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From Reacting To Responding

by Dora Kamau

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In this practice, we are invited to ride the wave of our ever-changing emotional landscape. The intention of this practice is to be in the body and be with all that we may be feeling, thinking and experiencing. In doing so, we create a greater capacity for regulating our reactions. Over time and with practice, we can shift from being reactive to becoming more responsive in each and every moment.

Emotional ResilienceIntentional LivingBody ScanSelf InquiryBody Mind Spirit ConnectionNon Judgmental AwarenessIntegrationRelaxationEmotional RegulationMindfulnessPosture AlignmentFacial RelaxationMuscle RelaxationWindow Of ToleranceBreathing AwarenessIntegration PracticesPosturesBreath Flow Awareness

Transcript

Welcome to your practice.

This is a practice of shifting from automatic to intentional.

From an unconscious trance to a state of deliberate presence.

In riding the wave,

We are creating a greater capacity and tolerance for our ever-changing and fluctuating emotions.

Over time and with practice,

We can train our mind to be aware of the oncoming rough waters and guide ourselves back home to smooth sailings.

So closing our eyes.

Just taking a moment to notice our posture.

If you're seated,

Becoming aligned in the spine.

Sitting upright,

Feet to floor,

Back gently supported by the chair or cushion.

And if you're lying down,

Ensure you're in a comfortable position and able to breathe with ease.

Softening our eyebrows.

Unclenching the jaw.

Releasing the tension in our shoulders.

Noticing the breath and how we are breathing.

Just beginning to slow down the breath.

Deepening the inhale and lengthening the exhale.

Slowing down and tuning in.

Taking a deep inhale in through the nose.

Letting it all go through the mouth.

Now,

I invite you to ask yourself,

What is it that I'm experiencing right now?

In my thoughts,

In my feelings,

And in my body?

And just begin to listen.

Noticing with a gentle and curious awareness.

What is it that I'm experiencing right now?

Noticing the texture,

Sensations,

Observing where our mind goes to.

And whatever arises,

Just acknowledging the experience,

Even if it's unwanted.

And the way that you could do this could simply be saying,

I am feeling,

And naming that feeling.

Or,

I am thinking.

And just stating what it is that you're thinking.

Or you could even say,

I am experiencing.

What is it that you are experiencing?

With this,

We are creating a greater capacity to hold what it is that we are experiencing within our bodies and minds.

Listen and acknowledge without judgment,

Without stories.

Listen.

And now,

Let's shift our awareness to the breath.

Bringing our full attention to each in-breath and each out-breath.

Breathing in deeply through the nose,

Expanding the belly.

Really taking our time on that exhale.

Breathing into what we are feeling and thinking and experiencing.

Integrating this,

Transmuting this with the breath.

Softening to it,

Bowing to it.

And allowing whatever we are experiencing just to move throughout our bodies.

Continuing to notice our breath.

And see if you can inhale and exhale without pausing in between.

And just allowing the breath to flow.

In and out.

In and out.

In and out.

Flowing and not forcing.

Just being with the breath and our emotions and our feelings and our thoughts and our experience as they are.

And allowing the breath to guide us.

And now,

Let's create a greater sense of awareness by beginning to notice and sense the body.

Noticing any tension,

Rigidness,

Numbness.

Noticing your posture.

Even your facial expression in this moment.

Paying attention to any part of you that may be holding on.

Maybe softening the space between the eyebrows and unclenching your jaw again.

Releasing limb by limb,

Muscle to muscle.

Just noticing your whole self in this moment.

And continue to breathe in and out.

In and out.

Whenever you are ready,

Coming back to the now.

Coming back to the body.

Back to your surroundings.

Noticing that chair or the floor supporting you.

Maybe inviting movement into your hands and your toes.

Really taking your time here.

Whenever it feels right,

Slowly and gently opening your eyes.

And thanking yourself for being in practice.

How was that for you?

