How Jealousy Enters Life And Why

Eastern wisdom aims at self-discovery. Self-discovery leads to self-knowledge. The journey to self-discovery helps us to know what is existence and what is the world and who we are. When we recognize ignorance causes suffering because we are false that leads to a lot of challenges in daily life.
When we follow the path of Eastern wisdom, it helps us realize our wrong notions, and misconceptions, and awaken us to our real selves. The real self is pure consciousness of the nature of permanent peace, happiness, love truth, and wisdom. That is the highest meditative state, set by our masters. Listen, learn, contemplate, and reflect on the topics mentioned in the title, then practice regularly to move from ignorance to wisdom.

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So my friends,

I always ask,

How many times have you got an upset since the last session?

Did you change the mind?

When the mind is upset,

Reacting,

Hesitated.

Based on these principles,

Do you feel you are improving?

I'm going to take up a topic.

I don't name the topic until the end.

You have to recognize that topic.

And that is the source of millions of troubles in our life.

It takes place very good,

Ashok.

You joined it.

So it gives you trouble in the family.

It gives you the trouble in your professional life,

Social life.

And we are not aware of it.

The moment you recognize it,

Only recognition.

The moment you recognize it,

It dissolves by itself.

But it dissolves by itself if you have understood the previous sessions for the last eight weeks,

Which includes likes and dislikes,

Sorrow in the happiness,

Ignorance,

The impurities of the mind.

I'm giving a hint.

Do you want to prove somewhere something or do you want to improve in your life?

Such a simple thing.

Are you improving by your thought,

Speech and action?

Or you are proving yourself?

Are you evolving or are you involving yourself?

One word that defines everything.

You all are seekers.

Are you rising in consciousness or falling in consciousness?

One guy abused me and then he wrote sorry.

And then he said that I receive almost 40,

50 emails.

That's a part of the journey of the teachers in Eastern wisdom.

So then he said that I fall in love with you.

I said,

No,

I don't love you.

Don't fall in love with me.

It is not required.

I'm giving a hint.

Find out that word which defines all these things.

Unless we get rid of this from the mind,

There is no improvement.

There is no evolution.

Ultimately,

It backs you.

I call this is a problem of ID.

Have you heard the word discernment and and and dispassion?

And opposite of discernment and dispassion,

I discussed in detail duality and a delusion.

And now another pair I am explaining.

Or you can say DD again.

Dization problem and diarrhea.

No,

Not that diarrhea and dization problem.

It's a problem of dization of the mind.

Indization in the mind and diarrhea in the mind.

Find out that word.

Constantly thinking.

So that defines whether you are improving,

Evolving,

Rising in consciousness or you are falling in consciousness,

You are proving yourself,

You are involving yourself.

Indization simply means the food is not digested.

So what it has to do with the mind,

The knowledge is not digested.

This is what I'm saying.

And diarrhea,

You already know the knowledge.

Sometimes people say that I hear from one ear and I throw it from the other ear.

That knowledge is not settled.

Why the knowledge is not settled?

Because I keep my old habit,

Old reactions and agitations,

Old inhibitions at one compartment of the mind.

I keep that in one compartment of the mind and the other compartment keeps on learning.

Intellectually,

You say I'm learning,

You say I'm improving.

But that compartment triggers such a tremendous reaction.

Ah,

There is nothing in the Eastern wisdom.

Beer guy is crazy.

Yes,

I'm crazy.

That's why I'm teaching.

It's so simple.

And that applies to your relationship,

That applies to your professionals.

It is all about the evolution of the mind.

You have to find out that word.

I'm not telling you the name of that problem that contains commander in chief that I discussed,

The ego part,

Ignorance,

Delusion,

Sorrow and happiness,

Likes and dislikes.

But we do not realize it.

What label we give to the people when we suffer from indigestion and diarrhea of the mind.

What happens?

First we blame,

We complain,

We react,

We get agitated.

We rationalize what we think is right.

We are not able to keep that knowledge on one side and my ignorance on the other side.

This is one of the,

I would say,

One of the greatest challenges of our mind.

That lives in ignorance.

Have you seen that there is an instant reaction?

Sometime we hide it,

Sometime we express it,

Sometime we say that it is enough is enough.

And we break our relationship.

We enter into the hesitation.

And sometime it helps.

Like Ashok.

Ashok has been learning.

He met with such a severe accident.

And then at least one thing you all witness that he is able to maintain that state.

Of awareness.

I have reasons to believe that is also one of the greatest reasons for his speedy recovery.

Did you understand that part that we hide our habits,

Our inhibitions,

Our wrong notions on one compartment of the mind?

On the other compartment I keep on learning intellectually.

I understand learning and at last it blasts.

That compartment ignites.

It's like a volcano.

I'm using the words,

Very strong words to make you understand.

