Why Isn't Therapy Working I Am Codependent
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Why Isn't Therapy Working I Am Codependent

by Lisa A. Romano

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Codependency is an umbrella term used to describe a broad spectrum of emotional, mental and behavioral, subconscious, and automatic trauma responses developed in early childhood as an adaptation to chronic, inescapable stress. A child who has learned they must scan their environment must: Use their conscious waking hours scanning their parents' facial expressions, moods, and tones--while this is occurring, a child is learning how to morph and adapt, rather than explore the inner self, their inner child, their inner landscape Abandoning the self, including their innate needs, wants, emotions, and right to be authentic, to avoid further emotional neglect, abuse, bullying, or rejection—while this survival response was useful during childhood, the adult child eventually learns that they often don't know what they want or need. This can be a frustrating experience in therapy and relationships.

CodependencyInner ChildEmotional RegulationSelf DiscoveryBoundariesNarcissistic AbuseTraumaSelf WorthSubconsciousPeople PleasingSelf CareTherapyCodependency RecoveryInner Child HealingBoundary SettingTrauma ResponseSubconscious MindTherapist Guidance

Meet your Teacher

Lisa A. Romano

New York, NY, USA

Meet your Teacher

Lisa A. Romano

New York, NY, USA