
The Divine Feminine Masterclass - How To Activate
by Athina Król
The Divine Feminine Masterclass - How to activate your Divine Feminine Blueprint In this masterclass, Athina guides you into the essence of the Divine Feminine; what it truly means, how to embody it, and how to release the wounded patterns that keep you stuck and how to activate divine feminine energy in business, money and relationships. What we cover: -Learn what Divine Feminine Energy truly is, and how it shows up in your life, relationships, and business. -Identify patterns of the wounded feminine (overgiving, self-abandonment, control) and shift into sovereignty, trust, and magnetism. -Discover how to work with feminine archetypes like the Priestess, Lover, and Dark Feminine to activate your unique soul gifts. -Reconnect to your intuition and emotions as sacred guidance systems that lead you toward alignment and abundance. -Explore how to heal the mother wound, sisterhood wound, and body shame to unlock your creative and sensual power. -Learn how to co-create with your womb
Transcript
Hello beautiful souls and welcome to today's episode.
I'm super excited to dive into today Divine Feminine Energy and the Divine Feminine in general.
I'm going to be diving into quite a lot of topics related to Divine Energy,
Like what it actually is,
How we can embody it,
The different aspects of it,
The different archetypes,
How it shows up,
How it doesn't,
And how you can know if you're actually embodied in your Divine Feminine,
And what we need to be doing to be within our Divine Feminine.
And Divine Feminine is the frequency of the highest aspect of the Feminine on Earth.
That's really how I see the Divine Feminine,
Right?
So we all have within us these currents of energy.
You already have the Feminine within you.
However,
We want to be embodied in the highest Divine aspect of it.
And oftentimes there are parts of us that might be,
But we might also be holding a lot of the wounded Feminine or the immature Feminine,
Which can show up in a lot of different ways,
Including and not limited to having physical issues such as hormonal issues,
Issues with our reproductive organs,
But also low self-worth,
Low boundaries,
Living a life that doesn't feel joyful,
Expansive,
Feeling guilty for not resting,
Having to earn our work through hustle and productivity,
Feeling disconnected from our intuition,
Struggling to trust ourselves.
The Divine Feminine embodied lives a life where she is deeply intuitive,
Deeply in tune and trusting of herself,
Her body,
Her emotions,
But she is also so joyful,
So magnetic,
So expressive,
So open.
It's an energy that she radiates that people respond to.
The Divine Feminine is deeply,
Deeply magnetic.
And what you'll find with each woman is that she will reflect a specific aspect of the Divine Feminine on a deeper level that will slightly shift how you perceive the Divine Feminine within her.
And she can also amplify this by the archetypes of the Divine Feminine.
So we're going to go into that as well and how you can work with those archetypes and those aspects to activate,
Embody the various Divine Feminine gifts and abilities too,
Because they are all different depending on what you are here to embody and what kind of life and business your soul has chosen to inhabit and embody in this lifetime.
Now we know that on Earth for quite a long time,
The Feminine has been deeply,
Deeply distorted.
There was a time when the Feminine was revered,
Honored,
Held the spiritual lineages of Earth and was seen as powerful,
Right?
She was the giver of life.
She was intuitive and spiritually in tune.
So not only was she revered for her ability to give life,
But also for her spiritual abilities and the lineages and gifts she carried within.
Now there came a time when certain people didn't like that and sought to suppress the Feminine,
Suppress the Feminine teachings,
Suppress the Feminine ways and completely distort the Feminine.
And have women forget the truth of who they are,
The truth of their Feminine,
Because when the Divine Feminine is fully activated and fully embodied,
It is so,
So powerful.
There is a reason why people say when the Divine Feminine is fully activated on Earth,
It will heal the Earth,
Because the Earth herself is also a Divine Feminine energy.
And when that Masculine Feminine energy on Earth is balanced,
It's going to completely shift the world.
So the Divine Feminine is incredibly,
Incredibly powerful.
And because of that,
There has been so much suppression.
So your journey to embodying the highest aspect of your Divine Feminine is actually a journey of remembrance.
It's unlearning all the conditioning that you've been given your whole life,
Everything you've been taught about the Feminine,
And relearning the truth,
Re-remembering the truth,
Because it's already within you.
It is literally natural to you.
And that's why so many women,
They get sick,
Unwell,
Unhappy,
Because they're literally fighting against their Divine Nature.
And the more enshrined and spiritually aligned you are,
The harder it is going to be for you to keep pushing against your actual nature.
Our entire society is set up in a 24-hour cycle.
And our cycle is aligned with the moon,
A 28-day lunar cycle.
Our entire society has not been built around how we best thrive and operate.
How many cultures do women give birth and then have to go straight back to work?
They're expected to work through and push through when they're in their cycle and not rest and get told that their worth is earned.
So there are all of these layers.
And our job here is to disconnect from those lies and to come back to the truth of who we are and truly embody the powerful Divine Feminine,
Because I believe that is how we heal.
That is how we shift.
And we are seeing it rise so much more.
Women are remembering.
They're getting tired.
They're saying,
No,
You know what?
I don't want to live like this anymore.
This isn't right.
This isn't for me anymore.
And we're choosing a different way of being.
And for many of you,
You might be the first woman in your lineage who has the freedom to actually choose a different way.
And we're in a really incredible time now where we have a lot of freedom that generations of women before us didn't have,
Where we can decide now to choose how to live,
How to be,
And actually align with the Divine Feminine.
