Cultivating compassion in your mind

If we wish to be a compassionate person, we need to have a compassionate mind. This practice will help you grow compassion for all beings, including yourself. It is a long version of a compassion meditation.

Transcript

This is a 30-minute guided meditation practice from Buddhism Guide called Cultivating Compassion in Your Mind.

Music Sit comfortably on the floor or an unarmed chair with your back straight but not too rigid.

Gently close your eyes and do the following breathing awareness exercise.

I want you to breathe in deeply to the count of five.

Hold the breath for the count of four and then breathe all the air out to the count of five.

Let's begin.

Breathe in.

Hold.

Breathe out.

Hold.

Breathe in.

Hold.

Breathe out.

Hold.

Breathe in.

Hold.

Breathe out.

Now breathe normally,

Making sure your breath is slow and natural.

This exercise brings you comfortably into the present moment,

The here and now.

Rest there while I briefly explain what compassion is.

Compassion is a mind free from hatred and discrimination.

When we free our minds of negative emotions,

We are automatically calm and at peace.

Compassion is a wish that others do not suffer as well as having the aspiration to help end the suffering of others.

Cultivating compassion is a wonderful source of peace and harmony in your mind.

Keep yourself in your relaxed state and start to picture someone who is close to you,

Someone you care about and are very fond of.

Notice how this fondness feels in your heart.

Notice the sensations around your heart.

Perhaps you feel a sensation of warmth,

Openness or tenderness.

Focus on these feelings as you visualize the person you care about.

As you breathe out,

Imagine that you are sending light rays out from your heart and these light rays hold your warm feelings.

Imagine the light reaching out to the person you care about,

Bringing him or her peace and happiness.

At the same time,

Silently recite these phrases.

May you have happiness.

May you be free from suffering.

May you have happiness.

May you be free from suffering.

Continue to silently recite.

May you have happiness.

May you be free from suffering.

As you silently repeat these phrases,

Remember to extend the light rays to the loved one from your heart.

Feel with all your heart that you wish them happiness and freedom from suffering.

Now think of a time when this person was suffering.

Maybe they experienced an illness,

An injury or have been going through a difficult time in their lives.

Notice how you feel when you think of their suffering.

How does your heart feel?

Do you feel calm?

Do you continue to feel warmth,

Openness and tenderness?

Are there other sensations?

Continue to visualize this person you care about as you breathe.

Imagine that you are extending the light rays from your heart to this person and the light is easing their suffering.

Extend this light out to them while breathing out with the strong heartfelt wish that they be free from their suffering.

Recite silently to them.

May you be free from this suffering.

May you have joy and happiness.

May you be free from this suffering.

May you have joy and happiness.

May you be free from this suffering.

May you have joy and happiness.

Notice how this feels in your heart.

What is happening to your heart?

Did the sensations change?

Did you continue to feel warmth,

Openness and tenderness?

Were there other sensations?

Did you have a wish to take away the other's suffering?

Now contemplate a time when you have suffered yourself.

Perhaps you experienced a conflict with someone you care about.

Or did not succeed in something you wanted.

Or were physically ill.

Notice how you feel when you think of your suffering.

How does your heart feel?

Did you continue to feel warmth,

Openness and tenderness?

Are there other sensations?

Just as we wished for our loved one's suffering to end,

We wish that our own suffering would end.

Visualize your own pain and suffering leaving your body so that you may experience happiness.

Continue to visualize yourself as you breathe.

Imagine that the light rays emanating from your heart is easing your suffering.

With each out-breath,

Feel the light emanating within you with a strong heartfelt wish that you be free from your suffering.

Silently recite to yourself,

May I be free from this suffering,

May I have joy and happiness.

Thank you for watching!

Continue to silently say to yourself,

May I be free from this suffering,

May I have joy and happiness.

Thank you for watching!

May I be free from this suffering,

May I have joy and happiness.

Again,

Notice how this feels in your heart.

What kind of sensations did you feel?

How is this feeling different from when you wish your loved one's suffering to be relieved?

Did you feel warmth,

Openness and tenderness?

Were there other sensations such as pressure?

Did you have a wish to take away your own suffering?

Now visualize someone you neither like nor dislike,

But someone you may see in your everyday life,

Such as someone from work you are familiar with,

A bus driver or a stranger you pass on the street.