You have to contemplate and reflect whether what Masters are teaching is right or not.

I don't want to name any person but I just want to tell you without naming a person.

One guy told me that you are always asking,

You are always praising and appreciating the Americans and not the Indians.

You have a very partial or what you can say,

Whatever you say that.

One word defines that.

Sorrow and the joy that we discussed,

Likes and dislikes we discussed.

And that is part of the impurities of the mind.

It is the tip of the iceberg.

And the iceberg is this what we are discussing today.

People have problems.

People have challenges.

But that compartment triggers.

It becomes a volcano and you instantly drop learning.

Now why don't you teach everything in one session?

Yes,

I can teach.

So simple to teach.

There is one real self,

Unitary,

One consciousness present everywhere in all the beings.

The rest is the non-self.

That is the end of the teaching.

So we cannot get it.

That is why this learning goes slowly,

Step by step.

You miss one step,

That comes.

There is another way to explain.

Pick up a point.

There is a great master Ramakrishna.

So in our text it says that when you take a dip in the Ganges River,

All your sins are washed away.

Sins means unfavorable condition.

Don't go into the religious context.

Since I have already discussed,

Sins means in life when I experience unfavorable condition,

Breaking in relationship,

My mind is constantly subjected by the sorrow and the joy,

Reaction,

Anger and agitation are the effects of those sins.

Clear?

Say yes,

You have understood that.

So Ramakrishna said,

So one great,

One another seeker went to the Ramakrishna,

The great master.

He said,

Is it right that when I take a dip in the Ganges River,

All the sins are washed?

Ramakrishna says,

Yes.

We have to adhere to the teachings,

But with the wisdom.

So what he explained Ramakrishna,

As long as you are in the Ganges River,

All those sins are waiting outside.

At least one day you will come out of the river,

Taking a bath.

And again the sins will enter into you.

Did you understand that?

So as long as you are in a session,

You are good sir,

You have a long beard,

That is why I respect you.

And just after that,

That compartment triggers you.

Okay,

I have learned it.

I know everything.

That demands contemplation and reflection,

My friends.

I did it,

It happened in my life and especially against my teacher.

So understand that clearly,

That Eastern wisdom says contemplation and reflection is very important.

So that I can see this principle,

This knowledge with reference to my life.

Then only it can change me.

Otherwise,

You know,

He talks very good.

That does not matter whether I talk good and bad.

What matters is whether that knowledge is properly digested,

Assimilated.

You have received the knowledge,

You have retained the knowledge,

You have realized the knowledge.

That point of realization drops and dissolves that small compartment,

Which I'm talking about.

One word.

Did you get it?

Are you thinking that you know?

Cause of the suffering,

We discussed it about ignorance.

I'm not saying that you know.

Cause of the suffering,

We discussed it about ignorance.

I'm looking at the verse and then I will.

Come down to yes.

Now again,

I'm giving you a hint.

Think of it.

We drag a person,

Situation,

Object to our level.

That defines the word.

What it means?

I drag you.

For example,

I normally,

I don't do it.

I drag you,

Your situation,

To my level.

Why?

Are you thinking?

I drag you,

Your situation,

Your condition to my level.

Because of,

I give value to my knowledge and my understanding.

I don't want to understand you from your perspective.

One example,

I have already said,

For example,

A person has a very deep obsession for something.

And now I am dragging you.

Giving the same value where my obsession is.

Then I will see you negatively.

I see the entire world negatively.

I bring the entire world into that small compartment.

Did you get it?

The one word that is known as jealousy.

You have to listen to the entire talk again to see that that word is jealousy.

First is the ignorance or you start with the impurities of the mind.

We have superimposition I discussed.

So superimposition gives a different picture that is a delusion.

And once we have,

We come to the level of the joy and the sorrow.

Then joy and the sorrow creates a very strong likes and dislikes.

Mind says,

No,

I have an intellect,

I have understood it.

What's the problem?

I know it.

No,

That smart compartment becomes a volcano.

Unconsciously.

It's a greater level of ignorance.

So in jealousy we drag the person's situation,

Object to over level.

But in competition,

We try to reach their level.

No,

It doesn't mean that,

You know,

You have a strong jealousy,

Then I should compete with you to reach to a greater jealousy level.

You should not misunderstand this in a different way.

I understand it clearly.

My master used to say that you have one million thoughts of jealousy every day.

Unconsciously,

Subconsciously.

Your sense organ expresses that jealousy.

Your eyes,

Your ears.

Oh,

You heard them?

Yeah.

No,

No,

She is beautiful.

My expression.

It keeps running through our mind like our.

.

.

Sometimes the nose is running because of the infection.

You have to understand it clearly.

You have to get rid of it.

And you can only get rid of it by understanding.

You cannot get rid of it by any practice.

