How To Heal Worthiness

How to Heal Worthiness - Never Settling for Less in Life & Business - Goddess Isis of Abundance 1

When I started my business, worthiness was my number 1 block. I never felt enough, I never felt like I was enough for my desires or even for my business. It held me back SO much. Being able to shift through it and work through it at different levels, so I can hold the business I have today with the cash flow we have.

I never settle for anything less than a full soul, yes, and continually expand to hold a higher standard - this is why I continue to grow, why my business never gets stagnant, why my income has ALWAYS increased significantly every year and I fall deeper and deeper in love with life and business.​​​​​​​

Transcript

Hello,

Hello,

Hi beautiful souls.

Welcome,

Welcome.

Hi,

Hi,

Hi.

It's so good to see all of your beautiful faces.

Hi gorgeous ones.

Hi,

Hi.

Oh,

I am very excited for the next three days.

We're going to be getting really deep into different aspects that relate to abundance,

But also with the divine feminine.

And I'll just give a heads up,

I'm very jet lagged.

I always like underestimate how bad jet lag is going to be.

I'm like,

Yeah,

Whatever,

Like I'm a good sleeper.

I'll be fine.

I got back from Europe on Saturday morning and it's Tuesday afternoon for me.

And I was like,

Yeah,

I'll be good by Tuesday.

Guess who was up at 2am?

I've been awake since 2am.

I'm feeling pretty good to be honest,

But my body's definitely like,

Hmm,

You should be asleep.

Just bear with me over the next few days.

We're going to see how I go with jet lag,

But so far so good.

I'm excited for the next three days.

We're getting into some real core topics around abundance,

Around the divine feminine,

And they're topics that I believe to be really,

Really important in shifting our success,

Our abundance,

Our relationships.

It's kind of like that inner work that shifts everything,

Right?

And I have been on this journey myself so deeply,

Right?

Like the worthiness,

Not settling,

Setting new standards.

That's all the things that have created quite dramatic changes for me in my life.

And I'm going to be talking to you a lot about it today,

Going into the concepts,

How it shows up,

How it affects you,

My journey with it,

What you need to know about worthiness,

All the different things.

We've got a few different subjects today,

But hopefully my goal with these trainings and the less trainings,

The energy of them is a transmission.

So I also want to be clear on that because I know a lot of you,

You do attend my trainings and you do attend my activations.

So I have like activations,

Trainings,

Healings.

This is a transmission,

Meaning I'm not actively going to be doing a healing.

I'm not actively going to be doing an activation.

I'm not going to be doing like,

Look at my slides.

Let me take you through da da da da,

Like you might have seen me do.

It's me going to be providing a transmission.

I've been sitting with Goddess Isis.

I've got her here with us,

And I'm going to be sharing with you whatever is for the highest good around this topic that you most need to hear today to shift you.

And I do have stuff that I want to teach a little bit,

Talk about,

Because I know that's what helped me shift dramatically because I was someone with such,

Such low self-worth to get to where I am in the life I live.

Like it was so much in a work shifting,

And it's like,

This is the core thing that I take my Isis cow woman through because it's,

It's so important for you to have that life that you want.

We've got to be embodying right here.

So these are a series of transmissions you're going to get today,

Tomorrow,

The day after.

Very channel,

Very whatever is needing to come through and trusting it.

And my intention is that you get whatever you most need,

The highest best for you.

There will be time for Q&A,

Meaning that if you might have questions about something I talk about,

You know,

You might have a question.

Actually,

You can just,

If you have a question,

Come up about something that I'm sharing,

Or you want me to go deeper into something,

You're like,

Hey,

Athena,

Can you elaborate on that a little bit?

Let me know in the chat,

In the chat box,

You don't need to hold it till the end.

They're saying you can ask right away.

When I,

When you hear me talking about like,

They're saying,

You know,

I'm talking about spirit,

Because obviously I'm channel,

I'm always got my guides here with me.

So I've got my team.

I've been connecting with your teams.

I've got Goddess Isis.

So,

And they'll,

Sometimes I'll say something and they'll be like,

Actually,

Athena.

So I said,

Hold it to the end.

And they said,

Actually,

Athena,

Let them put it straight away.

So let's,

Let's kind of kick it off.

What I would love for you to do is one,

Let me know where you're from.

And two,

Do you have an intention for these three days?

Let's,

This is a very energetic transmission.

So let's focus on your intention.

And I also want to see a little bit about what brought you here.

