes shape in our energy body.

So often we approach manifestation through trying to force our thoughts and emotions to be something more positive than what we're currently having or than what our situation seems to match.

But when we consciously try to force our thoughts and emotions,

We're moving in the opposite direction of energetic flow.

We're trying to force ourselves to think and feel something different that goes against what the higher level templates are informing in our energy body.

So when we're trying to force our thoughts and emotions consciously,

We're actually only addressing our conscious thoughts and emotions.

But we have so many other energies in our energy body and we have so much other thought and emotional energy that we're not consciously aware of that exist in our subconscious experience or in the shadow realms of our experience.

So we could be thinking positive thoughts all day long,

But have shadow aspects or shadow parts of ourselves,

Wounded parts of ourselves that are having the exact opposite thoughts.

And we could have limiting belief templates in our quantum template layer of our energy body that hold the exact opposite frequency of the positive thoughts that we're trying to create.

So when we start trying to manifest through positive thoughts and emotions,

Through trying to force those,

We're actually working against the tide.

We're working against the flow of energy into manifestation.

We have our soul contract that informs energy.

We hold the templates for that in our energy body.

And so if we want to manifest a million dollars and our soul contract doesn't account for that,

And that's not part of our contracted experience that our soul has agreed to,

Our soul contract and the energies in our energy body that align with our soul contract and those energetic templates that we hold that encode our soul contract into our being are always going to supersede the thoughts and emotions that we're trying to force.

The other interesting piece here,

And this is something that kind of shocked me when my guides gave me this number,

They gave me this number of 87% that 87% of our experiences are manifested through energy that we're holding in our energy body that did not originate from us.

Meaning that our experiences,

The vast majority of our experiences,

And of course,

This 87% number is an average.

For some people,

It might be 95%,

And for others,

It might be 60%.

But for the vast majority,

It's a high percentage of our experiences that are manifested through energy that either came from our ancestral lineage that we inherited because we incarnated into our biological lineage,

That came from a past life experience that we have yet to address or resolve for ourselves,

And we may not even be aware of that past life experience and the trauma and emotions that that experience created for our soul that we're still holding in our being.

And especially for those of us that are empaths that are sensitive and tend to absorb energy,

We also can hold a lot of energy that belongs to other people and our environment if we haven't done active work to clear that energy and set really solid boundaries.

So think about this for a moment.

If 87% of your experience is created through energies that did not originate with you,

That means that you can work with that 87% of energy to release it,

To do that energy clearing work in your energy body,

And drastically,

Positively change your experience.

Because then that 13% of your experience that's manifested through your energy,

Your thoughts,

Your emotions,

Your past experiences in this life will be what guides your path forward.

And the more inner work we do,

The more aligned that energy is with our soul truth and our highest path.

So if you've had those thoughts of,

Man,

I must really have gross energy if this is what my experience is,

Or if I keep attracting the same really toxic type of person over and over again,

Man,

I must have some serious wounds if that's what I keep doing,

Even though I'm doing the work.

If you've been doing your work and you're addressing those patterns that you're conscious of and you're aware of and things aren't shifting as much as you would like them to,

Or as much as you think they should be shifting,

It's likely that there's a whole realm of energies that you're holding in your energy body in the form of energetic templates,

Foreign trauma energy,

Ancestral trauma energy,

Foreign thoughts and emotions,

Limiting intentions that come from other people,

Limiting contracts that you might have with your ancestral lineage or other people that are informing your experience.

And when we start diving into that work and get into those really deep quantum templates that are shaping how our energy manifests,

We can make some really rapid positive change.

The energies we hold in our energy body are not linear and it's not simple.

We have a very complex multi-layered web of energy that we hold in our energy body at any given time.

And some of those energies are not resonant with one another.

They create conflict within our inner world.

We have conflicting thoughts all the time.

I mean,

If you've ever had an inner argument with yourself where you're saying,

Well,

On the one hand this,

But then on the other hand that,

You're creating conflict energy.

You're creating opposing energy,

Thought energy,

And emotional energy within your own being.

And this is because we have opposing templates that are informing us.

So consciously working with our soul truth,

Which we talked about in the last episode,

To identify what's really true for us and bring those templates in and clearing out all of the conflicting energies and templates that are not resonant with that soul truth,

Then allows energy to flow into our being in its natural flow process from least dense to most dense.

And then naturally our thoughts and emotions are aligned with our most authentic expression.

There's no forcing involved.

When we clear out the templates for limiting beliefs that we have,

Limiting contracts that we have,

Ancestral agreements and templates and traumas,

There's nothing to distort the energy that flows in because then we're more aligned with our own soul truth and our own authentic expression.

