
Radical Responsibility Talk For Personal Power
by Faye Laroux
This is a teaching discussion on Radical Responsiblity. It will help you unlock your power and avoid getting stuck. Learn how to move beyond blame or victimization and gain the application technique of this effective Tool of Transformation.
Transcript
Hi everybody,
I'm Faye LaRue.
Welcome to this talk on radical responsibility.
It's my goal to share with you today the basic principles and understanding of what this tool can do for you in your life to move past blame,
To move into greater and quicker manifestation,
Joy,
Peace,
And ultimately moving past the idea or moving past getting stuck at the idea that the blocks or limitations or unhappiness is a result of something outside of you,
But also not just leaving you with,
Well it's not outside of you,
It is within you,
But then what?
This is the tool through the understanding of how it works and how genuine radical responsibility is actually a power to move what the block is within you,
To be able to see the mirror,
Not necessarily have to understand or intellectualize what your environment is giving you and still give you the power to release whatever it is in you that is creating the thing you don't like.
So let's start with what is radical responsibility to me?
For me it's really an understanding of our power,
Of what power actually is and the power that we have as co-creators and it's also a conscious alignment with spiritual law.
I'm sure many of you have heard as without,
So within,
As above,
So below.
It is a law of correspondence that we are all one,
We are all connected and that there is nothing separate from us or outside of us ultimately.
So radical responsibility is understanding that no one is to blame ever.
That blame is really rather rooted in the ego mind with a story of it's your fault,
If it's not your fault it must be my fault and what did I do wrong and if I didn't do something wrong what did you do wrong and how do I reconcile who's wrong to move forward in my life.
Believe me I have been here a lot and maybe this is why with some very intense situations I've been through I found this tool and understanding about how it actually works so mind-blowing and so game-changing.
So getting to the place that there is no blame,
It is nobody's fault comes from a deeper understanding of the three minds and how the three minds work.
So this conversation could go very very deep and I'm going to do my best to stay at a basic level to give you a base understanding so you can start practicing this in your in your life.
The three minds,
So you have the conscious mind which is the middle mind,
This is our conscious awareness,
This is our the things that we think we know,
That we are aware of,
That we understand and comprehend you know how we shape our understanding of our reality,
Our understanding of our world,
Of ourselves.
That's the conscious mind.
The conscious mind is picking up bits of information as you go along in life that then form what you think you know about everything,
About what we think we know.
Underneath the conscious mind,
And I'm sure you've heard heard this,
Is the subconscious mind.
So the subconscious mind has been picking up and storing data from all your lifetimes,
From all experiences in other dimensions and other realms.
It is picking up in this lifetime 200 billion bits more information per second than your conscious mind is capable of.
So what I'm trying to get at is that your subconscious is a container of vast vast data.
Folders and folders and folders of data,
Stored data,
Stored information,
Stored memories,
All of this even stored information about the room that you were born in that you don't consciously remember but it is in your subconscious.
It's all under the surface.
The amount of information that we have that is unknown to our conscious mind is it's really not even,
It's not really comprehensible.
All of this is to say that we don't know what's going on.
And when we are creating things from the mind,
Which includes the subconscious mind,
We're creating things sometimes that we don't know about.
We don't consciously know about,
We don't remember,
And oftentimes we don't like.
So that's the conscious mind and the subconscious mind.
That's more on this,
You know,
In this body in this realm.
And then the third mind is is the higher mind.
It's the super conscious.
It's the consciousness that's connected to all things.
It's the up there in the etheric space.
It has access to basically anything.
We are also connected to this at all times.
What ends up happening is we get very caught up in our conscious reaction to our subconscious manifestation and we have cut ourselves off from the superconscious downloads.
That's a gross oversimplification but hopefully that gives you an idea of how these three minds and how oftentimes we as humans with the natural gifts we were given,
The natural limitations we were given to grow through and evolve out of work.
So how does radical responsibility come into this?
Well,
If you take on the understanding that you have a subconscious that's profound and ultimately the things that you endure in life are a manifestation or creation of something from the subconscious and you hold the light and perspective that those existences,
Those creations,
Those manifestations are not your fault and they are only being brought up into this reality so that you can have the opportunity to clear it.