So I know,

You know,

If there is something specific that I can support you with,

And help you with,

Like,

If this,

If I see a lot of people are leaning towards this one thing,

Or the same theme,

Theme keeps coming up,

I can lean towards that.

So before we get into today,

I want to know,

Do you have an intention?

And where are you from?

Just let me know.

An intention for this transmission and your intention,

You might not even have one might be like,

I have no idea.

I just felt called to join.

That's perfect,

Too.

So it's okay,

If you don't have one,

You don't need to have one.

But if you do,

And you have something I would love to know,

So I can co-create with you.

So we have Newcastle,

Australia,

Living in the temple,

Beautiful,

Releasing resistance and receiving abundance.

Amazing,

You're in the right place.

We're definitely going to be talking about that a lot.

Sydney,

Norway,

Beautiful Sunshine Coast,

Step into leadership with more ease,

Release fear of success.

I love it.

Melbourne,

Receive all that as my highest good,

Great intention to receive,

Beautiful,

Deep connection,

Learn to receive.

Okay,

So receiving is a big one for you guys.

So tomorrow we've got receiving.

A lot of you are saying receiving more.

So I'm just curious,

Because I'm going to be channeling and preparing for tomorrow.

So for those of you who have written,

I want to receive more.

Is there something in your life that you currently feel like I'm blocked on receiving?

And maybe this was my experience was when I was stuck on receiving something like blocked on receive,

I was blocking all things.

Like it was never for me,

It was never just one thing.

I was like,

Well,

I'm blocked on money.

Like I would go through phases where I'd be like,

Okay,

Great.

Now I feel I'm blocked on this,

I'm blocked on that,

I'm blocked on this.

And for me,

It was usually all the things at once when I needed to shift into a new level of receiving.

But I'm curious,

For those of you who are saying receiving,

Is it all things?

Is it just one thing?

Is there one area that you're like,

Oh,

Everything else is abundant and amazing,

But there's just one area.

So also let me know that.

Because receiving all things,

For me,

When I was sharing,

I was blocked on receiving all things.

That's about my relationship with receiving.

But if,

For example,

There's only one area,

Like let's say I've got everything,

It's just receiving money.

Now,

If you're a woman listening here,

Your relationship with money is going to be a masculine relationship.

Like you're the feminine,

Money's masculine.

So it might be more towards receiving the masculine in a providership way,

Which is a different element of receiving,

Right?

Because it's more about you going to your divine feminine.

So let's have a look at what everybody's saying.

I'm going to scroll through the comments quickly.

Beautiful.

Isis,

No abundance,

Moving blocks to money flow,

Amazing.

Because this work that I'm sharing with you over the next three days,

Like this is the stuff that makes me money.

And you know,

It's so funny because now when I hire a mentor and I recently hired a mentor about a month ago,

I literally hired her.

Okay.

I'll tell you exactly why I hired her.

Because I don't hire like,

Oh,

They're going to teach me a new strategy.

They're going to teach me this.

I had a huge death rebirth about a month ago.

Massive.

Turns out it was my Saturn's return.

I didn't even know.

I was like,

Somebody asked me three months ago,

How's your Saturn?

I'm like,

I didn't have one.

It skipped me.

I'm good.

And then last week I was like,

Oh,

I just had my Saturn's return.

Okay.

That explains a lot.

So it turns out it was my Saturn's return,

Which was good to know.

And as part of it,

If you've been through one,

You know,

Massive death,

Like all these different things letting go.

And it wasn't like awful,

But it was life-changing and a lot of things were restructuring.

And I do a lot of processes to connect to my future self,

My future identity,

Timeline work,

You know,

My work,

You know,

I'm really big on that.

And I kept connecting to my future self and guess what I could see?

She had a much higher level of work.

And I think my level of work was very high,

Right?

But I could see she had a higher level of work.

I could see that her beliefs around herself,

Her self-love and self-respect were much higher than mine.

And I went,

Wow,

I have to upgrade my worthiness,

My codes,

My relationship with myself.

So what did I do?

I was like,

Who are the women that I see online who I feel embody worthiness the most that I'm just like,

Wow,

That is a woman with such deep self-love,

Deep respect for herself and deep worthiness,

Like the highest that I can think of.

Four to three women.

And one of them I was very drawn to working with.

So I'm like,

Great.

And I literally,

Like the reason why I hire and coach her,

I'm not like,

I'm not messaging her like,

How do I scale?

How do I do this?

I'm like,

So tell me what your beliefs are.

Like,

So how do you feel about this?

You know,

What's your relationship with this?