And I want to clear some potential misconceptions around the Divine Feminine energy,
Because even though the Divine Feminine can be soft,
It's for the most part,
Divine Feminine energy isn't soft,
Passive,
Let me run around the flower fields all day.
Yeah,
Sure,
That might be an aspect of it,
But that is not the fullness of the Divine Feminine.
The Feminine energy is as destructive as she is creative.
She is the death-rebirth cycle embodied.
That's literally our monthly menstrual cycle as well.
It's built within us.
And that's why we have these Divine Feminine archetypes like Kali,
The destroyer,
That destructive nature.
We release what isn't aligned.
We're able to shift and transform and create from that space too.
We are amazing at that.
We're so naturally incredible at manifesting.
You get the irony of it is,
Even a lot of the great manifestation teachers,
You know,
There's a background in.
.
.
Like you think back to the first kind of big teachers around manifestation,
Like 50,
100 years ago,
Most of them were men.
And they taught manifestation to a very masculine way.
But actually how women manifest naturally is very different to how men manifest.
And we have something that they don't.
We have a literal creation center that allows us to bring into our body from the spiritual realm and create.
That's why womb alchemy is so powerful and so important.
Because it's like we're trying to manifest and create without utilizing the whole gift that was given to us.
It's not just the law of attraction.
We literally have a creation center that can birth and manifest.
But we haven't been taught how to use it.
And so much of society has forgotten that women have this innate creative ability that actually exists within the body.
Not just energetically,
But within the body.
Divine Feminine doesn't mean you have to be a boss babe.
And it doesn't mean you have to be a trad wife either.
You can be anything you like.
It is about the embodiment of an energy.
And I know if I didn't have my business,
I wouldn't be able to live in the way that I do.
Because I was able to build my business completely around my Divine Feminine.
And it's set up in a way that is so deeply supportive and nourishing to me that it gives me freedom,
Time freedom,
Creativity,
Joy,
Ability to actually live embodied in my Divine Feminine.
And that's why I get so excited to see women in business,
Especially the ones who are saying,
No,
No,
Thank you.
I'm not going to do the 5am mornings and work for 14 hours a day because I've got to hustle and I've got to get results.
That's how we do it.
Which no shame if that's where you're at.
I did go through that phase too.
And though that goes very against our nature.
Like why are we using force when we're literally magnetic and have the ability to create in a different way?
And for most of us,
It's not going to feel good to live like that.
And so I'm seeing so many women now go,
Actually,
That doesn't feel good.
I get to do business differently.
I get to live differently.
I don't have to do what everybody else is doing,
What the cultural narrative of an entrepreneur is.
I get to do it differently.
And it's so exciting to me because we're seeing this paradigm shift in feminine business.
And so no matter what kind of,
Whether you're in your career,
Whether you're in your business,
Whether you are a stay at home wife or mom,
It doesn't matter.
What matters is that you are the embodiment of the divine feminine,
The one that naturally magnetizes abundance.
And there are many feminine prosperity channels,
Whether that is through your partner,
Whether that is through your business or your career,
Or even other ways,
The feminine naturally magnetizes abundance when she is deeply embodied.
I want to speak to before we jump into the divine feminine,
I want to speak a little bit to the wounded feminine energy,
Because this is something that so many of us just accept as normal.
It literally has just become expected that women live this way,
Like a mother is celebrated when she is self-sacrificing.
That's what the cultural programming around the feminine is.
And what ends up happening is the feminine within us feels unsafe to rest,
To feel and receive,
When literally feeling and receiving are our superpowers,
Literally.
But it's been so programmed and passed down,
That it's just normalized for us.
So some of the core patterns that you want to be looking for,
If you're like,
Okay,
I'm not really sure how much divine feminine energy I'm operating in,
Are these wounded feminine energy patterns.
The first one is overgiving and self-abandonment,
Which I definitely used to do.
I used to feel like I have to give in order to receive love.
So this is where we feel like we have to sacrifice or give to receive,
Right?
And think about how that shows up in relationships,
But also in terms of money.
We tend to people please,
Putting other people's needs above our own.
We might even feel like suffering or earning makes us worthy of love.
Hyper-independence,
I can do it all on myself.
There's a fear of being let down.
Suppressing our emotions,
You know,
So ignoring or and even judging our anger,
Our desire as too much or too big or not right.
Disconnection from our body,
From our pleasure,
Feeling shame around our body.
Distrust of the masculine,
Which for many women who distrust the masculine,
Which,
You know,
I'm speaking about myself here in the past too,
We have very valid reasons to distrust the masculine.
But we do need to ask ourselves,
Is that serving me?
Is there another way that we can be?
And I go through that journey of healing the masculine and my relationship to it as well.
And it improved my life so,
So,
So dramatically.
And the other sign that I'd be watching for is control pattern.
So micromanaging,
Trying to control things,
Trying to control outcomes,
Because surrender doesn't feel safe or it can feel scary.
Like the uncertainty feels unsafe.
That's what you want to be looking at.
And a lot of the emotions that someone who is largely in their wounded feminine energy,
They're going to be feeling a lot of resentment.
That's a big one.
Exhaustion,
Absolute exhaustion,
Guilt,
Shame,
Numbness,
Insecurity,
And compassion.
So comparing yourself to other women.
Now on the flip side,
Divine feminine energy,
That is the healed,
The integrated,
The sovereign feminine,
Who remembers who she is.
And she is a vessel of life,
Of love,
Of creation itself.
And she recognizes herself as this divine vessel.
So the divine feminine energy,
There's deep receptivity,
Deep trust.
