Loving People Who Push You Away

Loving people who push you away and then blame you for not loving them enough is frustrating. Partners who doubt their self-worth, project their unworthiness onto others and can sometimes unfairly push those that love them away. If you love someone who is codependent and pushes their caretaking upon you even when you don't want them to, this episode is for you. Listen in as Lisa A. Romano Life Coach and Codependency Expert teaches you about this unfair and unnecessary relationship dynamic.

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This was very helpful! I have an anxious attachment style from parental emotional abandonment. My friend was constantly flaking and standing me up. I started to grow in my worth and I spoke up that it hurt my feelings, being abandoned/ditched, and she threw codependency in my face. She said she didn’t like that I would follow a time when she skipped out on our plans with a message that it had hurt my feelings. I can see me being too attached to her. I have been healing and see how she enjoyed me being the backup doormat friend. Once I started speaking up for my needs of not wanting to be stood up, she blew up at me. This talk was helpful for me to see my enmeshed tendencies. Thanks.

Its not only gangs who target codependants, but so do some churches, and religious institutions. Got to be real careful, since going to Church is socially acceptable and most people wont even think twice about it.

Very informative and inspiring talk. Thank you Lisa

Spot on!! 💜