And we don't have to try to consciously force our thoughts and emotions.

They just naturally are generated in a more positive,

Uplifting way.

And then our experience starts to reflect that.

So what do we do?

How do we start to approach manifestation from this different perspective of if I'm attracting or manifesting experiences repeatedly that I am not enjoying and that don't feel aligned with my truth and my authentic experience and expression,

What do we do if it's not helpful or it's working against the tide to try to force the thoughts and emotions?

We start investigating where these experience originated from and we have to start thinking outside of our own life,

Of our own personal experiences.

Because many of our own personal experiences have manifested through the ancestral patterning,

Generational trauma,

Ancestral contracts,

And other ancestral or generational energies that we've inherited.

And so if we can go far enough back and identify something as being an ancestral pattern that we're holding,

Then we can release it.

Because we actually can't really heal something that didn't start with us,

That doesn't belong to us.

And if we're holding ancestral trauma energy that doesn't belong to us,

It's really a matter of releasing it and passing it back and lightening the load,

And this can be a really powerful process.

Another thing we can start to look at is where am I taking responsibility for other people's energy or experiences or thoughts or emotions?

If there are people that you feel deeply responsible for their experience and that it's your job or your duty to help them in some way or do something about their challenges for them,

It's quite possible that you could be holding some of their energy in your energy body.

And when we hold other people's energy in our being,

We may think that we're helping them,

But what's actually happening is we're kind of robbing them of the energies that they need,

The thoughts and emotions that might be challenging for them,

That could help them become aware of a limiting pattern that they need to shift.

If we're lightening that load,

We're kind of kicking the can down the road for them and making it more difficult for them to see what it is that's out of balance for them that they might want to shift.

We're making the challenge more tolerable for them,

Which can then allow that challenge to persist longer because it's through our challenges and the discomfort that it causes for us that we eventually choose to change.

So allowing people to have their challenging experiences and feel their own emotions about that and hold their own trauma from that can allow them to make changes more quickly.

So the other piece too of holding emotions and trauma from other people is that we can begin to start attracting experiences through that energy.

And so then suddenly we're having other people's experiences that are in resonance with their energy that may be creating more trauma for us and more limitation and challenge for us when those energies didn't even originate with us and really have nothing to do with us.

So releasing that sense of responsibility for other people's emotions,

For their energy,

For their challenges and experiences can really help us to start to manifest through our own heart and our own alignment rather than through foreign energies.

And this doesn't mean that we start to become uncompassionate or that we don't care about others.

We can still hold space and offer a listening ear or offer supportive advice without holding the energy of another person or being the one to transmute that for someone else.

Our learning and growth comes through our own healing process,

Not doing that work for others or expecting someone else to do it for us.

And the other piece here is to start looking at shadow work,

At your inner parts,

At soul retrieval,

Parts of yourself that might have experienced trauma that are frozen in time that we need to bring back in and do healing work for because it's often the shadow,

The wounds and the trauma that we're holding that we're manifesting our experiences through.

And no amount of conscious positive thought and emotion that we force is going to override the trauma that we're holding from our past that hasn't been resolved or the unprocessed repressed emotional energy that we're still holding in our energy body.

And this isn't our fault as well.

We have natural mechanisms for inner fracturing and having parts of us that have experienced challenge and trauma for breaking off until we're ready to process that information and those parts of us will hold that trauma and the emotion from a challenging experience until we're capable of looking at that from a conscious loving perspective and alchemizing that and clearing that trauma and bringing that part that experienced the trauma back into alignment with our soul truth.

And that's part of doing the inner work.

That's what self-healing is all about and that is an ongoing process.

It's a lifetime's long process.

So there's no getting to the finish line with that.

But it is an excellent place to start looking if you're wanting to manifest something new in your experience.

Instead of trying to force positive thoughts and emotions,

Look at the shadow,

Look at the limiting beliefs,

Look at the traumatic experiences that were opposite experiences of what you're wanting to be experiencing.

How are those past experiences still informing you and your inner parts?

This is really powerful work when we start getting into looking at our subconscious,

Looking at the shadow aspects of ourselves and offering our soul truth to them,

Our unconditional love,

Our non-judgment.

And we can use that lens of soul truth of our conscious awareness and understanding to help bring our wounded parts back into alignment with our heart.

And when we do that,

Then again,

We start naturally attracting aligned experiences that we don't even have to think about.

We also often start thinking about manifestation and how we can create our own reality and what we want to experience.