You let life move through you and you know you're supported,
Right?
And if you don't feel currently supported in your life,
You first start to lean into divine support,
To know and trust you are divinely supported.
I have a lot of podcast episodes on that,
If that's something that you're struggling with.
Embodiment,
Living from presence,
Honoring what you're feeling in the moment,
Not living from the mind or trying to get approval.
Self-honoring,
Honoring yourself and prioritizing your needs.
So when you give,
It's from overflow,
Not from a space of depletion,
Of I have to give now in order to earn rest,
To earn love.
There is a deep devotion to life,
To love,
Intuition,
That's the big one.
The divine feminine energy is deeply psychic,
Deeply intuitive and very emotionally intelligent.
She honors and feels all of her emotions and moves through them.
They don't,
It's not like you drown in your emotions either.
You move through it,
You process it,
You don't necessarily dump it and let them completely take you over.
Maybe for a moment you do.
You hold space for yourself with love without judgment and move through it.
There's sensuality and pleasure.
You recognize yourself as a beautiful temple for the divine,
A sacred temple for the divine.
And there's sovereignty,
Right?
You feel you can trust yourself.
You feel like you can really trust the decisions and choices that you make.
And there's trust of the masculine as well,
Welcoming that structure and direction as safe containers that support you and allow you to surrender deeper into yourself.
And the creation is largely through being,
Right?
So it's the magnetizing instead of chasing.
If you constantly feel like you're chasing leaves,
You're having to force sales and convince people to work with you,
That's masculine business.
We don't have to do it that way.
I don't.
And I'm speaking as someone who's built a seven-figure business,
Has had a business that's grown every single year.
So I'm speaking from experience here because I don't do any chasing.
It's all magnetizing.
And the emotional energy that someone embodied in their divine feminine is going to feel is the calm,
Confidence,
The gratitude,
The joy.
She's going to feel powerful as well,
But she's going to feel open.
There's a radiance to her,
Right?
The divine feminine is incredibly radiant.
And that also creates that magnetism because she's not passive.
She's not soft girl energy,
And she might be at times,
But she is very,
Very powerful.
And some women,
What tends to happen is they wear a masculine armor in their business.
I mean,
You know,
So in their business,
They're dropping into their masculine.
And then in their life,
They try to drop back in their feminine.
But the reality is you can be in the divine feminine energy everywhere in your life.
And trust me,
Your body's going to feel so much better,
Your relationships,
Your abundance,
Your business,
Everything is going to flow more when you're in alignment with that energy.
So I want to speak about the core lessons and processes that you need to be embodied in to actually hold divine energy.
And before we go into the aspects and archetypes.
So one of the biggest things that I see and feel that the divine feminine energy needs to embody is a deep,
Deep level of self trust.
What I see a lot of times with women is that they question themselves,
They question their emotions,
And they're unclear.
The divine feminine energy is oftentimes very clear.
She knows what she wants and desires because she trusts her emotions.
How much do you trust your emotions?
And it becomes very confusing because a part of you is in pain.
But then the other part of you is has this love and you get confused and you get stuck.
And then if there's a bond,
My goodness,
That amplifies it even more.
And there's a lot of confusion.
So for you,
If you've ever been in that situation,
It's very likely it eroded your self trust so deeply.
And that is part of being in a relationship like that.
So self trust is where you actually listen and honor and trust your emotions.
So when anger comes up,
You go,
Ooh,
That's interesting.
I feel angry.
Every single emotion is protecting and trying to show you something.
I truly believe there is no negative emotion whatsoever.
It might not feel good or comfortable in our body.
But it is an internal compass that is showing us something that we need to be aware of.
So anger,
When we feel that anger,
It means somewhere we feel disrespected or somewhere our boundaries are being crossed.
So in that moment,
You get to stop and ask yourself,
Ooh,
Where am I not being respected right now?
Where are my boundaries being crossed right now?
And it's actually showing you so that you can then lean into deeper self love,
Self worth,
Self respect,
And a deeper knowing,
Too.
And jealousy as well.
Jealousy is a really common one that we're like,
Ooh,
That's,
You know,
Not a good emotion.
I shouldn't feel jealousy.
Again,
You're human,
Like you're gonna feel jealous.
Sometimes there's no bad emotions.
And the way that I see jealousy is if you feel jealous,
For whatever reason,
Like,
Let's say you see someone having something having an experience,
Maybe they've got an amazing relationship,
Right,
For example,
And you feel jealousy,
Spark up,
It means that there is a part of you that doesn't believe that you can have it.
Wow,
How amazing your jealousy is showing you,
You have a limiting belief.
Wow,
Thank you,
Jealousy.
I'm so grateful you showed this to me.
Let me dive deeper into what this belief is,
So that I can work on it so that I can have the thing that I actually,
Truly desire.
And it's not just the more negative,
Even though they're not really negative emotions,
That we need to trust,
But it's also the desire.
So many women,
They suppress their desires,
They ignore their desires for what they should do,
What they've been taught,
What their parents and life think that they should do.
So we disconnect from our true desires instead of honoring them.
And that's when we shift out of joy and into resentment.
So self trust means actually spending time each day listening to your emotions.
When an emotion comes up in the moment,
You don't judge,
You don't criticize,
You literally look at it as wow,
That's interesting.
What is this emotion trying to show me and teach me right now?
If it is here for my highest good,
And it's here to protect me,
It's here to teach me,
What is it actually teaching me and showing me.
And this is how self trust is then built,
Because you trust yourself.