Like,

All I want to know is her patterns,

Habits,

Beliefs,

Codes,

Because I'm like,

You've got something that my future self has that I haven't yet mastered.

So that's literally,

I hired her for the worthiness phrase.

And so I always see worthiness tied to abundance.

For me,

It's like,

It's such a strong link,

And it's so powerful.

And that's my intention with you over the next few days,

As we're helping you move through the worthiness stuff,

It's going to be to open you to more abundance.

Beautiful,

Beautiful,

Got spices,

Netherlands.

Let me have a quick scroll before I go too off topic,

Because I don't want to be here for three hours either.

It's very easy for me to go on tangents,

And I want to be really respectful of everyone's time.

So I'm just going to have a quick scroll.

Okay,

Money,

Love,

Area,

All things,

Stuck on taking action,

Receiving in general.

Okay,

So there's a bit of a mix of finances,

But also then receiving in general.

Okay,

Great,

Beautiful.

Thank you,

Everyone.

Beautiful.

All right.

So I'm seeing very similar themes for everyone,

Which is great.

You know,

You're in the right place with all of your intentions.

So I know so many of you know me,

I see so many familiar faces.

For those of you who don't,

My name is Athena Bailey.

I am trans-channeler,

Creator of Channel Spirit Academy,

And Isis Car.

I've been channeling for a very long time now.

I grew up psychic,

Started working with my guides at a very young age,

And use that ability to create my business as you see it today.

Everything is channeled,

Everything I do is channeled,

How I met my husband is channeled.

And along that channeling journey,

I was goddess Isis,

Is someone that I have a very close relationship to,

Who I channeled,

Who came to me and shared this modality that she wanted to birth and well that she wanted me to birth to bring through and I created Isis Car,

Which is an entirely channeled modality and program.

And that's not my only channel modality program.

I have quite a few because this is what I do best,

What I love to do,

And also what I believe is my sole mission on earth.

So I'm very passionate about it.

And so I've been teaching Isis Car for a few years,

And my different offerings have different transmissions and energetic code.

So this one is definitely linked with the vibration of Isis Car,

Right?

Which is a vibration of worthiness,

Of abundance,

Of priestesshood,

Right?

Of sisterhood,

Of spiritual ascension,

Like all of these themes,

That's a transmission.

And this free experience is linked to that,

Right?

With the focus being the energy of abundance.

Because these things that we do,

They,

For us,

They tie so deeply to abundance.

Like,

Like I said before,

They're not separate.

It's not worthiness here,

Abundance here,

Sole purpose here,

Abundance here,

Right?

It's together.

And for me,

When I've had the biggest shift,

It's come from one,

Following the guidance of spirit,

But then two,

Also doing the inner work around it and shifting it.

So we're going to get into some worthiness stuff.

And I'm going to bring up my notes,

Because I do have some notes,

Because worthiness is such,

Such a big topic.

And essentially,

Worthiness is knowing that you are deserving of love,

Of respect,

Of good things in life,

Right?

It's the intrinsic inherent value without having to prove yourself.

And many of us,

Many of us aren't even aware that we're doing it.

But we're running a story of,

I have to prove myself to be worth,

Right?

Because that's the world we live in.

That's what we're born into.

I had that for many,

Many years,

Was something I struggled with.

And for many of us,

When we have worthy experience,

Actually,

Can I get,

Can you let me know in the comments,

Just put like a why or emoji?

Do you feel like you struggle with worthiness?

Is this an issue for you?

Let's kind of get a general,

I want to get a general feel for it.

Great.

Lots.

Okay.

Okay.

All right.

Lots of worthinesses.

A couple of no's,

Amazing,

But mostly yeses.

Okay,

Great.

So let's talk about it.

And if you're like,

I don't really struggle with it.

Remember,

I also don't feel like I struggle with it yet.

I also know that there's a higher level of work,

Right?

Of self-worth.

And I very much see it as like this growth.

Like we can be like,

Okay,

I'm good.

I feel worthy.

But often there's another level,

Right?

And it's like,

I see it as the level we are at now.

It's like right now you feel safe and you feel worthy of the level you are at.

The next level,

You might not feel safe and you might not feel worthy of,

Right?

You might believe you're not worthy.

You might believe you're not safe.

And if you don't make sure that you feel safe and worthy,

You're going to avoid it,

Procrastinate,

Push it away or sabotage it when it comes up.

So that's what we've got to do in our work.

So the more you can expand your worthiness,

The easier it is going to be shipped through,

Because if you don't feel worthy of it,

You're going to push it away.

