Avoid This Person

A high-conflict person needs a TARGET to blame and abuse. Identifying this type of temperament in those you know can help you avoid DRAMA in your life. MOST drama is unnecessary, fabricated, and the result of immaturity and unhealed wounds. If your life is going to expand and become fulfilling, it is best to avoid and learn how to minimize interactions with this type of person. You cannot help a high conflict, narcissistic person see in themselves what they deny.

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So good. Thank you

Revelational 🙏🏽 Thank you! You mentioned some things that I’m aware I also need to work on. This offered awareness , peace, and healing for myself. Wishing the same for others 💙🙏🏽

Awesome. Spoke to me. I could relate to 99% of the talk.
Thank You so much.
It’s like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.

Thanks so much for sharing this. I’ve been reading about narcissistic personalities and this seems much more to the point. My ex has to be in control and because of your distinguishing his “target practice” I feel confirmed that I must stop all contact. We have business issues that I’ve realized keep him ganging on. Must take the bull by the horns as they say!! Gratitude - I thank God for allowing me to hear this right now. I’m finally ready and confident in how to handle this!

Thank you for sharing great advice on how to avoid escalating the negative energy in the moment. On how not to become this type of person’s target. I can understand how to do this in the world in general. What I struggle with is how to live with someone with these personality traits. I did divorce my first husband because after 20 years I couldn’t live with his negativity, frustration and anger. Now I struggle in my relationships with my youngest adult son and my only sister with similar personality traits. I can’t divorce either of them so how do I minimize the conflicts that arise?