Without understanding,

You keep on doing the mindfulness or meditation practice.

It will not work.

You keep on doing the meditation.

It will not work.

You have to understand it.

You have to understand it.

The moment this is gone,

You accelerate the journey of the self-inquiry.

We give value to some person,

Some object,

Some place,

Some location,

Relation.

That value is present in the world of people,

Place,

Things and objects.

What happens to the mind to think?

Mind says others have it.

I do not have it.

Why we think so?

Pay attention.

Why we think so?

Because we have value based on likes and dislikes.

It is coming from the same likes and dislikes,

Sorrow and the joy.

They are the impurities of the mind.

After all,

Commander-in-chief,

I thought,

Is ruling all of them,

Getting support of the sorrow and the joy.

And that is why we say,

You know,

We sit beside a person.

He has a very negative vibration.

No,

You have a negative vibration.

No one has any negative vibration.

You are responsible for it.

Don't go by so-called,

You know,

Pseudo-spiritualist people.

If you are the real self,

If you are peace and happiness,

How anyone's negative vibration can impact you?

Come on,

Ask yourself.

I don't want to go to very strong words for it.

Think of it.

You have to think.

Get rid of those wrong notions.

That is also a point of the jealousy.

You see that I have such a good vibration.

I'm such a good guy.

Look at this.

You know,

I receive a negative vibration from those people.

You are born with some special gift from the God.

Don't go to those pseudo-spiritual people.

It is better to leave them.

Then keep on creating a wrong notion.

Then what will happen?

The first thing your mind will do,

Wherever you go,

Whether he or she has a negative or positive vibration.

We are human beings.

We can explore through the intellect.

We need to understand this,

My friend.

If you do not understand,

One million thoughts,

Feelings,

Expressions,

Actions are done every day because of this.

The word is called jealousy.

That what happens is called the jealousy.

Mind says others have it.

We don't realize it because of the delusion.

I discussed in the last session because of the superimposition.

I do not have it.

So why we think so?

Because we have value based on the likes and dislikes,

Joy and disorder.

If you have a value based on the right knowledge,

Nothing happens.

Done.

Finished.

It is just an attitude.

It is just an attitude.

I can tell you that compartment dissolves,

Melts away very fast.

This is the last topic and I just wanted to give you that.

It has to be the last in the journey of the impurities of the mind.

I may be jealous of something near,

Not far,

Not far.

What does it mean?

Biden is president.

Mind has no problem because I don't want to drag him to my position.

I'm not a politician.

I don't belong to any party.

You see,

See,

Understand.

That is the beauty of these teachings of the Master.

My neighbor has a big part.

There comes the jealousy.

Do you see?

It's very near.

So you recognize in that way.

Forget about the neighbor.

My honey has a problem with my honey.

Do you see that?

Jealousy picks up.

It gives you such a beautiful expression.

It hides itself by rationalizing.

You rationalize.

Our mind rationalizes.

That compartment of the mind rationalizes this jealousy and gives a new color.

I've seen,

For example,

You know,

This is just an example.

Don't take it.

Some people take it.

So they have a strong jealousy element.

So that is also a big problem for the teaching of Eastern wisdom because we want to be naked completely.

Now I have seen Krishna mingling with that guy who is a criminal.

Now see,

I have added another rationalization to my mind.

I don't know the situation.

I don't know the condition.

I don't know the relationship.

But I have given value.

I drag myself.

Anything and everything can happen.

Anything and everything can happen.

It blocks our mind completely from the knowledge and the wisdom.

Completely blocks.

And we rationalize.

Look at this guy.

Look at this girl.

Look at this.

Look at the political system.

Look at the Biden.

Look at the Trump.

I can give you millions of examples.

We carry those wrong notions.

Which we do not become aware.

That is what I refer to as a digestive problem.

It's a diarrhea problem that we did not digest the knowledge completely.

So either we suffer from indigestion or diarrhea.

What I have to do for my peace when anyone is doing anything in the world?

You first make that statement and make your mind clear.

Empty.

We have to understand the difference between the jealousy and competition.

Clearly.

I try to reach to your level.

In jealousy,

I try to drag you to my own level.

My level is already low.

My level is already low.

Because I have started thinking based on the likes and dislikes,

Sorrow and the joy.

In jealousy,

We drag the other person to the lowest level possible.

I'll give an example.

I was giving a talk.

I think I talked about it.

Anne Hoffman organized that.

There were more than 20 only women.

It was a women empowerment and some topic was there.

So I said,

I love you all.

And one woman stood up.

She said,

How can you love me?

I'm already married.

And later on I recognized.

Anne told me that this woman has a lot of problems with her husband.

You don't know how you take it.

You don't know.

So we have to be extremely careful in our thinking.

You have to be extremely careful in our thoughts,

Speech and action.