Like you're going to sabotage it,

Right?

We see that in relationships.

We see that in business,

In all different areas.

Yeah.

Ready for the next level.

Amazing.

So worthiness was my number one big thing.

And I grew up,

I had quite a traumatic teenage years,

Childhood,

Very much love was conditional,

Right?

Love was conditional,

Act like this,

Be like this.

And then when I wasn't,

It was like,

My family didn't speak to me,

Right?

And I had to go out and support myself,

Get multiple jobs when I was 17,

Just to feed myself.

So love was very conditional.

And that's the story that I told myself.

And love was conditional on me being a certain way of showing up a certain way.

And I had a lot of stories around that,

Right?

One of the big ones was I had to do like,

Well,

Academically,

And or make a lot of money to be worthy of love.

I had to be skinny,

To be worthy of a lot,

Right?

That was something that I got from my parents,

It was not a good program.

But they installed that programming very strongly onto me.

And there was all these other rules,

Like I saw them as rules.

And when I first started out in business,

I still had this feeling of like,

I'm not worthy,

Haven't made it yet.

I'm not worthy.

And I remember my first business coach asking,

You know,

When are when are you gonna feel worthy?

Like,

When will you know you're worthy?

And I said,

You know what,

I'll feel worthy when I have my first 10k month,

Right?

And if this is you,

And you're like,

Oh,

Yes,

I relate all these things.

Ask yourself that question.

When will you feel worthy?

Right?

When will you know you're worthy?

For some of you,

You might be I know I'll be I know I'll be worthy when I hit six figures,

Or I know I'll be worthy when I hit seven figures,

Or I know I'll be worthy when I hit my goal.

Wait,

Right,

You'll tell yourself the story.

So right now,

Worthiness is a thing for you ask yourself,

How will you know when you are worth?

I'll give you a moment,

You're welcome to share it with me if you like.

And I'm going to turn on the air con because I'm getting kind of hot.

So give me give me a second type it in the chat box.

And I'll be right back.

Worthy when I get a job.

Okay,

That's a good one.

So I really recommend sitting with this.

Because for me,

Like this was huge.

Because I said,

Okay,

I'll be worthy when I have a 10k.

I think it was 10k launch at the time.

I'll be worthy when I have a 10k launch.

And that was my thing.

I was like,

Yeah,

Hey,

You know,

That's when I'll be worthy.

Um,

Yeah,

When my life partner chose chooses me when I make 100,

000.

Yeah,

We tell ourselves,

This is one.

And if you've got like something successful,

Well,

What is success to write?

So if it's like,

Oh,

My business actually makes money,

What's the specific account?

Amount?

The reason why I asked is because guess what happened when I did hit 10k months when I did hit a 10k launch?

Yes.

No.

I woke up and I felt just as unworthy.

I was like,

That didn't work.

Okay,

Maybe I'll feel worthy.

It's seven figures.

But I think I said 100k long,

I'll be worthy at 100k long.

It didn't change because the goalpost doesn't matter.

So if you've written down,

I'll make you know,

It's 100,

000.

That's when I'll feel worthy.

I promise you won't.

It'll just move with you.

And that's why it's even harder when you say when I'm successful,

Because what you think is successful today,

As soon as you hit it,

And you don't feel worthy,

You're like,

Oh,

Well,

It's not successful,

And you'll keep pushing.

So if you can figure out right now in your brain,

In your mind,

In your belief system,

This is this is the thing that I'm the story that I'm telling myself,

This is my qualification for worthiness.

Majority of times,

It comes from our parents and our culture,

That I've worked with so many people on this issue.

And that's where I see it as coming from.

99% of the time,

You might be able to link it back to that.

So we have this qualification for worthiness.

And when we hit it,

It doesn't change because qualification is a story that we tell ourselves when it's not actually true.

Worthiness is an inside job.

And most of all,

This is what spirit tells me about worthiness.

Worthiness is made up.

Like it,

It actually doesn't exist.

Because think about it,

We're telling our story of self stories of like,

Oh,

I've got to be this way or make this much money or do this thing.

And then I am good enough,

Worthy enough.

You know,

For me,

It was like worthy of being loved.

That was my thing.

And for most people,

When I've kind of dug through the beliefs,

I'm like,

Well,

That's when I'll be worthy of this.

This is almost the majority of the time underneath it,

Not again,

99% of the time,

It comes to being worthy of love.

Right?

So I am worthy of love.

And you might even test that for yourself.

