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Overcoming Unwanted Feelings

by Violetta Znorkowski

Rated
4.7
Type
guided
Activity
Meditation
Suitable for
Everyone
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539

We are conditioned to suppress or ignore what we feel, never allowing ourselves to experience the “bad” things. But what happens if you give room to the strong and unwanted feelings that arise? By directly experiencing our feelings, we create space for them to move. This visualization uses the technique of Direct Experience to guide you through a process of deep breathing and focused attention until you regain a state of equilibrium. Music by BenSounds

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Transcript

Hi,

I'm Violet,

And welcome to your practice today.

Let's begin.

Close your eyes and begin to settle into your seat.

Center yourself by taking deep belly breaths.

Allow each breath to take you deeper and deeper until you begin to feel your shoulders drop away and relax from the day.

Observe what's going on in your own soul,

Your body,

And your mind.

Take a moment here just to be with whatever is coming up for you.

Notice the speed at which your thoughts move and how it feels to be in your body right now.

There are some things you may feel uneasy about,

Strong emotions rising or really loud thoughts that never quiet down.

Maybe you are holding onto feelings of stress or guilt and find yourself feeling tense more than you feel relaxed.

Try just for a moment to be with these unwanted feelings and aspects of yourself and sit with the discomfort.

Keep breathing a relaxed breath in and out,

In and out.

Release and release.

Notice how much space these unwanted feelings take up inside of you,

In your body,

In your thoughts,

In your soul.

It's important to keep breathing deeply,

Consciously,

While experiencing strong emotions.

This technique helps these stuck emotions pass through.

Notice any resistance you have towards them,

Towards yourself.

Look at all of these unwanted aspects and strong feelings and in your mind,

Repeating after me,

Say to them,

I see you exactly as you are.

There is a place for you here,

Exactly as you are.

Thank you for showing me where I have room to grow.

I love you exactly as you are.

Notice these parts,

Acknowledge them,

And breathe into them.

Find these unwanted feelings and aspects space to be without resisting them and wanting them to change.

Keep breathing deep,

Conscious breaths and just observe.

Keep your attention here and continue to breathe deeply into these feelings.

You may exhale loudly if that's what you are being told to do.

Once again,

Repeating after me,

Say to them,

I see you.

Exactly as you are.

There is a place for you here,

Exactly as you are.

Thank you for showing me where I have room to grow.

I love you exactly as you are.

Breathe it in and let it out.

Let it all move,

Move through you.

Notice what happens when you give space to these unwanted feelings and parts of you.

What's changed?

Rest in this feeling of peace.

I will have this moment.

I will just let it burn.

You I Invite you to return to this meditation to practice experiencing fully all feelings and all parts of you Give these aspects of yourself space to be seen without resistance exactly as they are Over time This practice will help cultivate acceptance and self-love You have to feel it to heal it you you you you you you Now begin to deepen your breath Bringing more awareness back into your surroundings More movement back to your body And slowly come back into the room Thank you for joining me today.

I'll see you next time

Meet your Teacher

Violetta ZnorkowskiNew York, NY, USA

4.7 (45)

Recent Reviews

Adrianna

June 4, 2021

Beautiful experience. I needed this. I’m so surprised at how much showing compassion to your emotions can calm them. Thank you!

Ste

March 2, 2021

Voix calmante et rassurante. Occasion d'explorer les sensations et ressentis. À refaire.

Nick

February 26, 2021

Violetta this was great. Favorited and will be coming back to this sense of complete calm over and over again!

Phoebe

February 26, 2021

Beautiful practice. I felt so safe and guided throughout the practice, and violet has a beautiful and calming energy. Loved it so much.

Fredy

February 25, 2021

Beautiful and calming! 👏🏻

Letisha

February 25, 2021

Really Beautifully composed, the sound is perfectly balanced, just the right speaking volume & awesome background music, I love it all. Please consider creating a Sleep Meditation with that same ultra Calming background music 🎶🌙🌟💜🕊 Much Appreciation ❤

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