Even if you are careful.

If other drags you to their level and there is no solution.

You have to take care.

You have to remove that small compartment.

That causes a strained relationship.

That causes the stress and suffering.

That causes anxiety and duality.

I should appreciate.

I have nothing to do with what you wear.

How you talk.

Look at this guy.

How he or she is talking.

Look at this.

You know,

This is a function and what he is wearing.

I can tell you.

I have nothing to do with any of it.

Self-inquiry.

To eliminate.

Just to eliminate this jealousy.

I have to create a deeper understanding.

Just remember the moment the mind is going down.

Moving to such a low.

I have to remember and remind myself.

What are my strong likes and dislikes?

What causes me the joy and the sorrow in my life?

And how the joy and the sorrow is superimposed by the delusion.

And delusion does not allow me to see the reality.

And what is happening?

I'm more disturbed.

Do you see that?

We keep on thinking.

Last point.

Today's last point.

What is the last point?

My master used to tell us a good story.

That there were two disciples.

Like me.

Like Ashok.

So one disciple invited my master into his home.

For a dinner and to seek the blessing.

Normally that is the trend.

So.

But the first disciple said that please do not invite the other disciple to my home.

Because my master whenever we have an invitation.

My master says let us all go there.

Anyhow the dinner was served.

And then they started talking.

And the first disciple said.

You know I did it.

You see that?

Thank you master you did not invite the other.

Master said what I have to do.

I'm a beggar you know.

So wherever I get the food I go there.

But you are still keeping the other in your mind.

And that guy is sleeping and resting beautifully.

A perfect understanding of the jealousy.

Mind keeps on thinking with that small compartment.

Don't do that.

But how do you remove that?

By understanding.

Constantly understanding.

Repeating.

Commander in chief.

Then we did join the sorrow.

Likes and dislikes.

Delusion.

This is the way we reach to such a low level.

When we have that small compartment alive.

That will accumulate more and more sins.

At least four or five emails that I receive.

That is only depicting that jealousy.

But you see that the moment if I respond straight away.

You know what will be my position.

So I avoid it.

I don't send any response.

Or I send one line of response.

Simple one line of response.

No issue at all.

I recognize this is the problem.

But if I give the straight away reply what will happen?

Problem of indization.

Indirection.

They will rebuke me.

So I save my skin.

Close your eyes.

Eyes are closed.

Being comfortable.

Where I start being comfortable is rise in awareness.

How to rise in awareness?

By understanding.

Applying the knowledge.

What is that knowledge?

You look at the entire body.

Sensation,

Comfort and steadiness.

So you see that from the physical awareness of the body.

To a physical subtle awareness of sensation,

Comfort and steadiness.

To?

Do you remember?

To the space.

Space is awareness and awareness is space.

Can we bring an end to the session from here?

If the mind is totally absorbed into the space which is awareness and awareness is the space.

There is no need to any further step and that is what the highest state of the mindfulness is.

That will reveal the knowledge.

But it doesn't happen and that is why we need to do it.

Even if it happens we need to do it.

You see I'm getting now I'm talking with reference to the today's topic.

The mind has a compartment.

Oh I know it.

I realized.

Being carefree.

Being carefree I sat three compartments of the mind.

Three lanes of the highway of the mind.

Firstly,

Unwanted and unwelcome thoughts are coming.

Let it come.

Majority of them,

90% belongs to the topic we discussed today.

You'll be surprised if you go deeper into it.

You may not agree.

If you do not agree,

No,

I'm not teaching you know,

This is not my principle.

This is the principle of the teachers.

So if your intellect doesn't agree,

That is what those small compartment is.

So what should I do?

I should use the knowledge to reach to that small compartment of the mind to melt away,

To remove that small compartment once and forever.

That is one option.

Or you allow the small compartment to become a volcano.

What will happen?

I don't like you know.

You don't like me but do you like the knowledge?

Yes,

I like the knowledge.

So keep on attending.

I can give you hundreds of examples of subtle level of this problem.

So anyhow,

Lane one.

Thoughts are coming,

Unwanted and unwelcome.

Lane two.

You become an observer.

You become a witness.

You become a knower.

Oh,

I am a knower.

You become a knower and that changes your entire state.

That is what we have discussed in detail.

Being carefree.

Free from all the cares the mind does by the thought,

Feeling,

Inhibitions,

Habits,

Etc.

Sarvesham swasthir bhavatu.

Oh,

Whether this mantra is also helping me through the knowledge,

Through the understanding to get rid of these impurities of the mind?

The answer is yes.

Sarvesham swasthir bhavatu.

You just remember,

Use that thought present in the prayer consciously.

It is known as the prayer.

How long you are going to repeat the same prayer again and again without any change?

Which is blocking you?

That small compartment.