And you if you've written down I'll be worthy when I'm successful,

Let's say,

You might even like to say to yourself out loud,

Even though I'm not successful,

I still love myself exactly as I am and see how it feels in your body.

Your body can't lie,

Right?

If there's contraction,

Like you can feel that's not actually the truth.

So you can feel it in your body.

So you can begin to test.

So worthiness is a made up concept.

It doesn't actually exist,

Right?

It's just rules that society made the paradigm made of what's good,

What's not,

What's attractive,

What's not,

What's abundant,

What's not.

And we tell ourselves these stories.

And the reality is,

In one culture,

You can be worthy,

But in another culture,

You might not be depending on how you look,

How you are,

How much money you make.

And so it's these rules that we use to compare ourselves to others.

And it's coming from a void of love is conditional,

And I only get to be loved when I am this way.

And worthiness shows up in a lot of different ways.

And the way that I see it the most is what we allow for ourselves.

So how we actually,

What we settle for,

Right,

Which is why I titled this training,

What we are actually allowed,

Let me bring up the exact name,

So I can come back to it.

Never settling for less in life and business.

Yeah.

So what I have seen and what I have understood is the reason why we settle is because we don't feel worthy.

And what do I mean by we've settled?

We've settled when there is an area in our life that is not lighting us up,

An area where we don't feel good.

And yeah,

There is obviously a transition period.

Like,

Let's say we've just realized,

Oh,

My God,

My job doesn't like my job isn't my thing.

I want to move into my sole purpose.

Yeah,

There's a transition period,

Right?

You're not settling because you're consciously like,

Right,

How am I going to get out?

How am I going to move in there?

I know I'm not going to settle for this job.

But let's say you've been in a relationship two years,

Three years,

And you've known for that entire time,

I'm actually settling like this isn't a full yes,

Right?

And we settle because we think we can't get anything better because we're not worthy of the thing that we actually want.

So what changes is when we begin to listen to our desires.

And for us,

Women,

The feminine desire,

So important,

Right?

And when I say desire,

I don't mean the mind's desire.

I don't mean,

I want a fast car,

I want a fast car and a luxury mansion,

Right?

Because that's gonna show mommy and daddy how successful I am.

No,

No,

I'm talking about desire,

Right?

The desire to be taken care of,

To be nourished,

To live in a home that feels nurturing and lush,

Right?

It's actual soul desires,

Body desires,

Not from the mind,

But rather from the soul,

From the body.

And what we tend to do as women,

We tend to suppress our desires,

We tend to hide them down,

Shove them down and ignore them,

Right?

And the majority of us,

I know this was true for me,

Don't even realize we're doing it.

I didn't even realize I had suppressed desires because I was so used to from a whole entire life suppressing my desires,

Right?

And because of that,

I didn't even know that I had these suppressed desires.

And I was actually sitting with for long periods of time and journaling and saying,

What do I want?

What do I actually want?

What would feel good?

And even now when there's a situation in my life,

Like let's say maybe there's an aspect of my business that I'm like,

This isn't feeling that good anymore.

I'm very in tune with what feels good or not.

And for me,

It's like,

It's a huge indicator.

If something doesn't feel good,

I'm like,

Right,

What needs to change,

Right?

That's my number one thing.

If it doesn't feel good,

I don't want it,

Right?

And I don't mean like,

Oh,

It's never going to be hard.

No.

When I say feel good,

Like it's in alignment.

And the way I see it is like there's an energetic giving and taking.

And if it's draining your energy,

It's taking from you.

It's not an alignment.

But if you're giving as much as you're getting or you're getting more,

That's great.

That's an alignment and it's going to feel good.

So again,

I don't mean like ego feel good,

Like eating a pint of ice cream,

Which I mean,

Some days can,

But if it's just like,

Oh,

Let me drink a liter of alcohol and have a liter of ice cream.

That's not what I mean by feel good.

I mean,

It feels in alignment.

It feels energetically right.

And it lights you up.

So when I notice a place in my life,

My business,

Where I'm like,

This doesn't feel good,

Something doesn't feel right here.

And sometimes it's just a subtle,

Ooh,

It's rubbing me energetically the wrong way.

It's just a small little,

But I immediately give space to it.

And I sit and I asked myself,

First thing I do is,

What do I want?

What do I actually want?

And sometimes our desires are so very repressed,

That even tuning into that feels very difficult,

Right?

And it's a practice.

And also for many of you,

It might be actually sitting with your Yoni,

Because your Yoni is your pleasure center,

Right?

