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​Tonglen on Yourself

by Lama Dvora-hla

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In this meditation you prevent your own future suffering and grant yourself happiness and all your needs. ​It is the 3rd in the Tonglen teaching. Recorded live.

MeditationTonglenSelfHappinessInvocationBreathingSelfishnessIgnoranceSelfishness And Ignorance FlameBlack Smoke VisualizationsCleansing BreathsFuture Self VisualizationsGolden Light VisualizationsHoly Being InvocationsVisualizations

Transcript

Find a comfortable position.

Close your eyes.

Make sure you sit very straight so you won't fall asleep.

And focus on your breath.

Try to gain some concentration.

Now invite a holy being to be with you in your meditation.

See them in front of you,

Very beautiful,

Very radiant,

Very loving.

Do a mental frustration by admiring their qualities.

Make offerings to them.

Confess in front of them anything that might be damaging now to your meditation.

And rejoice in something beautiful that you've done.

Ask them to help you with your meditation.

See how happy they are that you are meditating.

And of course they agree to help you.

And now bring to mind a situation of yourself in the future.

A situation where you normally would get upset or uncomfortable.

Or a problem that's bothering you and it's just not going away.

So see yourself in this situation.

And like before,

Imagine yourself sitting on this bed.

And you in the present is sitting in front of your future you.

And watching them.

And so now see all the trouble,

Whatever is bothering you,

Your future you,

In this unpleasant situation.

And this is now the black smoke or black tar in your body,

In your future body.

And as before we go through the process of cleaning yourself up by your present you is using the breath as a palm to clean out all this smoke from your future you.

You know and before you can be successful at doing that you need to remind yourself of what you're doing and why you're doing.

You know get a good motivation for that.

Which in this case is easy because it's you right and we all cherish ourselves.

So just determine that you're going to help your future you as best as you can right now.

And remove from them that smoke first by concentrating it into the center of the chest into a little black olive.

And then continue using your breath to pull out this black olive out from your body through the breathing tube outside into the air.

Now refocus on the flame in your heart,

In your own heart,

In your present heart.

And that flame is your selfishness and your ignorance and it's burning bright in your heart.

And when I say go you're going to inhale all the black smoke and in just one breath it's going to come into you,

Touch the flame and evaporate,

Dissipate,

Finished,

Terminated and also the flame is extinguished.

So do it now,

Go.

The white wisp of smoke goes away and your heart is filled with golden happy light.

You rejoice in what you've done.

And you're sending out this joy in the form of the golden loving light.

So it's filling your body and it's going out through your pores,

Through your openings.

It's surrounding you and your future you.

And as they inhale it,

It gets into their body and it fills them with joy and happiness.

So take a few breaths to do that.

And this you do on the out breath.

And see,

Look at yourself,

Your future self.

See how he or she looks like.

See how light they've become,

How happy they've become.

And rejoice because you have done it.

You've removed your future suffering successfully.

And now refocus on your Lama,

On the holy being in front of you.

Write them in and see them coming into your heart,

Sitting on this beautiful throne that you prepared for them in your heart.

And ask them to always stay with you there.

And of course they will.

So you can open your eyes.

Meet your Teacher

Lama Dvora-hlaIsrael

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Recent Reviews

Lasha

September 14, 2024

With Love and the deepest gratitude I thank you 🤍🙏🏻

Andy

March 24, 2023

Great instruction. Highly recommend it as another way of doing tonglen

Susan

December 6, 2021

Excellent visualization instruction, suitable for all faiths. Well done.

Krista

January 29, 2020

Thanks very much:)

Scotty

September 7, 2019

Great meditation! I have just recently learned and have started to practice tonglen meditation and this was a great first one for me

루나

January 1, 2019

It was very helpful and very emotional, but i just really really enjoyed it. It really helps me especially that black olive part. I think I'll start listening more on this!! Thank you, namaste.

Harshada

November 1, 2018

Very nice experience. Thank you. Namaste

Lisa

June 27, 2018

Very nice, thank you.

Selkie

May 31, 2018

These meditations are very helpful. Blessings and thank you for sharing 🙏

Andrea

April 17, 2018

Beautiful vizualisation practice

Smeralda

July 13, 2017

Very beautifull and helpfull meditation

Wickie

June 2, 2017

Exceptionally Helpful.

Sunny

April 23, 2017

Very peaceful and powerful healing visualization. Her voice is lovely and very good for this meditation.

Myra

February 28, 2017

Thank you. Blessings.

Iris

February 12, 2017

Very nice thank you 🙏

Heide

January 27, 2017

I like this lama's down-to-earth approach. Even way-out concepts seem eminantly feasible🐞

Amanda

November 21, 2016

Beautiful thank you. Many blessings.

Caz🌈🦄💕

November 14, 2016

I think it is best to do meditations 1 and 2 first if you are not familiar with Tonglen. Short, intense. I loved "the black olive of suffering"! Thank you♥

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