Understand it clearly.

You have to contemplate and reflect and come to the same knowledge which our teachers are teaching.

Sarvesham swasthir bhavatu.

Let everyone be happy.

Why the master says it is not saying that I,

My ego says I'm blessing everyone for happiness.

No.

Happiness is my essential nature.

That's why I'm seeking happiness.

So everyone is seeking the same happiness from all the living creatures.

Oh,

Their way is unconscious.

Why?

They don't know the Eastern ways.

Why know it?

That makes a tremendous difference.

This is known as the best prayer you can do.

I'm also introducing,

You know,

What it means by prayer,

Etc.

Worship.

In Eastern wisdom we define clearly.

Sarvesham swathir bhavatu.

Sarvesham swathir bhavatu.

Sarvesham swathir bhavatu.

You are having a jealousy,

For example.

You are reminding consciously the prayer.

Peace is essential nature of every living creature,

Including the one with whom I have jealousy.

Now see what happens.

That is the key.

I am complete so others are also complete.

Oh,

Really?

Is there any question of the word that I discussed?

Everyone is complete in their one self.

Their expression may be different.

Their name and the form may be different.

Their shape and the color would be different.

Gender and the caste will be different.

What matters is that we both are complete.

That understanding has to be settled to dissolve that little compartment and to prevent it from becoming a volcano.

Let there be auspiciousness for all.

From there we move to our three-step breathing practice.

We have been doing it for three minutes.

Looking deep inside the forehead into space.

Om Shanti.

Keep on doing it mentally and gently and start.

Quick and short breath into the ribcage.

And see if any objection comes from the mind.

Get rid of that objection by understanding.

Not by force.

Not creating a conflict.

Keep on continue to purify the mind.

That is why we are doing it.

And stop it.

So just after stopping,

You recognize.

You accept the changes that is taking place in terms of sensation,

Tingling,

Expansion of the body or some vision and colors.

That gives an idea that where the mind is.

That is only the fact.

Normally sometimes those vision and colors are equated with such a beautiful experiences in the spiritual realm.

It has nothing to do with it.

Keep on doing the Om Shanti and start breathing from the belly.

It's a longer breath.

You expand the belly and you contract the belly.

Why it is a longer breath?

Lower lobes of the lungs are bigger than the smaller lobes of the lungs at the ribcage.

We all know it.

So that's why we do the longer breath.

We facilitate the total expansion of the belly and the contraction with each breath dropping the Om Shanti.

Gently.

Keep on doing.

Now.

I'm going to change these steps as the time matures.

So.

Continue the journey.

Long breath into and a hissing breath into the belly without moving any ribcage.

But yes,

There will be a small movement.

That's okay.

But your focus remains on the belly with Om Shanti deep inside the forehead.

You're dropping it gently.

Body remains in the state of stillness during the journey.

Why?

We want to get rid of all those impurities.

How is that possible?

Yes.

And stop this.

Recognize,

Accept the changes.

Experience this.

Recognize and accept all the experiences that is taking place.

Because you are in a journey and you are conscious.

So any issue that happens that very intelligence takes care of it.

Normally we make people scared.

Oh,

Don't do this.

And there are a lot of misconceptions in this journey.

And now is the time.

Keep on doing the Om Shanti deep inside the forehead and start breathing both from the belly and the ribcage.

It's a very long breath.

You start breathing first into the belly,

Then into the ribcage.

It reaches up to the throat and then you exhale from the belly and the ribcage.

So that is why I say it's a long hissing breath.

Continue.

Body is steady.

Om Shanti continues.

Long deep breath continues.

We're in the field of awareness.

So the more you do,

The daily you do,

You are you are dissolving that small compartment little.

You are preventing it to become a volcano.

This is what I wanted to convey to you all.

It takes time.

So.

.

.

Beautiful.

Keep on.

One better indication shows me that everyone's body is steady.

Still.

And stop this.

Recognize and accept all the changes that is taking.

.

.

And the experiences that is happening at present.

Why I say that?

So that you,

The experiencer is different from all the experiences.

Experiences can change.

Come and go.

What is our journey?

We want to know who is this experiencer and then who is beyond that.

Beyond that is the real self.

Experiencer is the pure mind.

Oh.

And now look deep inside the cave of your heart.

Visualize a triangle,

Equilateral triangle pointing upward of any color in that dark space.

And.

.

.

Move the mind on each side of a triangle dropping Om Shanti.

Gently,

Slowly so that you are aware of the side of a triangle.

You are aware of the Om Shanti.

You are aware of the movement of the mind.

You are aware of the stillness in the body.

Why you are saying this?

In the field of awareness.

But why?

That very awareness is nothing but the pure consciousness is the real self.

We cannot practice in sleeping.

Unconsciously,

Habitually.

