Evolution And Soul Growth Is Not What You Think It Is - Why Does It Hurt?

We often want to avoid challenges in life. Most people just choose to ‘wing it’. But that will not evolve you. It's important to realize that some patterns are brought to you for a reason. I know it sounded hard when you put it that way. But it does not have to be. Let this calm and help you through your evolution.

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So,

You want to evolve.

You want to reach the highest point that your soul was here to accomplish.

You feel empty,

Unfulfilled,

And you're not sure what your mission or destiny is.

Who am I?

Why am I here?

What is my purpose?

Only then will I find happiness.

You're listening to Holly Hall at AskHollyHall.

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One of the main questions I get as a clarifying life business coach and a master astrologer are just that,

What I just mentioned.

And I will give you a bit of a secret.

I'm kind of known for sharing my secrets.

I have a direct correlation and connection with Universal Source.

We all do.

But when I do my readings and my writings,

My broadcasting,

And my coaching,

It is not just you and I in a coaching session or in a reading.

It's you and I in the universe.

Seriously,

We three are co-creating as I have that one hour session.

It's powerful,

Intensely powerful.

And the universe speaks through me and allows me to guide you to have all of that.

The first hour that you have a session with me is sort of the setup of everything and I speak to your soul.

Many times people cry and they cry.

They're not sad and they're not happy.

They actually say,

This is really confusing crying because I'm not sad and I'm not happy.

I'm just like so touched.

And I'll say because your soul is being heard.

It's being seen and it's so elated.

It's so excited.

It's so transformed and it's crying out.

You hear me,

You see me,

You know me.

And ultimately that's all that we want.

We want to be seen.

We want to be heard.

We want to be known.

And so the secret that I want to share with you is that if you want to evolve,

If you want to come to a place of knowing who you are,

Why you're here,

What your mission is,

How can you heal and how can you help others or serve others,

Then you are not going to accomplish this without some pain,

Without some transformation.

You will be squeezed through the black hole of evolution to the other side where you reside.

And so the secret here that I want you to embrace is that right now,

Are you in pain?

Are you suffering?

Are you maybe going through a divorce,

Bad job,

Don't have a job,

Struggling with your children,

Trying to figure out how you can heal from past trauma?

Are you having health issues?

How does that feel?

Or have you had that recently in the past?

I don't think there's one person listening right now that can say no.

So I want you to sit right now and feel those feelings.

Feel that pain,

Feel that discomfort,

Feel that suffering,

That sadness,

That loneliness,

Frustration,

Anger.

Feel that right now.

Put your hand on your heart and one hand on your stomach,

Which is your solar plexus,

And feel that right now.

That is evolution.

That is the classroom of your soul,

The school for your humanness.

And you are passing a test,

And you are going through boot camp,

And you are evolving.

That is what the pain is.

We try to avoid it,

Ignore it,

Distance ourselves from it,

Pretend it's not happening,

Or we suffer with it as a victim.

But it is the most transformational time in your evolutionary process that you will ever,

Ever have a chance.

So when you say to the universe,

When you say to God,

When you say to the angels or your higher self,

Help me find true love,

Help me find the best job ever,

Help me heal from my parental pain and trauma from childhood,

Help me evolve from this,

Help me grow from this,

Help me be happy around this.

Be very careful when you say that because the clouds will come,

The darkness will shadow you,

The veil will be lifted,

And it will not be easy.

It's what's called growing pains.

So next time you're going through something like this,

Or if you're going through it right now,

Look at it that way.

Look at it as a way of growth.

What is hurting?

What am I struggling with?

What am I resisting?

What am I,

What past experiences are coupled with the experience I'm going through right now?

So as an example,

When I went through my divorce from my daughter's father,

Which was very sudden unexpected,

She was 11 months old,

I had a complete emotional breakdown.

And I'm not an overly emotional person.

That doesn't mean I don't have emotions,

It's just I'm not an overly,

I'm very cerebral.

And so for me,

I've always got it together and I've always been independent.

I always lived on my own since I was 18,

So I was in my 30s.

I completely fell apart.

Why?

Because within a short period of time,

I knew this wasn't just about me and him and my daughter and my pain.

This was about 13 year old Holly,

Who witnessed her parents divorce and promised herself that when she grew up,

She was going to have a great man and a great family.

And she was going to be a great woman and a great wife and a great mother.

And this would not happen.

And she was going to marry somebody who had a big family,

Which is what he had,

Which is what I had,

Which is what 13 year old Holly had.

So I knew that this was in tandem with a pain from childhood that I still had not healed.

That was a double whammy.

And this is the case for most of you.

So take a look at what baggage,

What experience is on the back of the experience that you're having now and acknowledge that you're healing that younger version of yourself as well.

And everything that you go through is to gather knowledge and experience so that one day you can share that with others.

You can help others,

Teach others,

Support others,

Heal others.

Be with others.

It might be on a grand scale like podcasting or writing a book or standing up and speaking about it.

It may be on a everyday scale where you can help support students or coworkers or family members.

It may be five years from now,

10 years from now,

30 years from now.

Time is not of the essence here.

The universe has no concept of time.

Only we do.

We make that up in our heads.

So I hope that this supports you during a time of trauma,

Turmoil,

Transition,

And that you may feel as a victim,

You may be trying to escape it right now.

You may be wondering why me,

Why me?

Why you?

A,

You asked for it.

No,

You didn't ask for the person to hurt you or harm you.

You didn't ask for the situation to be created.

You asked for the evolution of it.

And B,

Because this is how we evolve.

This is how we learn.

Many people who've gone through life and death situations,

Like literally,

They were supposed to die and they lived.

They are transformed,

Most of them are transformed instantly.

We've read books about it.

We've seen guests on Oprah around it.

Because something happens in that near-death experience that changes them forever.

And things that were important to them are not as important anymore.

Things that bothered them don't bother them as much anymore.

They don't sweat the small stuff,

Hence how that book was written.

Why?

Because that pain,

That intense pain that many of us could never imagine even happening to us was the most dense boot camp known.

It is the most intense and dense,

That means dense,

Thick,

Full of lessons,

Boot camp known to mankind.

Most of us are fortunate not to have to go through that,

But we go through other mini-deaths.

We go through death of a relationship,

Death of our aspirations for being a child to a parent,

Death of a job,

Death of a career,

Death of a relationship with a friend,

A marriage,

A child.

When they grow up and they leave the,

They leave the nest,

There's a death for the mother and sometimes the father.

And some of the deaths are meant to know,

To not be,

You know,

The life of that death is not meant to be with us anymore.

We let go of old habits,

Old behavior responses to life,

Old thought patterns.

And they don't serve us well.

They don't serve us at all anymore.

They might have at one time,

But they no longer serve us.

But we still have,

We hang on,

We cling on to the known.

Better the devil you know than the devil you don't know,

Right?

And so we still mourn the death of that as well,

As we transform into our new sense of self.

So I hope this serves you well and supports you in your transitional periods.

Namaste.

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Thank you so much dear Holly. I am feeling blessed and grateful for you and support of you and universe.