What Is An Appropriate Response?

What is an appropriate response
 when I get something I don’t want
or don’t get what I do want? Bully the person I “think” is responsible?
 Chastise, criticize, frighten, and ruin them?
I’m following the Chief Justice and going with no.

At least from a mindfulness perspective - 
and I’m guessing this is obvious- 
it’s the age-old processes of
listening patiently and with compassion,
remembering we’re all in this together, 
and then making choices that don’t cause any harm,
 no matter how disappointing the moment.