Now,
If you've spent years and years suppressing your emotions and being disconnected from them,
When you first start this,
It might be overwhelming,
Because your emotions are gonna be like,
She's finally listening.
Let's bring up this one and this one and this one.
So if this is your first time actually starting to listen to it,
I know you have been suppressing this.
I actually encourage you to put aside 15 minutes,
Maybe even longer every single day where you just tune into your emotional body.
And you go,
What emotions am I feeling today?
And I still do this process.
But especially when I first started focusing on Divine Feminine Energy,
I would do this process every single day.
And I would bring up,
I would go,
Oh,
That's interesting.
I have some grief.
Okay,
Let me feel that.
What's it trying to show me?
And we give it space.
Emotion needs to be felt.
And then it naturally moves through us.
So it is something that is an ongoing,
Consistent thing.
And then you learn to do it in the moment.
And this is how we become emotionally regulated.
This is how we then become really attuned to our emotions.
And there's no managing them.
It's feeling them,
Trusting them.
And this is then where we can trust ourselves to actually be so in tune to make the right decisions.
Because when you feel an emotion,
You're going to recognize it has a purpose.
And it's going to give you clarity around what decision,
What direction you need to take.
And there will be times when you might feel uncertain,
Unsure,
Right?
Like you don't have the clarity yet.
Part of self-trust is trusting the uncertainty and the lack of clarity.
If there's ever a time where I'm like,
Ooh,
I'm not really sure what to do here.
I just lean back and I give myself space.
And I know that I'm going to feel into it.
And I trust myself that when it is time for me to make that decision,
That I am going to feel the truth and know the truth for me.
So the self-trust is very,
Very emotionally based because so much of us are trying to make decisions from a space of the mind,
You know,
Well,
It looks good on paper,
Even though my body is actually telling me this.
And if we go against our emotions long enough and suppress them,
This is when a lot of physical issues,
Autoimmune disorders begin to develop.
So self-trust,
Absolute core part of being in divine feminine energy.
The next part,
Or the next core element of being in divine feminine energy is self-love,
Right?
And this is not,
Well,
I mean,
Can be,
It can be you looking in the mirror and telling yourself how beautiful you are,
How sexy you are,
How amazing you are.
Amazing.
I love that,
Right?
But that's not specifically what I'm talking about here right now.
What I am talking about with self-love is what you allow for yourself.
So self-love is actually the boundaries and it ties a lot into self-worth because I believe that self-love and self-worth are completely intertwined together.
And self-worth is such,
It's absolutely so important for the divine feminine,
Because when you really understand that you as the feminine are vessel for the divine,
You are so worthy already,
Exactly as you are of everything that you desire.
You've just been taught otherwise.
And that's when we have to remember the truth that you are already worthy.
So self-love relates to boundaries and this is what you accept and what you are energetically available for.
So this is where the self-trust comes in because when someone crosses your boundary,
You're likely to feel some form of anger.
You might even feel guilt.
That's also quite common.
So if you've got a lot of programming around having to earn love,
You might actually feel guilt over anger.
Eventually that will then shift into anger because that's the next layer.
Boundaries are then how we process that because it's one thing to be like,
I'm not going to allow someone to treat me like this,
But what then happens when they do?
And this is where we get to,
With love,
Set that boundary and say,
I'm actually not available for this.
And I practice this in an energetic sense where I am consistently,
Throughout my day,
Throughout my life,
Constantly deciding what I am energetically available for,
Right?
So for example,
It might even just be you saying,
You look at your bank account and you're like,
Oh,
That doesn't feel good.
I don't like,
You know,
That there is not the amount of money that I would like to see there.
So it might even be you then looking at them saying,
I'm only energetically available for having an abundant bank account.
You're not just setting boundaries with other people.
You're setting boundaries with the life.
You're choosing what you are energetically available for.
And every time you state it out loud,
You're affirming that to the universe.
If someone treats you in a way you don't like,
You can affirm,
I mean,
You can say it to I have before,
But you can,
You can also just say it to yourself.
I am only energetically,
Energetically available for people who always and only speak to me with love and compassion,
Right?
So it's a constant affirmation of what you are choosing.
And when something isn't a reflection of the life that you actually desire,
You get to set an energetic boundary with life and say,
Actually,
I'm not available for this.
This is what I'm choosing to be available for.
And that is a form of self-love.
It's honoring those desires that starts with the self-trust because you have to trust your desires,
Know what they are.
If you're in a space right now,
Where you're like,
I don't even know what I want.
That's a great space to be in.
It's exciting.
And it means that you truly have to sit with yourself and go,
What do I desire on the deepest possible level?
Body show me,
Emotions show me,
I'm ready to tune into my desires.
And it's a great sentence.
This is another great exercise for you to give yourself is to every day,
Just say to yourself,
What are three things that I truly desire today?
And if you have had a lot of programming,
It's really important to question your desires when you start this process.
Because the reality is some of your desires are not your own,
Right?
For example,
If we're programmed as children,
Go to school,
Go to university,
This is a good career.
Is that actually a true soul desire?
Or is that just somebody else's programming?
Is that someone else's desire for you?
Or is it a true desire?
So when you go each day,
And you might start your day and just tune in and connect to your body and go,
What are three desires that I have for today?
Oh,
I really desire to take a bath today,
That would feel really abundant.
Oh,
I desire to make 10 sales today,
For example,
Right?
And then ask yourself,
Okay,
Is that a true soul desire?
