How to overcome you lost trust,
People?
How to overcome this?
Of course you lost trust because someone betrayed you many times.
So you cannot trust anybody yet.
So that means still we think in limit way,
Therefore.
Even 20 people betrayed you that cannot represent for everyone.
First we have to be aware of that and also we have to be aware there is billions of good people there and compassionate there,
Trustworthy people there,
Honest people there.
Just for whatever reason,
Maybe you count many times,
These so-called bad people,
But not really bad,
Not ultimately bad,
Not inherently bad.
There is nobody inherently bad.
That's just the temporarily they have problems.
Temporarily problems are temporarily hurt others,
Hurt themselves,
Cheating others,
Cheating themselves.
So you just have to remember that first.
Be aware of this and be mindful on this.
You don't have to blindly trust everybody all the time.
However,
You can give everybody have a chance to prove they are trustworthy.
This is very important.
Even we lost something,
Even we lost little things.
We give them some trust.
Even they cheat us,
Even they retreat us,
We cheat you.
Still,
You don't think this is ultimate.
This is not ultimate.
This is not inherently.
This is their temporary problem.
So if we be able to let them try again,
If we be able to give chance to them again,
If you do again,
Again a few times,
They will improve.
But this is up to you.
You don't have to.
But we can,
You can.
Most of them get better.
Almost nobody never get better.
So only the opportunity.
Nobody keeps mistaking forever.
Sometimes even they are aware is bad,
But the habitual tendons sometimes keep mistaking.
But the awareness level,
Nobody keeps mistaking forever.
Only habitual tendons.
So that means if we able to give chance to again,
Again other people,
They definitely guarantee improve their own awareness.
And definitely guarantee have some degree of gratitude toward to you,
To us.
The only thing we cannot guarantee is habitual attendance.
But this also definitely have some improvement,
Even is little,
No matter how small is,
But always there's some.
So it is our choice.
It is your choice.
How many times you want to give chance.
It's our choice,
Our patience,
Our tolerance.
So if we can be able to do many times,
That means we are more strong.
That shows the indication we are stronger,
Much more stronger than they are.
But if we decide no more chance,
That's also our choice.
You can choose that.
But just this awareness is really important.
So that is about how can we trust other people.
You don't have to trust 100%.
You can have awareness there.
The only chance you give them,
Able to give chance or not.
That's the difference.
That means optimistic is important,
But you don't have to blindly believe 100%.
From the beginning,
If you are able to think,
I give them chance,
I'll be optimistic and give them chance.
That means you're not thinking blindly and expecting they are going to be perfect 100%.
But we are brave enough to give them chance.
So how much degree of braveness we have is up to us.
So just remember that.
That's most important.
No trusting people.
Everything is going to improve.
But cannot expect the same degree of improvement for everyone.
Same process for everyone.
So you can find your own way of the process.
Whatever process you take to begin to start,
Always have some compassion and brave to give other people a chance.
Not blindly believe and trust 100% and expect everything trends to be wonderful.
Not that way.
You may give speech like that way.
You may speak like this way.
You may encourage this way.
But there's nothing wrong.
You prepared the worst scenario.
But still you hope and have aspiration to the best scenario.
There's nothing wrong.
First,
You have to know this philosophy.
And be very demandful on this.
Be very familiar with this.
And then we can find many ways of meditation.
Thank you and good luck.
