Are You Evolving? 10 Ways To Know

Ever wonder why do you feel alone? Why do others dismiss you? Or why are you fighting so damn hard to evolve and you feel more distressed, and not better? Well, these are the very symptoms you will experience while in a state of evolution. Identify in less than 30 minutes the 10 stages of how you distinguish when you are in an evolutionary flow.

PLUS: Witness live a download I experienced as I was recording this audio! Wow, the Universe informed me of the one secret.

Transcript

Welcome to The Holly Hall Show.

Have you ever wondered when you have evolved?

Have you evolved?

Are you evolving?

There are 10 specific secrets to knowing when and how and if you have evolved.

And I'm going to let you know what they are next.

My name is Holly Hall.

I am the owner of Ask Holly Hall.

I'm a master astrologer.

I have a background education in philosophy and psychology.

Neuro-linguistic programming,

Past life regression therapy,

And currently being certified in hypnosis therapy.

What I do with this is I help my clients evolve,

Hence the topic of today's podcast.

Period.

I say period because it is extremely important to know that this is a period in your time.

It is the end of a time and the beginning of a new time every single day.

Every single day we need to end our day in a period because it's about to begin a new sentence or a new paragraph the next day.

But often what we do is we create a continuation of the sentence,

The dialogue,

And the paragraph that we had the day before,

And the day before,

And the day before.

Now if I were to give you one reason,

One example of how you are not evolving,

That is it.

So each day you wrap your day up with gratitude.

Not with I should have done this,

I should have thought this,

I should have said this,

I should have could have would have.

Which all of us default to,

Including myself.

But what you want to do is end it with three gratitudes.

And that is a period at the end of a sentence,

A period at the end of the day.

A finalization of a string of events or in a sentence in a string of words that ends your day.

With thoughtful,

Thankful,

Understanding that your day has ended and a new one will begin tomorrow.

And tomorrow you don't have to be the same person that you were today.

That is the biggest misconception.

Often we are labeled and we label ourselves and in that process of labeling we have decided who we are.

We are smart,

We are intelligent,

We are funny,

We have low confidence,

We're not intelligent enough.

We haven't succeeded,

Our goal has not been reached.

We are a failure,

We are still fat,

We are still too skinny,

We are still too this,

We're still too that.

And you've labeled yourself.

Others will label you as well.

And so when you're in a state of evolution,

Flux,

Metamorphosis,

People will not be comfortable with the new you that you have become,

That you are becoming.

Recently I've been a bit addicted to watching Jim Carrey evolve in the last few years,

Specifically the last year or so after the writing of his memoir.

Many of his quotes are extremely inspiring.

And one of the things that he talked about was that we play roles,

We wear masks,

Just like an actor does,

As he does.

And he is quite well known for being able to morph himself into any character that he plays.

He believes that this is actually life itself,

That this is what we do.

And when we are being labeled,

We contain ourselves within that mask,

We contain ourselves within that outfit,

Within that character.

And we play out that character because that's what everybody expects us to do.

One of his recent interviews,

He stood out on stage.

This is when he had the big,

Big beard.

And normally,

Everybody's clapping and standing up and applauding loudly.

Normally the guest would sit down during that applause.

And as the applauds fade away,

Then they begin their conversation.

But in this case,

He just stood there and looked at the audience,

Not smiling,

Very serious,

Almost in awe,

And stared at the audience.

Jimmy Fallon was the show host,

And he kept tapping on his shoulder.

And he was like,

Jim,

Jim,

Hello,

Hello,

Are you going to sit down?

And Jim said,

No,

I thought I would have a new experience and I would just stand here and see when the audience would stop applauding.

It was interesting because when he did turn around to say this to the show owner,

They stopped applauding.

And when he turned around and looked at the audience again,

They started to applaud again.

What I was fascinated by this was his quest.

He said,

I wanted to do something different and see what would happen.

And he continued to talk about that train of thinking,

That train of thought in another interview,

In which he said,

Why not just do something just to see what would happen?

With no expectation,

No desire to succeed,

And no attachment to failure,

Just simply to see what would happen.