Or is that someone else's desires?
And just play with it.
You might find that all of your desires are already true soul desires.
Amazing.
You might find that some are actually not yours.
So this is how we then reconnect to the desires.
And you can start then creating those energetic boundaries with life to co create in real time,
Through I'm not energetically available for this anymore,
I am only energetically available for and then state out loud what you are energetically available for.
Now,
Something else that is very important with the self love and self worth it ties ties into it is the love and honor of our body.
Like it's it's an epidemic woman being taught to feel ashamed of their body being told they're not good enough disrespecting our bodies in the name of beauty standards.
And body love,
It first begins with acceptance,
Right acceptance of who you are,
How your body looks,
But then also learning to see it as a divine vessel.
Whether or not you have had children,
That's not the point here.
Even though I know that a lot of mothers,
After they give birth,
They do lean deeper into self love of their body because they recognize it as the portal for creation.
But you don't need to have children to have that realization.
Your body already is a portal of creation,
Who you are,
Is a portal for the divine that is literally feminine alchemy that is literally your makeup.
Those codes of creations are held in you.
But we cannot create if we're disrespecting and not loving our body.
And this is a journey that I really had to spend a lot of time on.
But even just starting each day,
Not from a physical perspective,
Sorry,
From an aesthetic perspective,
You know,
If you want to great,
You know,
It's not looking in the mirror and going,
Oh,
You're so sexy,
If you don't feel sexy.
It's more about going,
Thank you liver,
For keeping my body healthy and running.
Thank you heart for beating.
So actually looking at what your body is doing for you,
And learning to love and honor it.
One of the my favorite exercises for this that I did many years ago that helped me a lot was it's from Louise L.
Hay,
Where you stand in front of the mirror,
Ideally naked,
And you say to yourself,
Looking in your eyes,
I love and accept you exactly as you are.
I love and accept you exactly as you are and doing this over and over again.
Because I remember I used to like whenever I saw myself in the mirror,
I would have very negative self talk very critical about myself.
And so I began to implement this.
And what ended up happening is naturally,
Whenever I would catch myself in a mirror,
I would hear in my head,
I love myself exactly as I am.
It literally just started happening automatically,
I was able to reprogram.
So that was really great for me to move into that.
And as you learn to respect,
Honor and love your body,
It begins to your body begins to respond differently to you and begins to work with you,
Because it's your greatest ally,
Not your enemy.
And then that's where you also lean into the physical aesthetic.
Now I do see beauty as an aspect of the divine feminine,
But beauty is not what society says is beautiful,
Right?
It's we're not talking about the current beauty standards.
Again,
That's different for every single culture and every single historical time period.
So those are always changing.
I'm talking about pure divine feminine beauty.
And there's a huge element of radiance,
It's not shallow,
It's deep embodied radiance.
And that extends out there's a joy and ease a magnetism.
But the divine feminine energy,
She also spends time nurturing herself to feel good in how she looks.
Now that doesn't need to mean that you do makeup and different things that might be adorning yourself dressing in the way you actually desire,
Not in the way that you believe that you should spending time adorning your body,
Getting dressed in the way that actually feels good and aligned for you.
If you begin to treat how you look as the external manifestation of your soul,
How would you like your soul to look?
What would feel good for you?
And this is divine feminine beauty,
Right?
It's what you feel good,
Not Oh,
Well,
You know,
This is in style right now.
And this is the current beauty standards.
So let me change my body to reflect that.
No,
It's what do I actually desire my soul to express itself in physical form that I consider to be beautiful?
What is beauty to me?
What is beautiful to me?
And then when you begin to embody that you actually activate divine feminine beauty,
Which I believe is one of the elements of the divine feminine energy as well.
Tying into that as well,
We have the self respect,
Self respect is very,
Very important for the divine feminine.
And this is actively prioritizing and choosing yourself and being okay to say no.
No,
I don't want that.
No,
I don't want to do this.
No is a complete sentence.
And if you're not used to saying no,
That gets to be an exercise in and of itself for you saying no.
The divine feminine is also very powerful.
There is a power to the divine feminine.
And this is where the manifestation creation parts of it come through as well.
If you've given birth,
You have felt how powerful the feminine energy is.
But if you are running a lot of good girl programming,
Which is very,
Very common,
Actually go over this a lot in my Empress Codex program.
This is where really we are allowing what others consider to be the right way to be as a feminine being as a way that we should do that actually drains and distorts our power.
And it really is letting go of all the programming you've received your whole life and coming back to your own power,
Your own knowing and that comes through self trust,
Self love,
Self worth and self respect.
Now,
The other aspect of divine feminine is she is a master of death and rebirth.
And she doesn't fear it.
Literally,
You have a small death rebirth every month with your cycle,
Like we already are masters in it.
And if you've,
If you're in tune with your cycles,
You'll know that when you go through something big in your life,
The next the next menstrual cycle you get is massive,
Right?
It's might be more painful,
It might be your processing something because your body is actually releasing energetically.
When I had a huge identity shift last week,
My periods are generally quite painless.
But I remember after I had a huge identity shift,
And I did all of this healing around my inner child wounds.
Literally that month,
My period was so painful,
I spent the day in bed,
And then next month again was fine.
Because that is how our body naturally releases.
So we don't want to fear change,
Right?
We flow with it,
We are literally flow,
We change,
We flow,
There's death,
There's rebirth,
And we're meant to greet it with excitement.
And that self trust,
That self love,
It also ties into our menstrual cycle.