It is not to punish you.
It is not because you did something bad.
It is not because you haven't done enough work.
Not at all.
It is purely the process of cleaning and clearing to lighten your load as you transcend in this lifetime and transcend through your lifetimes.
So with that perspective,
That's how we can take on this idea that we are responsible not to blame for,
There's a big difference,
But responsible for everything we create and in this way,
This is what is so powerful.
This is where you have the opportunity to connect with,
In a way,
The God within you,
The universal power within you,
Creating these magical opportunities for you to lighten your load.
And that's all it is.
And with these things that will come up,
Yes,
There's feelings and you have to feel all of them.
And yes,
There's pain and things have to move through the body and there's an embodiment process and there's all,
It's life.
It's human life and it's human evolution.
And when you take on the willingness to be responsible in this way,
Not responsible in a burden way,
But responsible in a freedom way,
Like,
Oh wow,
Now that I know that it's only showing up for me,
I can clear it.
So I'm going to have all of us just take a deep breath in for a second as we digest some of that information and let it out.
And now I want to move into the tool for clearing it,
For moving it.
The tool I was taught that makes the most sense to me,
Or at least seems to work most efficiently,
Is using the Ho'oponopono prayer.
I'm sure many of you know what it is,
But I'm going to share it for those of you who don't.
It is the rather famous mantra,
I'm sorry,
Please forgive me.
Thank you.
I love you.
And the base way that this works to take responsibility for what is happening and therefore to move it more quickly versus endure it and get stuck in being persecuted or the feeling of being persecuted or being victimized,
Et cetera,
Is the process of first saying,
I'm sorry for whatever it is in me,
The subconscious,
Whatever it was I went through,
Whatever memory I'm storing,
Whatever thing I don't remember and I don't have to remember,
But whatever it is,
Whatever pain point I went through,
Some point along my soul's journey in the universe,
I'm sorry for whatever it is in me in that way,
The memory or the thing I went through,
The thing I don't remember,
The weight I carry,
The karma,
Whatever it is,
I'm sorry for it.
I'm sorry for whatever it is.
That's humility.
That's understanding that it's not up to us to decide who's right or wrong.
It just isn't.
There is really,
By laws of the universe,
No right or wrong.
And it's humility.
It's humbling to just let it be,
Accept that you are a part of it and that it's being co-created through you.
So I'm sorry for whatever it is.
Not in a,
I'm sorry,
I'm bad way.
I'm sorry I messed up.
I'm sorry I'm not good enough.
Nope.
You have to clear that out.
It's just saying,
I know that there are things I don't know and I'm going to take responsibility by just saying,
I'm sorry for those things,
All those things.
Sorry for the pain I went through and that I must still be carrying little bits of,
Or maybe big bits of.
So that's step one of the,
I'm sorry.
And it's a very important one.
And it's often the one that's most difficult to really fold over into because we have such a loud voice in our culture and society about,
You know,
Right and wrong and beating yourself out of situations or beating yourself into submission or,
You know,
Just being bad and having to become good through good action,
Which is this rather backwards way of of being.
That isn't what is intended to be,
But we have as humanity adopted this overarching idea and it's so deep in ourselves.
So I'm saying all that to encourage you to be really,
Really soft and gentle with yourself and catch your tone.
Maybe listen,
Record yourself saying,
I'm sorry for whatever it is in me.
And if it comes out with like,
I'm sorry for how,
You know,
And you can hear the weight of like,
I'm just bad.
Wash that away.
Be gentler and just come into the place of,
I'm sorry.
Sorry for whatever it is.
I know that this is bigger than me.
Okay,
Step two,
The please forgive me,
Forgiveness.
It's just saying,
Please help me let this go,
Is basically what that is.
It's saying,
I'm in a position where I'd like to let go and I'm asking for help.
I'm asking for the forgiveness of this weight.
It's not,
Again,
This like,
You need to be forgiven because you did something bad.
It is not that.
It is,
Forgive me of these things.
