
Why Complaining And Resisting Never Serves Us
Although it is very normal for us humans to complain and bemoan about as well as resist that which is, from a metaphysical perspective, none of these serve us. As the sacred laws can only reflect back to us our predominant vibration, the only thing complaining and resisting serves is to magnify and amplify the very thing we are complaining about. And so the way to move beyond and out of any unwanted condition is to turn our attention away from what we don't want to what we do want.
Transcript
Blessings and welcome to The Path to Freedom.
My name is Daniel Roquello and I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
I thank you,
I thank you,
I thank you for tuning in,
For listening,
And above that,
For being a conscious participant in the expansion of who and what you are,
In allowing for ever greater and greater expressions of who and what you are to emerge,
In participating in raising your vibration,
Expanding your consciousness.
Today's theme is why complaining and resisting never serves us.
Why complaining and resisting never serves us.
And I know that complaining and resisting and bemoaning is such a normal part of many individuals lives and days.
Everything happens and they immediately move into complaining or bemoaning or resisting that which is.
And while it may be normal,
In no way shape or form does it ever serve us.
Because what these do,
Everything is always about vibration.
Whatever we think the most,
Whatever we talk about the most,
And most importantly,
Whatever we feel the most,
Sooner or later,
At one point or another,
We'll come into our experience if we sustain that feeling.
We all live in a lawful and orderly universe where nothing happens out of chance or out of luck or happenstance,
But there are divine laws that are very exact in the way they operate – just like the law of electricity,
Just like the law of buoyancy,
Just like the law of aerodynamics.
These are very exact laws.
We either move into alignment with them and adhere to their principles and then they work quote unquote for us,
Or we are in disalignment or non-alignment,
Or we do not adhere to their principles and then they quote unquote work against us.
And these spiritual laws,
These sacred laws,
They work the same.
And so complaining and resisting and bemoaning,
Let's take a look at what they mean.
All of these,
On a vibrational level,
What they are saying,
The message that they are saying is that the good that we desire is not here.
The good that we desire is not here,
But it is somewhere else.
So they're coming from a space of lack,
They're coming from a space of scarcity,
And in effect they're saying that the good that I desire,
Someone or something out there,
Is keeping me from that good.
Is keeping me from being in joy,
In love,
In abundance,
In health,
In harmony,
Or whatever the case may be.
So the good that I desire is not here in this moment,
But it's out there somewhere.
And as these sacred laws pick up our predominant vibration,
In other words,
They pick up what we habitually talk about and think about and feel about,
And they bring the essence and the substance of that vibration into manifestation here in our experience.
Whenever we are complaining and bemoaning and resisting anything,
The only thing that we're doing is actually amplifying and magnifying the very thing that we are complaining about.
Because we are turning our attention toward what we don't want.
And these sacred laws,
They don't care if we are feeling or talking or thinking about what we want or what we don't want.
They make no such discernment.
But they only respond to where we're turning our attention.
And so if we repeatedly and habitually turn our attention toward what we don't want,
All that we are doing is calling that forth into our experience.
And the more we keep complaining and the more we keep bemoaning and the more we keep resisting,
The more of the very thing that we are complaining about,
Bemoaning about,
And resisting,
We are calling forth into our experience.
In other words,
Complaining and resisting and bemoaning never provides the way out.
But the way out of any condition,
The way out of any circumstance,
The way out of any challenge is to stay in a high vibration.
To seek to raise our vibration above the level of complaining,
Above the level of lack and scarcity.
Raise it to the level of gratitude,
To the level of peace,
To the level of joy,
To the level of harmony and wholeness,
And turn our attention away from what we don't want to what we do want to experience.
So if I'm in a condition of,
Let's say,
A financial challenge,
Rather than complaining about not having enough money,
And rather than bemoaning my ill fate or the lot that I've been given,
Which is not in any way,
Shape,
Or form true,
None of us is given any kind of lot,
We have lessons that we need to learn,
But we're never stuck in one place unless we choose to not find the way out.