And once you find there is a sync moving the mind clockwise and anticlockwise.

You find a perfect sync.

There is no objection coming from the mind.

That is the right moment.

You have to choose.

To move the mind with a singing Om deep inside the center of a triangle.

Dropping deep into the cave of your heart.

And then another point of attention.

When the mind seemingly stops.

Drop Om Shanti.

Drop Shanti and stop.

Do nothing.

Conscious self-absorption.

You may have a thought but there is a conscious self-absorption.

Those thoughts may be too far.

And now leave this.

Start with the japa.

How you do the japa?

That's a unique way of doing it.

For a seeker,

This is the perfect way.

The mind's eye looks at the first point of the index finger.

Mind's skin touches.

Says Om Shanti.

So saying is coming from the mind's tongue.

It's a mind's tongue.

Mind's skin.

Mind's eye.

Mind's ear are doing the japa.

And the moment all the four jointly do it.

You will start experiencing a tremendous vibes.

On those fingers and the points of the fingers.

People normally again align it with so-called the spiritual.

It has.

We have to pass through these experiences.

Nothing special.

Doing nothing.

Remain as you are.

So when I say do nothing and the intellect says let me see what is happening.

That is the greatest mistake you are doing.

When I said do nothing,

The intellect should also do nothing.

It is possible the intellect is aware.

That is all.

Or intellect is waiting for something to happen.

Om Shanti Shanti Shanti Om Shanti Shanti Shanti Om Shanti Shanti Shanti Bring your mind on the right hand.

Your mind on the left hand.

Lift your both palms.

Place it on your eyes.

Open the eyes inside the palms.

Know your experiences.

Bring the hands down.

We'll share our experiences.

And if you have recognized any point of your jealousy at any point of time,

You can also share it.

I will not tell you the timeline.

One guy,

Guy means it may be a boy and a girl.

Who has been complaining in this group session.

No,

No,

I do not have the experiences the way the others are having and I'm really upset.

And that guy left the session.

What is the cause?

Jealousy.

I will tell you hundreds of stories,

But we don't say that.

And sometime I request with a folded hand,

Please leave my session.

You know,

It is not going to lend you anywhere.

But that I do in a very personal talk.

Please don't attend because it's not bringing you anything.

Why?

I have to follow the Eastern wisdom instead of little money.

It becomes very challenging.

That is why we have a tradition of a monk.

Monk is taken care by the monastery.

But the challenge is an opportunity.

Yes,

David and Jerry.

Good morning,

Good afternoon.

I firstly enjoyed the,

You know,

The lecture at the beginning or the talk at the beginning.

And for this meditation I elected to lie down,

Which was a different experience for me,

Which kind of took some of the aspects of the body out of the equation and just allowed my mind to be free.

So as of that,

It was very deep and I enjoyed it.

Beautiful,

Beautiful.

Your point that you lie down and did anyone can do that.

So what is going to happen?

You are doing a practice while laying down.

Your mind,

Your mind on its own will demand you that now is the time to sit.

No worries.

You can meditate in any situation.

It's a beautiful.

Remember those events if you have in your life.

How are you?

I'm good.

Thank you.

I enjoyed the lesson and jealousy.

I think that we probably see that through our lives and I feel like I don't know.

I'm like I said,

I've noticed it in myself through my life.

I don't feel it.

I don't think I feel felt that for a very,

Very long time.

Beautiful.

Even as a youngster,

I was happy for people that seemed to have more and compassionate for those that seem to have less.

And but I always kind of thought that that's just a outer layer that we don't really know what what they have or they don't have anyways.

And the bottom line is we all have the same thing,

Which is that that beautiful seed that's in all of us and that consciousness.

So the outer layer that we see and we may make assumptions about really isn't real.

Right.

Right,

Jerry.

This is what you know,

If I summarize this in a in a way,

In a in my own way,

That jealousy remains present.

It has to be minimized so that it does not dictate my sorrow and the joy.

It does not dictate my likes and dislikes.

It should not dictate my ignorance.

And what is the simplest way?

The moment you are appreciating someone,

It's a matter of attitude.

How wonderful you are and internally you are saying it is because of one consciousness.

Done.

It's a matter of attitude.

But it takes time to learn it and to apply it in daily life.

Every time.

Every time you appreciate.

But then we prevent our mind to move down.

What is moving down?

I drag myself.

That dragging should not happen.

And then what happens in everyday life?

We find hundreds of moments of those jealousy and we get rid of it.

Thank you.

Beautiful.

How are you,

Stephen?

I'm good.

Thank you.

Listening to the lesson today was,

Again,

My my taking that this the Eastern wisdom has so much to learn and there's so much knowledge to be taken from this.

And as I've explained to you before,

I feel like I'm ascending this mountain.

It's just slowly going around and around and we come back to the same point.

