Betrayal; Why You Can't Just Get Over It

In this episode, Life Coach Lisa A. Romano explains why there are just some things that happen within the context of a relationship that you just can't get over. The brain is not designed to forget. It is designed to remember and specifically, painful events. Anyone who suggests you should just get over it does not understand trauma. Lisa breaks down 3 success mindset tips to help you figure out what to do when you can't seem to shake the past.

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I wish there were 10 stars for this talk! This spoke directly to my heart and the trauma I am facing now in a relationship where he hid his dope addiction from me for 7 years! And as you say, they attack you for not moving on and accepting it. I feel devastated right now that our relationship of 10+ years is coming to an end.😭but I also know that we couldn't carry on like this. Our whole relationship was based on a lie and that is not ok!

Perfect timing. My partner’s therapist has told him that forgiveness has to come from me, and it feels like the burden of moving the relationship on is now heavily on my shoulders. I can’t move on, he can’t do more than apologise, we’re stuck. I’d appreciate recommendations on other resources to use to help me, thank you so much, I love all your discussions!

This talk was fantastic - very validating. Thank you!

Absolutely brilliant, Lisa. I appreciate this practical wisdom that is so useful. Thank you.

So insiteful and resonant with my experiences and feelings, thank you 🙏