I'm not going to go too much into menstrual cycle,
Because I could do a whole class on that.
But honoring your menstrual cycle,
If you feel like my body needs to rest,
This is what my body needs right now,
Actually being able to choose that,
And honor that,
And honoring the power of the menstrual cycle as well.
And what it means for you to be a woman who is connected to Mother Earth through your bleed.
Another aspect of the divine feminine is intuition.
That is natural for us.
The more you're going to go down into self trust,
Listening to yourself,
Your desire,
Self love,
Your intuition is just going to come more and more online.
Intuition is different to psychic ability.
So psychic ability is through the etheric body.
That's where we're utilizing our third eye chakra,
Our ear chakras,
Our crown chakra to tune in energetically into higher dimensional states.
However,
Intuition is actually your body natural energy reading center.
So it is felt,
Right?
It's that moment when you walk into a room,
And you feel the energy isn't right there.
Or you just meet someone and you're like,
They look good on paper,
But my body is telling me I can't trust them.
That is intuition.
And that comes online only when you are fully listening to yourself,
You're fully in self trust,
Self worth.
But when you actually start to then live in full alignment with that intuition,
You become unstoppable.
Literally,
It is a superpower.
That's why you hear these stories of super successful men who will ask for their wives opinion on things,
Even if she doesn't know a lot about the situation,
Because she can energetically tune in and feel and know what is aligned,
What is the right decision,
And what is not.
It is literally a superpower,
Where you're not going to need to spend time analyzing pros and cons list because you'll be in that divine knowing.
The other element of the divine feminine is our relationship to the masculine,
Right?
Because it's there is a polarity there,
The yin,
The yang,
The feminine,
The masculine.
Naturally,
The more you embody the feminine energy,
It's going to spark within your partner,
If you have one,
A deeper embodiment of divine masculine energy.
And whether you're in a same sex relationship or not,
It actually is the same.
I've seen it in same sex relationships and straight relationships.
When you are in deeper embodiment of the divine feminine,
Your partner will reflect a deeper aspect of the divine masculine.
And it's not just about our embodiment of it,
It's also how we relate.
So if you really want to be in divine feminine energy in your relationship,
I really invite you to release any judgment,
Right?
So this is where you might say,
Oh,
You know,
I don't like that you did this,
Or I don't like that you did that.
Any nagging?
Oh,
Do this,
Or you didn't do this Any criticism?
Any leading?
Leading is,
You should do this.
Now,
Why don't you do it like that?
This way is better.
Oh,
We should do this.
That is leading.
Now I know these are,
You might be thinking,
I think,
What's wrong with these things?
Look,
Nothing.
And if you're not in a super polarized relationship,
These things might not be an issue.
However,
If you're wanting to embody divine feminine energy everywhere,
Including in your business,
Including with money,
Including in your relationship,
It means how we relate to the masculine has to also change.
And we begin,
Where we lead from,
Is from sharing our emotions without judgment,
Right?
And this is really clear,
And this is really important here,
Because a lot of women judge men through their emotional sharing in the way they do it.
So even something like,
I feel sad because you did this,
That is a judgment,
Right?
And so what's it going to bring up in the masculine?
Even if he's done a lot of work and he might suppress it,
It's still going to bring up an irritation,
Because in that moment he's feeling blamed and judged.
And,
You know,
If he's really embodied and he's done a lot of work,
He might suppress that irritation and focus on you,
But it doesn't matter.
There's still a reaction here.
And so this is where you get to lean into,
I feel sadness.
That's without blame,
You know?
And then he might ask,
Okay,
Why are you feeling sadness?
And then you share without blaming.
And honestly,
This is a skill set.
It takes time to unlearn,
Because we're so used to blaming,
To judging,
To leading.
You might,
You know,
Your partner might be sharing something with you and you immediately go,
Oh,
You should do this.
We don't want to actually lean into that,
Because that's embodying the masculine pull in the relationship.
Your job is to be in a state of self-love,
Of intuition,
Of embodying your emotions and sharing those.
And this is when polarity is created and you feel safe and held by the masculine.
So there's a real invitation here for you to also,
If you're truly serious about embodying divine feminine energy in every aspect of your life,
To really reflect on and think about how do I relate to the divine masculine?
Because what I tend to see with women who start their divine feminine journey is that they will do the spiritual practices,
They'll do the stuff in their own life,
But then they start work,
Immediately masculine armor comes on and they go back into the hustling,
Forcing energies.
They feel scarcity around money and then they begin to judge or lead their partners.
So it's actually how you relate to everything that also needs to shift,
Even with money.
And it's done in real time.
Obviously,
You know,
If you're in a space of scarcity with money right now,
It's going to be a bit challenging for you,
But it starts energetically.
You start going what am I feeling around money?
Okay,
What is it teaching me?
What is that emotion teaching me?
What do I actually desire?
Let me set up that boundary with life.
Let me love money.
Let me call in money.
Let me work with my womb to magnetize more money.
That's how we shift.
And then suddenly that relationship with money completely shifts,
Right?
We actually do a lot of this in priestess of wealth.
So if you are feeling called to this,
I invite you to come to priestess of wealth because this is where we open up the prosperity channels,
The receiving channels,
So that you can actually open to more receiving because divine feminine energy,
She's meant to receive.
She's meant to just be her fullest expression through love and then receive.
That's it.
And there's a real power in that.
So it's how we relate to emotions,
But then again,
How we relate to the masculine.
And I see money as masculine.
I see my business,
My company as masculine,
Right?