I know this practice was short,

But the intention behind it is being able to use this in your day to day.

So being able to notice what we are experiencing.

And then breathing with what we are experiencing.

And then noticing our body as a whole.

Noticing our bodily response to maybe things that are tough.

Maybe things that we find challenging.

And creating that greater capacity and tolerance.

Keeping us within our window of tolerance.

So that we are able to respond and not react.

And we are able to take a breath and pause before making decisions or saying things that we regret.

So my invitation for you is to practice this.

When in conversation with others or when you are on the bus commuting to work or even when you're just at home.

Practice.

You'll see over time that this practice becomes a habit.

Where we are able to scan our bodies and be with our bodies and be in our bodies.

And come from a place of being and not just doing.

Sending you so much love and so much guidance.

Peace.

Meet your Teacher

Dora KamauLos Angeles, CA, USA

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Recent Reviews

imogen

November 8, 2025

Thank you. This was so beautiful and so needed. I will try my very best to implement this on my daily practice

Wren

June 14, 2025

This practice is an invaluable tool for times of extreme emotion, stress or hardship. I found this when I was in an excellent headspace, but I look forward to using it when I am not. Thank you for offering such an excellent meditation. Namaste 🙏🏻

Liza

November 23, 2024

This was such wise, gentle and effective guidance. This meditation really helped shift my mood. Thank you so much 🙏🏼

Lauren

August 30, 2024

This practice helped me to shift from feeling really tight and identifying with my emotions and thoughts to loosening and experiencing my emotions, thoughts, and physicals sensations as experiences that shift and change. I found it very helpful—thank you for this practice!

Alexandra

March 23, 2024

Thank you for a short sweet practice and the explanation afterwards ❤️

Lori

February 19, 2024

I loved this meditation! Thank you so much. I'm going to share it with someone special. 💜🤎🧡

Hugo

February 16, 2024

Winding down after work on your voice, thank you for this moment

Bryant

January 6, 2024

Thank you for the gift of Pause. I need to remember to pause when agitated or doubtful. 🙏🏻

Jessie

December 28, 2023

Thank you for your glorious insight. It works!!!! I appreciate you♥️❤️♥️

Rocco

November 25, 2023

Excellent timing and cadence. Want more guidance with that pause between experience and response.

Bert

November 18, 2023

I very much enjoyed that meditation practice. thank you ☺️

Lauri

November 12, 2023

Great exercise. Helped me to witness my thoughts. I’ll use that technique again. Thank you 🙏🏼

Kirk

November 9, 2023

Love the tone and pace of this short reminder practice. I'll revisit it often. Thank you 🙏

Daniel

October 21, 2023

Beautiful meditation. Personally I could do with longer quiet moments but the voice is wonderful and the style of meditation, too.

Robin

September 30, 2023

This was so beautiful and nurturing. Thank you! 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

Justine

August 30, 2023

Fantastic!! Love this meditation and especially this message!! Great teacher!! Beautiful voice and energy of devotion and love and wisdom!! Thank you!! 🥰🙏🏽

Karen

August 25, 2023

Thank you for this meditation. I’ve been dealing with a very difficult situation with a friend and rather than reacting he took the path of taking a few days and focusing on myself before having a very difficult conversation with my friend. This meditation help me to remember to breathe during that conversation And I will listen to this again just before we have that conversation so thank you very much for the reminder that we all lose sight of sometimes. Peace.

Jeff

August 16, 2023

I’m always so soothed by Dora’s calm but very boldly intentional voice led meditations. So appreciative for her unique perspective and transformative practice. You’ll finish differently than you started in the best way.

Natashha

August 13, 2023

Grateful! To have been directed to you today, here and now, was definitely divinely guided. I am cherishing the moment and pausing before reacting. Thank you for this needed reminder. You have helped me to be present again. Such a beautiful reminder. Blessings and love❤️

Kirsten

August 7, 2023

Thank you 🙏 will bookmark to make this into a practice

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