And it made me think about dealing with our emotions.

What if instead of avoiding them,

Distracting yourself from them,

Contemplating them,

Talking to other people about them,

Desperately trying to find answers,

That one day you just woke up and said,

Today,

I'm going to do something different with my feelings.

Maybe you're a quiet person and today you decide you're going to tell your mother-in-law exactly how you feel.

Maybe you're not an adventurous person.

You're non-confrontational.

And today you're going to devise a plan on how you're going to confront a situation at work.

Maybe tomorrow you're going to implement that plan.

This is a stage of evolution.

This is the number one.

I'm going to name 10.

Okay,

So this is number one,

How you know that you are in a place of evolution,

That you are evolving.

The interesting thing is that your mother-in-law won't like it.

In fact,

You'll get backlash from her.

She'll be upset.

You're completely changing the dance.

This is not the dialogue or the language that you two have been speaking for 10 years,

15 years.

Your boss may be very upset,

Demanding that you stay in the position that you've always been in.

And you may go home and think,

I'm in a great place.

I'm trying to evolve.

I'm working through my inner dialogue,

My inner demons.

I'm courageously venturing out to be better than who I can be,

Knowing that I can be better than I am,

Knowing that I can grow and evolve.

And yet you may be temporarily discouraged because you think,

But they didn't like it.

They didn't go along with me.

They struggled with this new dance.

That is the number two.

Reason,

Experience that you will have when you know that you're in a state of evolution,

Of evolving.

And that is you will get pushback from others.

This does not mean you need to stop.

It just means that they either need to step away or follow your lead.

And that takes time.

The number three way that you know that you are in a state of evolution is that you feel uncomfortable.

You're not sure how to take the next step.

And when you take a step here and you take a step there,

You stumble,

You fall,

You're out of line.

And that's how you know you're in a state of evolution,

Your state of metamorphosis.

Because let's face it,

You have to get to know your new self as well.

The fourth way that you will know is that you will start to become irritated by the people around you.

You will no longer be able to cope with this kind of behavior.

You will no longer agree with their type of reactions.

You will no longer want to compromise in this situation.

Everything that was perfectly fine for you,

Even a few days ago to a few years ago,

No longer fits into your perspective,

Into your knowing.

The number five,

Which I think is the much more difficult one,

Is that society starts to upset you.

Period.

And that's when you end your day.

Again,

With a period.

You take stock of who has bothered you,

What has bothered you,

Where in your community has it upset you.

Where do you feel a discord?

Where do you feel like a misfitter that you don't fit into their dialogue,

Into their language?

And I want you to remember that everybody has their periods to the end of their day.

Think about that one for a second.

Period.

Your period at the end of your day,

At the end of your sentence,

At the end of your dialogue,

At the end of your paragraph,

In your state of evolution,

Is not the same as your husband's or your daughter's or your mother-in-law's or your co-workers or your boss or your clients.

And that's why I say end the day with a period.

End the day with a final paragraph of that chapter so that you can start the next day with a new chapter,

With new sentences,

With a new dialogue,

With a new story,

And see what other people's stories are that day.

You may wonder,

Why was Marion at work so grumpy,

Miserable,

Detached,

Unattainable,

Difficult to communicate with yesterday?

And today she comes in with a little pep in her step,

Talking to you like everything's perfectly fine.

And you may be confused.

What's up with her?

Why did she give me such a hard time yesterday?

Everything seems perfectly fine.

I don't understand.

You may have spent all night,

Because you didn't end that day with a period,

Trying to problem solve how you can approach her today.

And yet,

It seems that there isn't a problem to be approached.

And that is because Marion did a reset.

Marion ended her day in a period,

And she is beginning a new day with a new attitude.

Maybe she problem solved all night and realized she wasn't really that upset about it anymore.

The sixth way of knowing that you have evolved is by understanding that someone can be in one mood one day,

Like Marion,

And be in another mood the next day,

And accepting it.

The seventh phase of evolution,

When you know you're evolving—and don't forget,

At the very end,

I'm going to let you know when you know you have evolved,

When you know you have reached that pinnacle,

That finish line.