It just becomes deeper and deeper.

And I took this today's lesson of jealousy,

An extension of I'm in a single word,

Whether it be an emotion,

A feeling that we have that's really based on desire and ego.

And so I tied it all back to the original the teachings from over the last three years and saying that it's another case of this.

And it's it's being able to reflect,

Contemplate and reflect again and to be able to look at every situation.

And yet we call it jealousy.

But the jealousy is driven by our own desire and ego.

And we seem to be learning a lot to recognize the impurities.

Yeah.

In order for in order for us to shift the thinking to just being that one consciousness and living in peace and happiness all the time and looking at other people the exact same way.

So you are right.

As far as the meditation,

Meditation today was just absolutely seamless.

It was not a thought.

It was it was like I absorbed lane two during your lesson.

And the second we closed our eyes,

Went to lane three.

And the only thing I can tell you is that when we put our hands over our eyes,

My the japa was being done in my right hand and my right hand felt warmer than my left hand.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Beautiful narration and explanation.

You see,

You look very handsome,

But I have to look inside my mind.

Is it coming from the jealousy?

It's such a beautiful expression.

So we are not talking at moral and ethical and the social level.

We are talking at the level of our awareness.

Mind,

Crazy mind.

Why you are saying that this guy is so handsome?

It's a matter of attitude and the mind says,

No,

It is because of the beauty of the consciousness.

It changes your attitude.

Just try this and I can give you hundreds.

I told you one million examples of this,

This,

This impurity.

And the best part is that I see that this is the impurity.

I means your intellect says this is the impurity.

So I have to remove it.

So 24 by seven,

I'm ready to do that.

Beautiful.

How are you,

Brandy?

Morning.

I'm good.

Thank you.

I had sleep in a couple of nights.

So I when we came into the meditation and you said like if you just come into the meditation,

Then you don't need to do all the rest.

Just come like going into meditation was such a relief for me that I didn't realize I needed all the rest.

But I did.

So I just kind of feel like I've broken even today,

Which I'm grateful for that.

Beautiful,

Beautiful.

Yes,

We should have a level of aspiration inside.

That I am going for a journey of the self discovery.

And then others are very smaller issues.

Whether you are not,

Whether you are not sleeping for so many days,

You know,

Really?

Related to what we discussed today.

Nothing more to talk about it.

How are you,

Christina?

Good morning.

Thank you very much.

I love how you introduced jealousy.

I found it.

It's so sneaky.

And it really sort of lent itself to that.

And for me,

It comes with emotional dependency.

Yeah.

So,

Yeah.

And then during the meditation,

I was back and forth between absorption and then the mind traveling off and then back again.

Yeah.

You see,

You have to give your own expression.

What you experience and what did you understand the way that David and Jerry and the Stephen and the Brandy and you all experiences.

But ultimately,

It boils down to the same principle.

I should remember those principles.

It has to do with,

It has to do with.

It has to do with desire.

What he said,

Desire,

Ignorance,

Likes and dislikes,

Sorrow and joy.

And ultimately,

We discussed the last point of the jealousy.

You just recognize.

That is going to change your life.

Thank you.

You are already a,

You know,

The psychotropic.

So it's very easy for you to understand.

No,

I'm not comparing.

Nothing to be jealous about it.

So how are you,

Dennis?

Fine,

Guruji.

Thank you.

For the jealousy,

I think for myself,

When I analyze my own mind through the intellect,

I find that the jealousy gets subtle.

Yep.

I find subtler levels of jealousy in me.

And even if I look at myself and the first,

The first answer I get from from my mind is that jealousy is not about me.

I'm not jealous about anything or anyone.

But then going down the road of Eastern wisdom and analyzing my my mind deeper and deeper,

I find subtler levels of this of this jealousy that need to be eliminated and eradicated.

For the practice,

Yes,

I think the mind got kind of natural focus.

Yeah.

After after the triangle exercise.

And it was very calm.

It was a calm experience.

Yes.

Beautiful.

You see,

Everyone shares their experiences based on their mental evolution.

So Eastern wisdom always welcomes that.

And he is pointing out that it is subtler and subtler level.

At the outer level,

We say,

Oh,

No,

I'm not jealous.

You know,

I'm OK.

Even if the neighbor's car is good,

Then what?

I'm not jealous.

You are already jealous now.

Why you are mentioning it?

So this is another subtler level.

So like this,

We have many subtler and the subtler levels in the very beginning.

And still sometimes they come and they flee.

Oh,

This master.

Wow.

I'm jealous of this master.

The way he's explaining.

Well,

Even my mind says,

But now that you know that jealousy,

It flees away.

Oh,

I can see the level of his expansion and his experience in the journey.

And that is why it happens.

But it does not harm me.

It does not create any sins.

