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Forgiveness - Loving Kindness Practice (Metta)

by Buddha-Haus Projekt

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In this profound practice, Ayya Khema leads us through a Loving Kindness practice underpinned by the concept of Dukkha. Dukkha is an important Buddhist concept, commonly translated as "suffering", "pain" or "unsatisfactoriness".

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In order to start,

Please put the attention on the breath for just a few moments.

Madame Cliff steel.

We are going to fill our heart with forgiveness for ourselves,

For anything that we dislike in ourselves,

For anything that we think we've done wrong,

Thought or said wrong,

Anything that is a burden.

We want to forgive ourselves,

Fill ourselves with forgiveness,

Surround ourselves with forgiveness and feeling the ease that that brings.

If there's anyone among those present that we have found doing anything we dislike,

We'll forgive that person completely and forgive ourselves for having had the dislike,

No matter what the reason may have been.

Candidate,

Week,

Date,

And date in mind,

Please.

We will think of our parents,

Whether they are still alive or not,

And forgive them for anything that we have blamed them for,

Realizing that if it was unpleasant,

It came out of their dukkha.

Forgive them completely.

Let our hearts reach out to them,

Open,

Without any negative feeling in it.

And we can see that that eases our own burden.

Forgive them completely.

We'll think of those people who are closest to us,

With whom we live possibly,

And forgive them for anything that we have blamed them for,

For any thoughts,

Speech or action that we didn't agree with.

Give them the gift of our loving heart,

And realize that we're letting go of a burden.

Forgive them completely.

And we think of friends and acquaintances,

Relatives,

And our forgiveness.

Let our hearts reach out to their hearts,

Knowing that anything they may have thought,

Said or done,

Which we didn't agree with,

Was due to their dukkha.

We let it all disappear into the past.

And we'll think of those people whom we meet in our everyday life.

Even if there has been any dislike or rejection,

We forgive them completely.

Reach out with love and compassion,

And feel connected to them.

Now,

We'll think of the most difficult person that we have ever encountered in our life.

And recognize the dukkha in that person's heart,

And forgive that person completely for anything they may have thought,

Said or done.

And let the warmth of our heart reach out to that person,

Feeling the easing of the burden.

That is a message of gratitude.

And we'll think of those people whose ideology or actions we have disliked or blamed.

And realise that there is a person behind all that which has dukkha.

And we forgive the person.

Anyone who comes to mind in the past or in the present,

Who are doing things we reject.

Forgive that person and wish them well.

And we open our hearts very wide and let forgiveness flow out of it.

To the people near and far.

First of all,

To everyone who is here.

Giving them the gift of a loving and open heart.

Rejecting and disliking nothing,

No one.

To everyone present in the monastery.

Rejecting,

Disliking nothing and no one.

Giving the gift of the loving,

Open heart that can forgive whatever it may have,

Harboured.

And then we'll let the stream of forgiveness reach out into the world to the people around here and further and further.

So that with a heart which rejects no one,

Our togetherness and lovingness can touch as many people as possible.

We'll put our attention back on ourselves.

And if there's anything left that we need to forgive ourselves for,

We do that now.

Everything we have to forgive ourselves for is in the past.

It's all gone.

And we can see quite clearly that in the present,

The heart can be loving.

And need not retain any of those feelings which do not bring happiness.

We forgive the person we were,

Who thought and said and did things we may not approve of and lovingly embrace that person that we are now.

May people everywhere forgive each other.

Thank you.

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Recent Reviews

Gro

July 13, 2025

Thank you deeply for this practice! It cleared me up

Ria

September 8, 2024

I loved this! 🙏

Marianne

November 2, 2023

A chaque fois je découvre des mots que je n’ai pas retenus avant, merci

JayneAnn

May 8, 2023

I'm very grateful for your gentle guidance. 🙏🏻💞

Geri

June 24, 2022

Very powerful meditation which touched me deeply. I realised there was so much I needed to forgive myself and others for thank you for showing me this 🙏

Jennifer

April 3, 2022

Heartfelt, compassionate and very difficult. In the end, I had to forgive myself for not being able to forgive the person responsible for this present war. How is it done? I wish I could ask this teacher how that is truly possible…

Iain

July 3, 2021

Profoundly transformative. Venerable Khema, thank you for this gift that you left us 🙏❤️

Barbara

March 1, 2021

Now is the Only Time There Is 🌟 Beautiful Forgiveness Meditation🙏

P

January 23, 2021

♥️♥️♥️ I hope you make more meditations

Jean-Pascal

December 4, 2020

So much peace after this meditation 🙏💗🙏

Ānanda

September 30, 2020

Perfect meditation

Jennifer

September 16, 2020

Thank you for the beautiful guidance. Your words help me feel freer.

Krista

August 11, 2020

Thanks very much for this very beautiful and healing practice :)

Marina

June 8, 2020

Very timely focus for me today - many thanks! Namaste 🙏 😊 ❤️

Dion

October 13, 2019

Incredible. As if written and spoken from a divine source. 🙏.

Lanke

October 11, 2019

Powerful healing for me. Tears didn't stop rolling. Thank you for sharing this🙏

Lin

July 7, 2019

Thank you so much.

Veena

June 19, 2019

Thanks it's beautiful💕

Echo

March 25, 2019

Great practice for forgiveness

Renate

December 7, 2018

Thank you for the powerful meditation

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