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A Safe Place To Deal With Pain

by Mieke Stapelberg

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Meditation
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If you’re struggling with chronic pain, then this might be for you. At the age of 19, I was diagnosed with Endometriosis stage IV, and although surgery and medication helped, I always felt like I got most relief by simply sitting still and breathing. I hope you'll find some relief in this meditation, because we all deserve to live a full and pain-free life. With special thanks to Sean Fargo for providing the script and Megan Wofford for providing the song.

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Transcript

Z you you Welcome to this guided meditation session to create a safe place for you Chronic pain can be very hard to handle But many times when we create a mental image of our suffering We tend to aggravate this pain thus increasing it Then every time we feel this sensation We will have a negative thought attached to it on a conscious and subconscious level So what this meditation will teach you are techniques to change the mental image that has been created from this pain and Instead implement a peaceful association with pleasant visualizations That create a warmer bonding between you and your body's sensations This allows you to accept and allow instead of fight and push away Make sure you are in a very comfortable position Sit down or lay down if that feels good for you However,

You need to position yourself so that none of your muscles are activated or tense Every part of your body can rest and feel completely relaxed during this meditation Begin by taking five deep breaths to relax even more One Full breath in and let it go Two Fully inhale and Exhale Three Breathe in as much as you can and let it go Feeling a wave of relaxation come over you Four Inhale deeply and exhale feeling invigorated Five the last one fully inhale and exhale Feeling any tension loosen up and your body feeling extremely relaxed Good And just allow your breath to slow and flow naturally now Don't try to change anything about it Just notice the calmness that these five breaths gifted you Notice how your body breathes without you doing anything else Begin to feel any sensations that you associate with your pain And bring them into your awareness by allowing the feelings to multiply You are completely safe and secure It's okay to allow these sensations to arise They will not harm you Put all of your focus on these areas Really feel their exact position and the quality of the sensations What does the pain feel like for you?

Is it stinging?

Tingling?

Or burning?

Perhaps it's like something else In your mind describe every detail and then sit with it Be entirely with it while it presents itself Don't do anything about it except feel it Allow the sensations to grow and don't stop them Just see what they do Notice the details of changes the sensations make Good You are doing something And you are doing so well Now switch your focus and bring into your mind's eye a visual of a place you love to go Or have been to that is very serene and peaceful for you It could be an imaginary place like on top of a gorgeous mountain Or somewhere you frequently go like a nearby nature path Your favorite place could be as simple as your warm cozy bed next to a loved one Wherever this place is for you see it vividly right now Start by visualizing all the physical aspects of this place Where are you?

What do you see when you look up?

If you are outside it could be the sky If you are in a safe room somewhere it could be the ceiling Notice everything you see when you look up Now look down and at your feet What does the ground look like below you?

Gaze all around this favorite place of yours making the colors bright and vivid Make out even more details now like the leaves on the trees and plants Or the things that are placed around the room Do you notice any patterns anywhere?

They could be patterns in nature like the way things grow Or the patterns of fabrics and objects in a room Notice every pattern you can find in great detail The more details you can imagine the better How dark or light out is it?

What time of the day do you think it is?

And make a judgment about the placement of the sun in the sky Which way is the light of the sun coming into your imagination?

Look at all of the beautiful things that make this place so enjoyable for you Use your visual creativity of this place for the next several moments Nice Now you are going to bring about the sensations this beautiful spot offers Start by tapping your feet on the ground Is the surface hard or soft?

Feel the ground below you here with your feet,

Noticing anything you can about it Become aware of the temperature in this place Is it cool or warm or hot?

Is there a breeze blowing or is the air calm and still?

Can you feel the sun on your skin?

Sit with these sensations for a few moments and just enjoy them Are there any smells here?

If you are imagining the beach maybe you can smell the salty air Or if you are in a forest the sweet smell of nature Just notice how your sense of smell can create sensations of aromas for you When you put your mind to it What about sounds?

Bring fully into this experience any sounds that surround you here Perhaps you can hear a loved one nearby Perhaps you are alone and can hear the sounds that nature creates for you Vividly hear any sounds in this experience Sit with these senses activated for a few moments And begin to interact with your environment Great To relax even further,

Become aware of what you are doing here Are you sitting down and relaxing?

Or maybe walking around and exploring a bit?

Are you doing exactly what you love and want to do?

See yourself being completely relaxed and happy here There's no need to do anything but relax and enjoy this moment Be assured that this place is always here for you to keep you safe if you need to flee from pain Take another slow and deep breath in And as you exhale,

You feel at complete peace with yourself and all of the sensations in your body As I speak these words to you,

You are changing the mental images associated with your pain Whenever you feel overwhelmed by the sensations in your body,

Simply repeat this exercise to accept the pain and change your thoughts associated with it When you use this technique,

You will stop the pain from becoming aggravated and growing stronger When you vividly visualize a safe and peaceful place in moments of distress,

You are slowing down your pulse and blood pressure Creating a peaceful and strong connection to your body and mind Allow yourself to slowly become aware of your surroundings And whenever you are ready,

Open your eyes,

Ready to go about your day peacefully

Meet your Teacher

Mieke StapelbergNew York, NY, USA

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May 13, 2024

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May 12, 2022

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May 16, 2021

Wonderful and so helpful. Thank you ❤️ Highly recommended.

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