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What's The Point

by Betsy Johnson

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Can I be honest for a second? I’m sick of my own voice. I’m sick of how I say inhale. Exhale. Because it’s the same. It’s always the same. I could try doing it in a very high voice. Inhale. Or a very low voice. Exhale. But what’s the point? And that’s a great question for us to consider. Welcome to a Hit of Hope. And just to give you a heads up, this one is salty.

ExistentialismBreathingMindfulnessAcceptanceSelf ReflectionHumorExistential ReflectionMindful PresenceAcceptance Of LifeSelf CriticismHumor In MeditationBreathing Awareness

Transcript

Can I be honest for a second?

I am sick of my own voice.

I'm sick of how I say,

Inhale,

Exhale,

Because it's the same.

It's always the same.

I could try doing it in a very high voice.

Inhale.

Or a very low voice.

Exhale.

But what's the point?

And that's a great question for us to consider.

Welcome to a hit of hope.

And just to give you a heads up,

This one is salty.

Life can be amazing.

We love what we are learning.

We notice a cute someone who notices us.

We eat an incredible meal.

We walk along a street in Paris or Tokyo or New York City or even down a small town street that has that quaint little hardware store.

Aww,

Isn't that cute?

Life can be so fucking ordinary.

We wake up and think,

Oh,

You again,

When we look in the mirror.

We eat the same damn thing for breakfast that we've eaten for the past six months.

We try to get a new job,

To learn a new skill,

To find a new love,

And get rejected or fail time after time.

We get sick of our thoughts,

Our voice,

And do I really have to clear my throat that way all of the time?

Inhale.

Oh,

My God,

Would you shut up?

Exhale.

Are you done yet?

For some reason,

I keep returning to a field of sunflowers.

If I were driving past,

I would probably be thinking,

Oh,

Wow,

Isn't that beautiful?

Look at those yellow heads chasing the light.

If I were lost in what felt like a never-ending field of sunflowers,

I might be karate chopping the hell out of them as I cursed,

How do I get out of here?

Where in the fuck is the road?

But you know what?

Then I would get on the road and it would probably begin to feel endless.

When will I get to a town?

When will I get to the world's biggest ball of twine?

For the love of all that is holy,

Please let me get to something interesting.

Inhale.

Exhale.

As Ram Dass said,

Be here now.

That's the point.

The point is not the destination.

The point is inhabiting as fully as possible this now.

Here.

Be.

It can be easy to get lost in what's the point,

Which is really another way of saying,

How can I get out of this here,

This now?

To ask you to inhale and exhale is something I've done before and will do again for you and for my own self.

Because it works.

Returning to the breath,

Coming back to the center,

Having this moment,

Whether it be ordinary or extraordinary or some bizarre combination of both,

Returning to the breath makes things better.

What's the point can feel like a dangerous question to ask.

And if you are anything like me,

I usually ask it when I'm thrashing in what feels oh so ordinary or hopeless.

But whatever is,

Is.

And whatever is,

Is your life.

Be here now.

That's the point.

Namaste.

Meet your Teacher

Betsy JohnsonCastle Danger, MN, USA

4.8 (83)

Recent Reviews

Janis

February 16, 2024

Thank you. 😊 made me laugh, at myself, and smile. Made my day 🌻

Rhonda

April 1, 2023

That was great. Thanks for voicing what I often think, when am I getting to something interesting? Right now is alright.

Nancy

January 22, 2023

Remembering to 'Be Here Now' and a big lung full of breath, is all one can really do...

Ross

May 2, 2020

Fab as ever. 🙏🌈👍

June

May 2, 2020

A very nice reminder!

Lynda

April 30, 2020

This was a breath of fresh air. Just what I needed today.

Lynne

April 30, 2020

So much me. I've considered getting Be.Here.Now in reverse on my forehead because it's my biggest struggle. It IS the something more that I was looking for when I came to meditation. And meditation helps more than anything, but it's still a daily battle. I want to see ALL the things and do ALL the things...but you can't even enjoy the things when you're spending every moment wanting to do all the OTHER things.

kiki

April 29, 2020

❤️Thank you Betsy!!❤️I love your meditations (ESPECIALLY the salty passionate ones like this one!)!😁🙏

Münevver

April 29, 2020

So honest and grounding indeed... thank you...

Joanne

April 29, 2020

Loved it. Really grounded me. Just listened to it, as I couldn’t sleep and stupidly started reading the the Coronavirus news, frightened myself, thoughts galloping ahead to disaster. Saw my future as very scary. Found this and now feel centred again. Thank you 💓🙏🏻

🦋Afriya🦋

April 28, 2020

OMG!!Betsy this meditation was so needed you have no idea.Thanks for the pep talk and keeping it real.I've been struggling to keep myself grounded being in isolation i'm extremely empathic.My body is absorbing everyone's energy around me i'm starting to have health issues.Thanks for the hit of hope i appreciate you be blessed and stay safe...Namaste☮💚🌅

Ray

April 28, 2020

Betsy, you made me chuckle out loud several times...and I like your voice! Your message was spot on...we only have the present moment, so inhale and exhale just like you said! Thank you!

Katherine

April 28, 2020

Awe....Thank you so much. Your awesome talk had me reflect on my breath again, it can get me out of distress if I havent held it in the body for a long period of time. Always need the reminder to focus on the present moment, so I looked outside, and listened to all of the happy birds. LOL.

Michael

April 28, 2020

I forgot... again. Woke up from another "being lost" nightmare, and started to feel like "what's the point." Yet, there you were, waiting for me, with your "inhale." These Hits of Hope are prescious, and prescient. Thank you so much.

Elaine

April 28, 2020

Breathing...smiling and thanking you for your voice. Been here and nowhere else since 24/3.... savouring the peace, the freedom to do things I ve been meaning to do for ages and the point is that this time has not only given me but anyone else breathing space to ponder an alternative future. Betsy please to not change the way you deliver your words. I relish listening to you.....Day one of Level 3 here.....wishing you the best too 😊

Kimberly

April 28, 2020

I admit that I laughed at the beginning — laughed with delight. I wanted to hug you and say to anyone who might hear, “Isn’t she CUTE?!” but not meant in a condescending way, of course. I often wonder about things like What’s the point? What (if anything) is the meaning of life?? What is my purpose (if I even have one)??? The answer I come up with most is enjoyment. Enjoy — and find joy — in everything, and maybe, if I can, help other people find some joy, too. You are a magnificent role model for this, and I so appreciate all that you give us every single week. I want to ask you to please never change the way you say Namaste, because it’s a soothing AND strengthening benediction... but I know you might want to change it up sometimes, and that’s fine too, because we have this amazing archive of you saying it and infusing it with so much goodness. It’s starting to pop up in my head sometimes, to counteract the harpies and rude monkeys and that bitch, Self-Critic; and it brings at least a little breath of calm, often more. Thank you a gazillion times.

Michelle

April 28, 2020

You are a delight. Namaste 🙏🏻🤗🦋

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