Now,

The seventh is when you accept things as they are and do not demand forgiveness,

To be forgiven,

Or to forgive another.

This one is a doozy,

Because you may have someone,

Some people in your life that you've been harboring resentment,

Anger,

Hurt for years and years and years,

Trying to find a way to let go of the pain,

Trying to discover how you can forgive them.

And yet,

When you realize that acceptance is a key,

There is no need to forgive.

And that includes accepting yourself for the choices that you made.

Accepting doesn't mean that you like it,

Or you like them,

Or that you wouldn't have wished it was different.

It simply means acceptance.

Now,

That seems quite simple,

Does it not?

Yet it's not.

Because once we realize we can accept instead of forgive,

Then that's a whole new process.

There's a beginning,

A middle,

And an end to that process of acceptance,

And that takes quite a bit of deconstructing of the situation.

So this is where we become Sherlock Holmes of our lives.

And this is when it is okay for you to dip into the past.

In mindfulness,

They say,

Do not be in the past,

Do not be in the future,

But to be in the now.

However,

I believe that it is okay to momentarily dip into the past to try to understand.

As long as it's affecting you in the present,

The past is in your present.

They are one.

And so you take a look at your,

Let's say it's your brother that you have resentment for,

Because he stole money from you in a way that you lent him money for a business that he basically dug into the ground and never paid you back.

The Sherlock Holmes side of you will have to go into understanding the position that he was in,

Accepting the situation that he was in,

Maybe looking at his surroundings,

His wife at the time,

His girlfriend at the time,

His mentality during that time.

You may have to look at yourself.

Who was I then?

Who am I now?

And then the eighth place of where you know you are evolving,

And this is on a very grand,

Grand scale,

Is when you no longer have to forgive anyone or any situation.

And the reason I say situation is because what if your body let you down?

What if you had health issues that held you back,

That put you in a state of flux or fear and anxiety?

Even in that situation,

People may try to find a way to forgive.

This is when a lot of people say,

I don't believe in God.

Why would a God put me through this?

I don't believe in the law of attraction.

I don't believe in abundance because I did everything right.

And I still didn't get what I want.

I still didn't have my health.

I still lost my business.

My marriage still failed.

This is again on a larger scale when you begin to accept everything all the time as it is without even trying.

No deconstructing.

No looking into the past and trying to figure out why they did what they did.

Why happened?

What happened?

And number nine.

Number nine is a good one.

In number nine,

You want to start looking at global events.

Other people of all races,

Of all religions,

Of all societies and culture,

Whether they're powerful and rich and wealthy or not powerful and poor and struggling.

No matter what level they are on,

You have compassion for their suffering and empathy and a desire to make a difference.

A desire to help in any way that you can.

In number 10,

This is the big,

Big one.

This is when you want no thing,

No one or no living thing to suffer on the planet.

This is when you change how you consume,

What you consume and why you consume.

This is when you go down the rabbit hole of investigating and educating yourself in order to make the best choices that will affect everyone,

Everything,

Every living being on the planet.

And I mean,

Fish,

Trees,

The air,

People,

The land,

The atmosphere,

The waters,

The oceans.

Now,

It doesn't have to be that big.

When you're at the very beginning of stage 10 in your evolution,

You will pick what is your passion.

It might be that you start using more natural pharmaceuticals.

You might become vegetarian.

You may start only purchasing organic clothing.

Whatever you choose to begin that journey,

There's no judgment.

And to segue from judgment is,

How do you know when you have reached the highest level of evolution,

When you have evolved?

And this is where I want you to have no judgment,

No judgment for yourself and no judgment for my answer,

Only observation.

Observation of how do you feel when I give you this answer?

The answer is never.

You will never get to that point.

And accepting that is the furthest that you can become.

And you don't want to ever get to that place.

Because if you do feel that you have reached that level,

Then you are still in ego.

The universe never stops expanding.

That has already been scientifically proven with all the most prominent physicists and astrophysicists in the world.

It never stops expanding.

And neither do you.

There was always more to know.

There was always more to become.

And if you ask me,

That's a pretty exciting place to be.

Namaste.

Period.

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