Although you are not familiar with this person,

Think of how this person may suffer in his or her own life.

This person also may have conflicts with loved ones,

Or struggled with an addiction,

Or may have suffered an illness.

Imagine a situation in which this person may have suffered.

Notice your heart center.

Does it feel different?

Do you feel more warmth,

Openness and tenderness?

Are there other sensations?

How does your heart feel different from when you were envisaging your own or a loved one's suffering?

Continue to visualize this person as you breathe.

Imagine that you are extending the light rays from your heart to them,

And that the light is easing his or her suffering.

Extend this light out to them while exhaling,

With a strong heartfelt wish that they be free from their suffering.

See if this wish can be as strong as a wish for your own or a loved one's suffering to be relieved.

Silently recite to him or her,

May you be free from this suffering,

May you have joy and happiness.

Thank you for watching!

Continue to silently recite,

May you be free from this suffering,

May you have joy and happiness.

Thank you for watching!

May you be free from this suffering,

May you have joy and happiness.

Thank you for watching!

Again,

Notice how this feels in your heart.

Did the sensations change from when you envisaged this person's suffering?

Did you continue to feel warmth,

Openness and tenderness?

Were there other sensations?

Did you have a wish to take away this person's suffering?

How were these feelings different from when you were wishing to take away your own or a loved one's suffering?

Now visualize someone you have difficulty with in your life.

This may be a parent,

Ex-girlfriend or boyfriend,

A roommate or a co-worker.

Although you may have negative feelings towards this person,

Think of how this person has suffered in his or her own life.

This person has also had conflicts with loved ones,

Or has dealt with failures,

Or may have suffered illness.

Think of a situation in which this person may have suffered.

Notice your heart center.

Does it feel different?

Do you feel more warmth,

Openness and tenderness?

Are there other sensations?

How does your heart feel different from when you envisage your own or a loved one's suffering?

Continue to visualize this person as you breathe.

Imagine that you are extending the light rays from your heart to him or her,

And that the light is easing his or her suffering.

Extend this light out to them while exhaling,

With the strong heartfelt wish that they be free from suffering.

See if this wish can be as strong as the wish for your own or a loved one's suffering to be relieved.

Silently recite to him or her,

May you be free from this suffering,

May you have joy and happiness.

Thank you for watching!

Continue to silently recite,

May you be free from this suffering,

May you have joy and happiness.

If you have difficulty in wishing for this person's suffering to be relieved,

You may think of a positive interaction you have had with this person that can help you wish them joy and happiness.

Perhaps there were times when you got along,

Laughed together.

It is important to remember that they are just the same as you.

They want happiness,

And they do not want to suffer.

May you be free from this suffering,

May you have joy and happiness.

May you be free from this suffering,

May you have joy and happiness.

May you be free from this suffering,

May you have joy and happiness.

Again.

Again,

Notice how this feels in your heart.

Did the sensations change?

Did you feel warmth,

Openness and tenderness?

How were these feelings different from when you were wishing your own or a loved one's suffering to end?

Were there other sensations?

Perhaps a tightness in the chest?

Did you have a wish to take away this person's suffering?

Now that we are almost at the end of this meditation,

Let's finish with a wish for everybody's suffering to be relieved.

Remember,

Just as you wish to have peace,

Happiness and to be free from suffering,

So do all beings.

Now rest a moment with the warmth of compassion in your heart.

In a moment,

When you hear the soothing sound of the singing bowl,

Start to slowly open your eyes and gently introduce yourself back into the world.

Reviews

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Excellent guide, timing, technique and sporting voice... Thanks ;)

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This was the most amazing meditation I have ever done in my life.... namaste thanks

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Beautiful, self-reflective take on metta practice. I will do this guided meditation many times.

A lesson that will get more powerful each time I practice it....lovely

Was a good meditation for me, thank you for sharing 🕉 ☸️

A meditation that has you experience what it promises: compassion for all beings with a warm heart full of light. Many thanks

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Beautiful heart opening guidance!

The best mediation on compassion I have found.

I come back to this meditation over and over. Thank you.

Back again, as promised.

Well done guidance. Nice voice, easy pace, bringing about freedom from suffering and joy and peace for myself and others surrounding me.

Excellent meditation. Very soothing and calming. Make me feel really free.. Thank you!

Thanks..we all need that

Wonderful to connect with compassion and intend freedom joy and happiness to all.