Anyway,
Rather than complaining and resisting and moaning that I don't have enough money,
I would seek to turn my attention,
Seek to raise my vibration,
Seek to take on the feeling tone that I have all that I need,
That all of my needs are met,
That I have everything that I need,
That I have all the money that I need,
And sustain that vibration.
And when that,
Through affirmation,
Through prayer,
Through meditation,
When that becomes my predominant vibration,
Guess what?
The sacred laws,
They go to work designing,
Orchestrating,
Manifesting that vibration,
The essence,
The substance,
The coagulation of that vibration.
And so the lesson here for each of us is to never,
I think I did a session called,
Only talk about what you want to experience.
And that is a beautiful pointer,
That's a beautiful rule of thumb,
To only talk about what we want to experience,
To only think about what we want to experience,
Regardless of conditions,
Regardless of circumstances.
We all have the gift of independent thinking,
We all have the gift of being able to think independently of any condition and circumstance.
And so whatever condition we find ourselves in,
We may not like it,
It may not be a favorable condition to us,
But complaining about it,
Turning our attention to the negative,
To the bad,
It serves nothing.
It serves nothing.
But we need to turn our attention to what we do want.
Again,
And again,
And again,
Come back to the breath and begin again,
Come back to the breath and begin again.
Oh,
I'm just catching myself complaining,
Oh,
I'm just catching myself resisting,
Oh,
I'm just catching myself bemoaning my fate.
Oh,
Come back to the breath and begin again.
I make a new choice,
I make a higher choice.
I'm choosing to take on the feeling tone that all my needs are met.
I'm choosing to take on the feeling tone that I have all that I need.
I'm choosing to take on the feeling tone that right in this moment,
All is well.
I'm choosing to take on the feeling tone that something wonderful is happening in this very moment.
I'm choosing to take on the feeling tone that everything is working for the highest good for me as an individual and for all of creation.
For all of creation.
We need to bracket our complaints,
Our resisting,
Our bemoaning,
And begin to turn our attention toward what we do want.
In every single condition,
In every single circumstance,
If we're only willing,
The good that we desire is there.
In every single moment there's evidence of abundance.
In every single moment there's evidence of health and wholeness.
In every single moment there's evidence of love and compassion and kindness.
In every single moment there's evidence of divine intelligence.
We need to want to see it,
We need to want to seek it,
And when we do,
We will find it,
Regardless of conditions,
Regardless of circumstances,
Regardless of situations.
And this is so simply because God is fully present in every single moment,
Every single object,
Every single space and place.
So there's no space,
No place where Spirit is not and Spirit is abundance.
Spirit is wholeness.
Spirit is love.
Spirit is kindness,
Compassion,
Peace,
Harmony.
So if we seek it,
We will find it.
But complaining,
Bemoaning,
Resisting never,
Ever serves anything other than amplifying and magnifying the very thing that we are resisting,
The very thing that we are complaining about,
The very thing that we are bemoaning.
Thank you so,
So much for tuning in.
Until the next time,
I bless,
Bless,
Bless your day and I bless,
Bless,
Bless your way.
Namaste.
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Jaz
January 30, 2026
We’re never stuck unless we choose not to see the way out. Trust in divine intelligence. Love these, thank u.
Catherine
July 25, 2025
Very enlightening and uplifting. Thank you!🙏
Melinda
July 15, 2025
Inspiring talk with specific, helpful truths to embrace. Thank you!
Ashley
April 28, 2024
I love this talk so much. It was exactly what I needed today. Thank you.
Shantelle
August 6, 2023
I needed to hear all that...beautifully said, thank you🙏... its so easy to forget when in amidst the 'daily grind' but you have hit my refresh button!
Michel
January 18, 2023
Simply Superb. Well Said Truths!!! Thank youuuuu! Complaining is NOT the highest vibration that all seek.
Catherine
April 16, 2022
Thank you for sharing your wisdom ✨
Vee
April 4, 2022
Love your energy! Resistance = suffering. 🙏🏻🍀 Be well. ❤️
DeeMii6
April 3, 2022
Thank you