Like,
Let them go for me.
Help me.
You are truly opening yourself up to the super conscious to come down and move all this stuff out of the subconscious to clear it.
Because ultimately that's what divinity and divine nature wants,
Is love,
Is truth.
And the truth is,
You are not to blame.
The truth is that you are good in nature and that you are worthy and valuable because you are.
That you,
That your worth and your value can't actually even ever be changed for the better or for the worse.
You just are.
So the please forgive me is simply,
Please help me and,
And help me forgive these,
These weights,
These karmas,
These contracts.
So that's the forgive me part and it is,
It's forgiveness.
So we have humility and forgiveness.
And then we move on to thank you.
This one is my favorite.
I have really,
Through doing the practice for a while,
Have really gotten to a place where sometimes I just say thank you,
Thank you,
Thank you,
Thank you,
Thank you over and over again.
Because I know that whatever it is that's going to come out of this,
What feels right now is a horrible situation is for my highest good.
And I can just be grateful that whatever is arising is arising for my highest good.
It's arising for me to take the opportunity to let go.
It's arising to show me what might be inside of me that I didn't know about,
That I was holding on to,
That I don't want to hold on to anymore.
And it's just showing me what it is so I can bring love into it and I can say,
I'm sorry,
Please forgive me.
Thank you.
Thank you for helping me move it,
For offering the grace.
Thank you for offering the grace to even show it to me.
Thank you.
Just thank you.
And so that's the gratitude.
That's just being in a state of gratitude for whatever comes your way because it really is for you,
Truly.
And I know it doesn't feel that way.
And it's okay for it not to feel that way in every moment.
This is not a game of perfection.
It's a tool that you start to use and you get more skillful at.
So do remember that too.
It's just a tool you start to use and it's not about perfection because that's not how mastery works.
Mastery is just a growth process.
So we have,
I'm sorry for whatever it is.
Please forgive me.
Just take it away.
I'm ready to let it go.
Thank you for showing it to me,
For giving me the opportunity.
And now the last one.
I love you.
I love you.
I love you.
I love you.
I love you.
This is a great place to land.
The thank you,
Thank you,
And I love you.
Thank you and I love you.
It's such a release of any,
Any last little bits of holding on.
And it's,
It's love.
It's just love.
It's just pouring love into the energetic existence of humanity.
It's pouring love into our evolution.
It's just saying I love you.
I love you.
It's basically saying I love you to what's bigger than us,
To the things that are helping us,
Guiding us.
Again,
If you have the perspective that it really is something for you to gain,
Whatever it is that you might be going through or using this tool on,
That situation has something for you to gain immensely out of.
If you have that perspective,
You just can respond with thank you.
I love you.
I love you.
I love you for,
For bringing this to my awareness so that I can clear it.
Thank you.
Let's take another deep breath in.
I know this is all a lot of information,
So just take a deep breath in.
Just kind of let your mind soften and exhale it out.
And thank you.
Thank you so much for listening.
Thank you so much for being here with me.
And I really hope this is helpful and has awakened some new awareness in you and hopefully a new way to approach difficult situations and clear them much quicker so you can keep on with that high beam trajectory of your ultimate mission and your ultimate expression on the planet.
I love you very much.
See you next time.
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October 13, 2025
I am truly amazed at the wisdom I needed to hear at the moment! I believe that previous lessons about our past lives were presented to me a number of times. I also believe that portions of society taught me that this one life is all we get. The fact is, deep inside me, I knew that past lives stayed with me. I forgive those teachers who did not believe in the vast wealth of wisdom from our past lives! I still am clearing the fragments of disinformation, so I will return to this talk again and again! Feeling Blessed by your work!
Hanna
January 16, 2024
So much information delivered eloquently and with such grace! This was exactly the medicine I needed to hear and be reminded of today. Faye has a way of thoughtfully fusing high level concepts with emotional understanding. Sharing deep wisdom like a gentle lullaby. Any human will benefit from this information.
Shannon
January 16, 2024
Thank you for this simple yet profound process for helping to release and clear what is no longer serving me! ππΌπ