And while that's true,

We have to think about whether what we're wanting to manifest or trying to manifest is in our highest good,

If it's aligned with our soul agreements and soul contracts and what we came here to learn and experience and heal,

If it's aligned with our mission and purpose,

Or if it's just what our ego is wanting.

It's what our ego is telling us would make us happy.

Often when we're looking for that certain kind of car or a million dollars in the bank account or this specific job or this specific person in a relationship or whatever it might be,

When we're thinking of those really specific things that we'd like to manifest or attract into our experience,

It's because our ego feels like it's in lack,

And it thinks that those specific things are going to make it happy or change how we're feeling.

We'll solve the problem.

So what can be most helpful in this case is to look at what emotion or what do I think that this physical thing or this certain experience is going to make me feel?

How do I think that this is going to make me feel?

Because this is what can really help you dive into the good stuff,

Into that inner work.

Because often what we're seeking is not necessarily the million dollars or that specific person as our partner or our friend or whatever it might be.

What we might actually be seeking is a feeling state that we are not currently experiencing,

But we're wanting to experience.

And we think that this specific thing is going to help us feel the way we want to feel.

But there are infinite ways that we can feel the way that we would like to feel,

Not just through that specific person or that specific experience.

And oftentimes what we think or what our ego thinks will be brought to us or what we think will experience through those other people or those things that we're wanting fall short.

And that's why there are so many people that have a very full bank account that are still not happy in life.

When we seek specific physical things and physical experiences thinking that they're going to make us feel a certain way,

We miss the point.

What really needs to shift is the inner energies.

Those limiting beliefs that we have.

Ancestral energies.

Traumas that we've experienced.

Releasing foreign energies that we might be holding.

Those energies and doing that inner work to heal those and release them is what will uplift our emotional state.

And then when we find that we're feeling the way we want to feel,

Our ego is often able to let go of those specific circumstances that it thinks that it wants,

That maybe aren't actually what's meant for us.

When we're in alignment with our soul truth and we've done that inner work to clear out the density,

Especially that density that didn't start with us,

The experiences we attract are always going to be uplifting,

Are always going to bring us joy and fulfillment,

Because that's what our soul experience is and that's what our soul wants to experience.

So when we move all those things out of the way that are not in alignment with that,

We just naturally start to experience more and more of it in all kinds of different ways,

Not just through the specific things that our mind and our ego has decided on.

So what I really hope you get out of today's talk is that you are not at fault because you are having a challenging experience or repeating challenging experiences.

But what exists in your energy body,

Whether it came from you originally or not,

Is your responsibility.

We're all responsible for what exists within our own energy.

And when you start to look at that energy and clear out what doesn't belong to you,

Your experience can rapidly shift in positive ways.

And then we stop repeating those patterns.

We stop manifesting challenging experiences because there's no programming in there that tells us that that's what is accessible to us.

That's the only thing we can experience.

My deepest wish for you and for humanity is that we are able to manifest through our most aligned self,

Through our most healed expression.

Because if we all were doing that,

The world would be a much more peaceful,

Loving place.

And that is our role.

If we have a difficult time processing what's happening in the world around us,

And it feels so challenging,

And we feel a little bit helpless as to what we can do,

Do what is yours to do.

And what is yours to do is that inner alchemy that can move all that density out of the way so that you can show up as your authentic soul self in your life each day and spread that light.

Plus,

When we do that inner work,

We create templates in our energy body that can be shared with others to help them do that same work for themselves in a much easier way.

When we do that,

Inner alchemy,

We can share that with others,

With everyone that's connected to us through our energy matrix.

And so for those of us that feel like we need to take on the pain of others and the challenges of others and the emotions of others,

The best way we can actually help others and do healing for them is to heal ourselves and then offer the codes or the recipe for that or the energetic template for that to that person because then they can work through their own process.

They can learn the things they need to learn through their challenge,

But they can do it much more quickly,

And they can get out of that in an easier way that is in their highest good,

In their right timing,

Rather than trying to figure it out and take it on for them.

So I hope you have a new perspective on manifestation and the law of attraction and that you stop beating yourself up if things get a little hairy every so often and if what you're manifesting isn't exactly what you were aiming for.

It's not your fault,

You didn't cause it,

And you can change it.

And doing that inner work and looking at all of those energies in there,

Unconscious energies,

Foreign energies,

The inherited energies,

And the templates will get you where you're wanting to go a lot more quickly.

Thank you,

Beautiful soul,

For joining me today.

I am so happy that we took this journey together,

And until next time,

Have a very enheartened day.