Because I know when I'm in a relationship with something,
I'm in a relationship with business,
With money,
I want to embody the feminine aspect.
So it has to hold the masculine aspect.
So I'm changing how I relate to my female friends.
It's very different to how I relate to my partner,
Right?
It's a different frequency,
A different energy.
And so it's really important to honor that and to know that.
So I really invite you any nagging,
Any criticism,
If you're like,
Oh,
But Athena,
You know,
He leaves the laundry in the washing machine,
Or he leaves the dishes in the sink.
Okay,
So why don't you try something instead of saying,
Hey,
Can you go clean the dishes?
Say,
I feel so grateful.
When the house is clean.
I feel so much joy.
When the sink is empty.
That's you focusing on your emotional state.
That's you focusing on your desires.
That's not leading.
That's not criticizing.
That's not nagging.
Do you see the energetic difference?
And you are more likely to get your needs met.
Because a masculine man is going to want to actually help you embody those emotions.
But it's very challenging for them when they feel that oftentimes very subtle irritation where I'm being judged,
I'm being blamed,
She's in her masculine trying to lead me to do something.
And part of them fights that if they have that masculinity,
Part of them is always going to be fighting that.
So we want to move out of that as much as possible.
Now,
Because there is so much unlearning as part of the divine feminine energy,
You're going to end up having to move through a lot of core healings,
You're very likely going to have a mother wound,
Right,
You're likely going to have ancestral patterns,
You're very likely to have a sisterhood wound,
Anytime you've been betrayed by a friend,
There's probably going to be body shame,
Mistrust of the masculine.
These are all really important and powerful healings.
And also healing of the womb before we can actually utilize the womb for its intended purpose of creation,
We actually have to heal what it's holding.
So many women are holding energies of past lovers holding stuff that's not theirs in their womb,
And just holding so much stuff and then issues develop there because you're carrying all of it.
Everything that is in process,
It goes into the womb.
So part of stepping into the divine feminine is being able to heal all of these things.
Because if you have a huge mother wound,
Sisterhood wound,
Where you don't feel like you can trust the feminine,
Well,
How can you trust the feminine within you?
Doesn't make sense.
If you have been sexually traumatized,
And you're holding on to that in your body,
Then how can you fully activate your sensuality,
Your pleasure,
Your gifts of co-creation?
It doesn't work.
So healing is such an important aspect of it.
By the way,
We do all of these healings inside of Isis Ka.
So that is the divine feminine program where we take you through all the levels of healing it so you can actually shift into becoming the priestess,
Holding the divine feminine.
And we also teach you womb alchemy,
Co-creation,
And how to actually create from the and have a feminine,
Divine feminine business and what that looks like.
One of the exciting things about divine feminine energy and divine feminine work is that there are different archetypes of the feminine,
Right?
And some of these you will be familiar with.
For example,
The lover,
The mother,
The maiden,
The crone,
The priestess,
The creatrix,
The dark feminine or the shadow feminine,
The queen.
All of these are different elements of divine feminine.
And the reality is you have them all within you.
And you are likely going to access different parts of them when needed.
Maybe when you've been disrespected and you're rebuilding your life and you're going through a death rebirth,
You might be tuning into that dark feminine energy more because it's truth,
It's power,
It's sovereignty,
It's potent,
Right?
So we have these divine feminine aspects within us,
But what tends to happen is that as your divine feminine energy expands and opens,
Even though you can pull onto all of these different aspects of the divine feminine,
You're very likely going to be embodying one archetypal energy as the strongest,
Sometimes two.
And this is something that will end up being reflected in how you create,
In how you work,
In how you show up.
So for example,
I hold the priestess archetype very,
Very strongly.
The priestess is the vessel between the spiritual and physical realms.
And her body is the altar.
She becomes a vessel for the divine.
And this is literally where I show up in my business with the intention to be a vessel for the divine,
For it to flow through me,
To share teachings,
Transmissions with the world.
I also see myself as a priestess in terms of money,
Right?
How I receive money is going to be very different to the way the queen archetype receives money as well.
Because the priestess,
She receives wealth differently.
She will experience life differently to other archetypes.
So part of this divine feminine journey is you're going to remember your core feminine blueprint.
And it's likely going to be linked into one of the archetypes that you are here to embody.
And it's going to be linked to your sole purpose as well.
You might have the medicine woman or the wise woman,
Right?
The one who is a deep and powerful healer.
She's connected to earth,
To the elements.
She's amazing at turning pain into wisdom and restoring the natural harmony between bodies and earth.
You might have the witch or the sorceress archetype.
And this is the conscious creator who works with natural law and energetic technology.
She can command energy through will and through elemental mastery.
You might be the oracle who receives divine messages and gives them through voice.
A lot of singers have this archetype very,
Very strongly.
She speaks,
She writes,
She sings truth as it pours through her.
You might be the lover,
Right?
Which is the divine embodiment of eros and creation.
There is a really powerful pleasure,
Love,
Intimacy,
Life force.
It's essential flow.
You might be the queen or the creatrix,
Which is all about leadership,
Right?
The authority,
The divine feminine authority.
She governs energy and builds realms for others.
You might be a big community builder.
You might be the alchemist who transforms.
They're really masters of death and rebirth,
Transmuting shadows,
Transmuting chaos,
Bridging spirit and science too.
And the witch commands energy,
But the alchemist changes its nature.
So part of your divine feminine journey is actually going deeper into these archetypes.
