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Softening Around Pain

by Jane Gabites

Rated
4.6
Type
guided
Activity
Meditation
Suitable for
Everyone
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In this practice, with her calm and soothing voice, Jane gently guides you to a way to manage your pain more effective. She helps you focus on managing your pain with kindness and compassion, getting you to soften around the pain.

SofteningPainKindnessCompassionBody ScanTension ReleaseBreathingSmiling TechniqueBreathing AwarenessHealing VisualizationsPosturesSmilingVisualizations

Transcript

Find a comfortable place where you won't be disturbed for as long as you need.

Make sure you are supported really nicely with cushions and a foot rest if necessary.

Take your time to arrange yourself really comfortably.

Pause the tape to do this if you need.

Now notice your body sitting on the chair or cushion.

Really feel where it is pressing into the chair or cushion.

Slowly and with kindness bring your attention to your breath.

Notice the sensations of the breath as the air moves in and out across your nostrils or mouth.

If you can,

Put a half smile on your lips.

For the next few breaths,

Keep noticing the sensations of the breath on your nostrils or mouth.

If you have any distracting thoughts,

This is totally normal.

Just gently and kindly unhook from the thoughts and bring your focus back to your breathing.

Gently and kindly bring your attention to your neck and shoulders.

We tend to hold a lot of tension in these areas.

Breathing into any tight areas in your shoulders,

Imagine you are breathing in softening and calm and that you are breathing out any tension.

Breathe in calm and breathe out tension for a few more breaths.

Become aware of your posture and if it is available to you,

Try and gently allow your ears to sit above your shoulders instead of being hunched forward.

Now bring your attention to your jaw.

Allow your tongue to rest in the bottom soft palate of your mouth.

Notice as you do this whether there is any softening or relaxing.

Focus on this area for two more breaths.

Now bring your attention to where you are feeling the pain the strongest.

Gently and with curiosity breathe into the area of pain,

All the while keeping your shoulders and jaw softened and relaxed.

Be like a curious scientist with a clipboard.

Noticing objectively where the pain begins and where it ends,

All the while breathing into it with kindness.

As you breathe in,

Imagine that your breath is making space all around the pain.

Notice any distracting or skeptical thoughts.

Try and unhook from them and bring your attention back to your breathing.

If you need to,

Move your position a little.

Just listen to what your body needs.

On your next breath,

Imagine that you are breathing in some kind,

Warm,

Healing energy or light.

As you breathe out,

Imagine that you are breathing out tightness and pain.

Try this for the next few breaths.

If you need longer,

Pause this exercise to allow you to breathe in this way for as long as you need.

Again,

Bringing your attention to your shoulders,

Neck and jaw.

Notice if they've tightened and allow them to soften.

Again,

Try a half smile on your mouth.

When you're ready,

Slowly open your eyes and let the room come to you.

Congratulations for taking the time to do this work.

And remember,

If the pain does not soften or lessen,

Consult your health professional.

Meet your Teacher

Jane GabitesAuckland, New Zealand

4.6 (574)

Recent Reviews

Jocelyne

December 3, 2025

Lovely helpful méditation. Thank You. I have bookmarked it. 🙏

Rosalien

December 5, 2023

Really helpful, thank you so much! 🥰 I would love to hear a longer version of this one, maybe 20-30 minutes, if that is possible. 😊 Thank you again for your work. 😊🙏

Alicia

June 27, 2021

Nice

Linda

February 26, 2021

This was very helpful to me. As I deal with shingles I will remind myself to relax my neck and shoulders and try a gentle smile on my lips. Thank you so much!

Frédéric

February 8, 2021

Thank you ❤ This was really helpful for sustaining me through a difficult tooth ache 🤗 May you have a beautiful day ✨ Namaste 🙏🏻

Anna

October 27, 2020

very supportive. 🙏

Sheila

August 22, 2020

That was helpful. Thank you for making these so helpful meditations (I also like the one for stressful thoughts). You have a very soothing voice. ❤️💕❤️

Barbara

July 30, 2020

Thanx so much for sharing this beautiful short meditation...any time breathing into pain and it gets released and feels so much better...your calming words and gentle voice are so beneficial.

Bhakthi

July 20, 2020

So calming and professional thank you

Renske

June 21, 2020

Really wonderful thanks Jane

eileen

June 13, 2020

This was my first pain based guided meditation. I enjoyed the experience and will continue to work on this practice. Thank you

Patricia

May 9, 2020

Thanks. This meditation helped me to get started with my morning walk, softening stiffness in body.

Moira

May 9, 2020

Lovely. Thank you 🙏🌸🌸🌺🌺

Lois

May 9, 2020

Wonderful. Thank you

Tess

May 8, 2020

So calming and healing. Thank you! Namaste 🙏🏼💚

Elizabeth

May 8, 2020

Very soothing and effective - works for emotional pain, too. Thank you for this.

Barbara

May 5, 2020

Thank you! Great tip at the end! Namaste 🙏

Melanie

April 29, 2020

Thankyou Jane that was really calming and helpful. A great way to end my yoga practice this morning.

Tricia

April 28, 2020

Lovely, thank you.

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