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Sit With Your Discomfort

by Jelena Fu

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This meditation helps you look at the pain, discomfort and other difficulties, listen to them and acknowledge the space that is above the suffering. It contains reflection questions at the end to help you evaluate the practice. I truly hope it brings you comfort and peace. Namaste!

DiscomfortPainDifficultiesAcceptanceNon JudgmentEmotional PainAwarenessEmotional EnergyBody Mind SpiritFearWellbeingReflectionPeaceAcceptance Of SufferingNon Judgmental ObservationEmotional Pain AcknowledgmentAwareness And AcceptanceBody Mind Spirit ConnectionOverwhelmSpiritual Wellbeing

Transcript

Hello and welcome.

I'm Jelena.

Thank you for being here with me.

On our life path,

We are all bound to encounter discomfort,

Pain and suffering.

As Buddha said,

Suffering is.

It is universal.

May it be natural,

Like getting old,

Sick or being hurt in any way,

Or a construct of our mind,

Our reactiveness,

Anger,

Anxiety,

Depression,

Or it could just be general uneasiness of life.

Instead of hiding from discomfort,

Pushing it away or putting rose-tinted glasses on it,

We can choose to sit with it,

Observe it,

Listen to it.

So,

If you're ready,

Sit back and join me for this ride.

Call your energy back to the present moment.

Your physical,

Emotional and mental energy.

Call it back.

Sit with your energy as it is for a little bit.

Don't try to change it.

Force it in any way.

Just let it be.

Now,

When you're ready,

Call in your discomfort,

Your pain or suffering,

Whatever it is that you're going through at the moment that is unpleasant or difficult for you.

Call it all in.

Notice it in your breath.

Notice that discomfort in your body.

Notice it also in your thoughts and feelings.

Sit with that pain,

With that difficult feeling,

With that discomfort patiently.

Look at it.

Don't judge it.

Don't label it.

Don't argue with it.

Sit with it calmly and observe.

There's no need to change it,

To push it away or hide from it.

Allow it to be there.

And allow it to show you and tell you what it wants.

Are you maybe afraid that you'll be overwhelmed by the discomfort?

You can also sit with that fear,

Look at that fear and look at that sense of being overwhelmed.

Whatever the discomfort pushes up to the surface,

You may choose to sit with it and look at it and observe it.

You are always safe.

Now notice that you are not that pain,

That suffering.

Notice how you can observe it.

Notice how the suffering becomes an object in your mind.

You can choose to just let it be.

In observation,

There is a distance between you and suffering,

Between you and pain.

Notice a much deeper sense of inner well-being present in that space.

Sit with that feeling.

As you slowly open your eyes and finish this meditation,

Reflect on this practice.

Notice,

Did the discomfort change or stay the same?

Did you notice thoughts or feelings brought up by it?

Did your discomfort have any kind of message for you?

How is your energy now compared to the beginning?

Can you accept and surrender to whatever it is in this moment?

Meet your Teacher

Jelena FuBelgrade, Serbia

4.7 (236)

Recent Reviews

Dawn

July 27, 2023

Very soothing and helpful for my wild thoughts today—thank you so much, Jelena 🙏🏻

Rahul

December 14, 2022

I really enjoyed this especially because it helped integrate the technique my therapist taught me, and combined with your approach, I was really able to process how I was feeling. Thank you !!

Marzia

May 9, 2021

This meditation was really helpful and calming, thank you!💕

Lynette

October 27, 2020

Wonderful. Amazing. Thank you.

A

July 13, 2020

I feel blessed to have come across this reminder that I am not my pain and suffering but can “rightsize it” rather than feel overwhelmed by it - you are very gifted, and have a lovely soothing voice too - thank you ☺️ 🙏🏻

Kay

April 16, 2020

This is a blessing! Before it ended, I was able to shift and realize “something in me is experiencing discomfort” as opposed to when I started as “ I’m so uncomfortable. Thank you; I’ll be using often 💗

Serena

April 11, 2020

Just Wonderful! I look forward to doing this daily. Each day I deal with a different suffering in this meditation. Emotional and physical. It has been a blessing! Her voice is soothing and relaxing, the back ground music I just love, I wish I had a CD of it! Thank you!

Corinne

November 1, 2019

Very soothing words. Thank you dear.

Daisy

August 30, 2019

So helpful. Much Gratitude🙏

Koen

August 29, 2019

waw!! Total surprise, and in a good way I mean. Thank you for this experience. Great guidance and soundscape. Look forward to sit with it again, and to discover your other work. Thanks again..

Karen

August 29, 2019

I will bookmark this meditation and certainly come back to it. Thank you it has helped me face this day that may be life changing for me.

Theresa

August 29, 2019

I wish this was longer...I need to do this every day! The discomfort and pain from an injury is affecting my whole career! Its devastating right now. Just trying to do all I can to sit with it! To believe everything will be ok! Thank you! Namaste

Cristina

August 29, 2019

Gentle. Helpful. Thank you🙏🏻🕉

Scott

August 29, 2019

Very helpful practice. Thank you.

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