We have to be very careful not to accumulate the sins.

I have already explained.

Since we cannot visualize,

We cannot see the sins inside.

No possibility.

But we can know its impact in our daily life.

What is the impact?

Unfavorable circumstances,

Conditions,

Relations.

Any issue that makes you unease,

It has to,

The root is sin.

And the root of the sin is what we discussed today.

So we have,

Yes.

Let us do go to Terry.

How are you,

Terry?

The whole time I was stuck on,

You know,

Questioning myself.

Yeah.

And I was like that guy who keeps thinking about the monk.

You know,

Like he's not enjoying the dinner.

He's thinking about this guy that he doesn't like.

Yeah.

Because I had a person with me yesterday who wasn't really very nice.

And wasn't very helpful.

And I'm still upset about it.

So I was really thinking about that and saying,

Oh,

Am I so,

Why can't I just go?

You know,

Trying to figure out,

Am I in that little compartment?

That guy has already.

I don't.

That guy.

I know,

But I.

Huh?

That guy has come and has gone.

And your mind is still.

It's coming again next week,

So I have to deal with it.

But then right at the end of the meditation,

I did feel,

All of a sudden for no reason,

I did feel the complete.

Very good.

And peace.

But the whole rest of the time was in self-inquiry,

I guess.

Yes,

Yes,

Yes.

And I felt a lot of like self-criticism.

And now.

Doing this very well.

And all that kind of stuff.

In the end,

You find the relief.

Because you did the self-inquiry.

No issue.

You can keep on doing the self-inquiry.

That is nothing but the contemplation and reflection.

Never follow the wrong notion that mind means.

Oh,

The meditation means that there is no thought at all.

Day before yesterday,

One guy had a free session.

Before I accept it as a private session.

So he said,

Well,

I normally ask what are your three important challenges?

So he said,

My most important challenge that I want in my life.

There should be no thought at all in the mind.

I said one option.

You don't need me.

I told him frankly,

You don't need me.

One option.

That you keep sleeping 24 by 7.

Take all the drugs.

Keep sleeping.

And the second option is the death.

I have heard a lot.

In other words,

It's not possible.

It is not possible.

But it is possible to separate myself from all the thoughts.

Are you getting it?

No.

No,

In private lessons,

I normally become tough.

So how are you Sameer?

Years back,

When I was always trying to find happiness in outside things.

All the.

.

.

Anything outside.

So I was suffering a lot with the problem of jealousy.

But as soon as I started doing meditation and I started finding happiness inside me.

Then it started decreasing slowly,

Slowly.

Yeah.

I'm telling that it is not there now.

But it is at its minimum level.

Yeah.

It is now it is not disturbing me.

Very good.

There are thoughts common.

But those thoughts are not disturbing me now.

But five years back,

Ten years back,

They used to disturb me a lot.

Disturb you.

I had sleepless nights just because of jealousy thoughts.

Yeah.

But as I am finding happiness inside me,

I mean,

Ignore all these thoughts.

And they don't bother me.

Yes.

Beautiful Sameer.

Your acceptance is appreciated.

The moment we accept,

Then it means we recognize.

When we recognize,

We just change the attitude.

That is the end of the jealousy.

I believe you are getting it.

Beautiful.

Now he also pointed out,

You see that how the different principles of the Eastern wisdom is revealed in the mind.

So he referred that when I pay more attention to the external world means what I discussed,

I think in a week or last week that I give a reality status to the world.

Do you remember?

So these things happen in your day to day life.

Last one.

How are you?

Very well.

Thank you,

Sir.

Sir,

I'm good.

As I recall,

There are many instances where I compare myself with the outside world and I see that like something is not going this way or something is not going right,

Is not going that way.

So I see those instances and I fairly call that it is coming out of something like maybe because of jealousy or because of that comparison that I'm doing.

So it's keep my mind blocked into those impressions.

It's not letting me free.

So I can be like if I drop that,

I can be free and I can stay within me.

So it is that that is the piece I'm looking for.

Yes,

Yes.

You are revealing your mind is revealing something great.

Oh,

Look at this guy.

He's crazy.

You know,

He's engaged in this and that.

Those issues,

You know what I'm trying to do that I am proving that I am a pure guy and look at this guy who is so impure.

I can give you millions shades of jealousy.

One million shades of jealousy.

What to do?

Live consciously before you blame and complain,

Before you react and before we appreciate also.

Over appreciation also contains the element of jealousy.

So how to get rid of it?

You are so beautiful and internally.

It is because of the consciousness.

Not because you are different from me.

Are you getting it?

So then you will not have to spend sleepless nights.

Then you need not to worry about the world outside.

Very good.

Thank you for understanding.

We will meet again on Thursday.

Thank you.

Namaste.

Namaste.

Namaste.

Thank you.