And if you feel cool to one,
Or if you feel like I need to embody one because you feel like you're lacking some of the qualities and traits,
Let's hypothetically say the priestess.
The priestess is amazing at receiving,
Right?
That's why I created priestess of wealth.
She's amazing at receiving abundance,
Receiving support,
Receiving from spirit and actually holding and amplifying it.
She's amazing communicating with spirit and surrender,
Like amazing at surrender and trusting what she receives.
So you might call in Mary or the energy of Pythia as well.
These are all archetypes and energetic beings that hold that frequency.
And you can call them in,
Ask for frequency transmission,
Request to actually hold their codes,
The energy of their archetype within yourself to activate it more.
And you can work with them as spiritual beings actually help you do that.
You might be moving through a situation where you're like,
Oh my god,
I'm such a people pleaser.
Oh,
I overgive.
Oh,
Like everybody crosses my boundaries and takes advantage of me.
Okay,
Sounds like you need some dark feminine.
Right?
And so guess who you're going to be calling in,
You're going to be calling in Kali,
Maybe even Medusa,
You're going to be calling in these energies to help you actually call back your power and step into it and be able to set those boundaries.
So you can call them in and ask for assistance.
I went through that with Kali and let me tell you it was pretty intense.
And when you do call in Kali,
She will begin to disconnect everything that is out of alignment.
So just be warned,
It can be quite intense,
Right?
If you are,
If you feel like your sexual central energy has shut down,
And you need to activate it further that you're really disconnected from your own self pleasure and desires and magnetic power,
Call in Aphrodite,
Call in Inanna,
Ask them to receive the beauty,
The sexual alchemy,
The sensuality,
The reactivation of your pleasure and the activation of your body in that so you can actually work with them to help you do that.
And what's going to happen as you begin to have a look at okay,
This is where I'm really weak.
So this is the divine feminine archetype being that I'm going to call in and ask for assistance.
And you are on your divine feminine journey,
You're going to notice that you naturally lean into an archetype that you are here to hold.
And that's where your superpower is then going to come from in terms of how you run your business,
How a lover runs her business versus the priestess is very different.
The priestess starts her day,
I'm speaking here as myself,
By saying to the divine,
What needs to come through me right now?
What do I need to share?
What am I here to receive today?
Versus the lover will tune into what she desires,
What will bring her pleasure,
What feels alive in her body today.
They're different perspectives,
But they're all honoring the divine feminine,
But in different aspects.
The lover is going to manifest wealth and money very differently.
She's going to be focused on pleasure practices,
On creating money and wealth through pleasure,
Maybe more focused on sexual alchemy.
The priestess is going to be focused on receiving,
On expanding her ability to receive,
To call in,
To circulate.
She's going to be doing a lot more womb alchemy.
So how then you're going to operate in your life,
In your relationships,
In your business,
In your wealth,
Is going to depend on that archetype you're here to embody.
And you can ask,
You know,
You can say to spirit,
Spirit,
I want to know what archetype I'm here to actually embody and share,
Right?
Because it is a gift,
It is a gift to the world,
This archetype that you're here to be and embody.
And you're going to start to get signs,
Right?
You might walk into a store and there might be a statue of Aphrodite and you're like,
Oh,
Maybe I have the lover archetype,
Right?
Or you might get a book given to you about Kali and you're like,
Oh,
Am I here to hold the dark feminine principles,
Right?
So this is where you let yourself be open and guided or you just follow your intuition and you see what you feel called to,
You see what initiations you have already walked through in your life that are preparing you to hold that specific archetype.
When you honor and own this divine feminine energy within you,
Female friendships are just going to feel so supportive,
So nourishing.
One of the ways that I also,
I always say to my Isis cast students,
If you want to know what your relationship with the feminine is within you,
Have a look at the woman in your life.
Do you feel deeply supported by the woman in your life?
Do you feel like you don't have many female friendships or female community?
Is there jealousy,
Resentment,
Right?
You want to actually have a look at it because it's always going to reflect you.
So when you begin to embody the divine feminine and do the healing work,
That is a priority because before you can even hold the elements of self-trust and self-love and self-worth,
You have to do the healing that is preventing you from being able to hold those.
The healing starts first,
Then the activation of it,
And then the embodiment of it.
You're going to notice how women show up in your life is completely different and suddenly money shows up differently.
Your business shows up for you differently.
Your relationships show up for you differently.
Your body shows up for you differently.
Everything changes when you actually embody what you came here to embody and stop going against your true nature,
Which is what we've been taught to do our whole lives.
If you are feeling deeply called to go into this journey and do all the healing work,
Learn to work with your womb,
Learn to also work with the archetypes,
Especially if you're feeling called to the priestess archetype,
But you want to understand sexual alchemy,
Womb alchemy,
You want to activate the divine feminine fully within yourself and heal all of these patterns and wounds,
That's exactly what we do in Isis Car.
It's a death rebirth in and of itself,
It's incredibly life-changing,
And it's going to help you move through all of those things and completely shift it.
We've had women who were unable to have.
.
.
We've had women who haven't been able to have sex without being under the influence of something completely change,
Completely heal that and have healthy,
Happy,
Thriving sexual relationships.
We've had women with physical issues in their womb,
PCOS,
I healed my own PCOS years ago,
I have a separate episode on that,
Endometriosis,
Things completely shift for them all through their own healing work that we do within the program.
We've had people manifest the most incredible loving relationships and shift the ones that they're in all through their own embodiment.
Thank you beautiful soul for listening,
For being here today,
I'm sending you so much love.