It leads through pleasure,

Through enjoyment.

That's natural for us in our feminine bodies.

So even for you sitting with yourself,

With your Yoni activating and going,

What would bring me pleasure?

What would feel good for me?

Because the reality is what's going to bring you pleasure and enjoyment is going to be highest aligned for you.

Your soul desires,

Your body desires are programmed to bring you into alignment with your soul's purpose,

Right?

So when I'm sitting there,

And I'm going,

What would I desire?

What would bring me pleasure?

And I'm tuning into that.

And I'm going,

Oh,

Well,

Actually,

It would be my pleasure if I did the program like this,

Or I shifted this,

Or I added this into it,

Right?

And I lead with that.

And it always,

Always aligns my gifts with my purpose in a much bigger way,

Because I'm following my truth.

And in our world,

So many women are disconnected,

Are connected to the mental state.

And we're trying to make decisions from a place of logic,

Intellect,

Right?

Of like,

What are the pros and cons,

When actually we thrive and do best when we lean into what would feel best?

What would feel good to me?

What feels aligned?

And what doesn't?

Like right now in your life,

If you think about it,

Close your eyes for a moment with me.

Where in your life right now feels the most draining?

Like it feels like it's taking your energy.

Like it just doesn't feel good.

It's just like something feels off to you.

Just see if you can feel where the most you feel that in your life.

And what in your life currently feels the most aligned?

The most resonant?

What gives you the most energy?

For some of you,

That voice,

That feeling is so strong.

And for some of you,

It's a little bit softer and gentler,

But we all have it in our job.

And especially for me as a leader,

As a business owner,

Like this is what I'm leading with.

Like I,

That's where I'm actually leading with,

That and with spirit.

I'm not really working with my mind that much.

Yeah,

Sure.

Like I don't just go around mindless,

But it's not the key place where I'm tuning in and making decisions.

Oftentimes it'll be like,

I'll recognize something isn't right.

And then I'll channel on it and recognize something's not right because my intuition,

My body,

Something will tell me that it's not right because it doesn't feel good.

So we settle for less because we don't even realize that we desire more.

And so for you,

You get to sit down and I'm going to give you,

This is homework.

You get to sit down and go,

What are the top five things that I desire,

Right?

Just whatever.

The point is not to have an exact like perfect.

These are my top highest desires.

It's to get you in tune with the part of you that tells you your desires because the majority of women are deeply repressed with that,

Right?

Majority of us,

Majority of us,

Even I would like to be stronger with it.

And I feel like I'm very in tune with it,

But I feel like our divine nature is just to be so in tune with that.

And from that place of desire,

We manifest and we work with our womb to create,

Right?

It's very powerful.

So just sitting down and writing,

What do I desire?

I even did this as a practice where every day I would just sit with my body and go,

What do I desire?

What do I desire today?

What do I desire right now?

And especially when I'm in a place where I'm like telling myself stories or let's say like,

I noticed,

Oh,

That's interesting.

I'm going into a scroll hole and I'm dissociating.

I immediately go into my body and go,

What do I desire right now?

Oh,

I desire some stillness.

Oh,

I desire movement.

Oh,

I desire swimming in the ocean,

Right?

So it's moving out of here and moving into the body,

Writing out like,

How would I desire to live life?

When we talk about manifestation,

You know,

It's one of the things that I so recommend spending extra time for women at the start where you're choosing and leaning into your desires because it taps you into that part of your being that deeply desires.

And that's the first thing that shows us you're settling.

This isn't meant for you.

You're settling.

When you settle,

You're taking something that's not meant for you.

And you're taking up space,

Something that's not meant for you.

And there's no energetic space for what is aligned to you,

What is aligned for you to come in.

Literally when you're settling for something in any area,

And you can feel,

Oh,

I'm settling for this,

You are actively in this moment saying no to what is aligned.

There's no,

Maybe,

I'm just waiting.

You are either saying yes or no to what's aligned.

And that's why it's so important,

And I do this in my business,

To make decisions that are,

Excuse my language,

A fuck yes or a fuck no in between.

Because if it's not a fuck yes and you say yes to it,

You are actually saying fuck no to what is 100% fully aligned.

So I don't see an in between.

I don't see a great,

If you are saying yes right now to what is not so aligned,

What is not what you desire,

And you know you are settling,

You are saying no thank you to what is aligned,

What is waiting for you,

What is out there for you.

And I know that's a tough pill to swallow.

I had a really hard time with it when I got to that place,

But it's a truth.

And I know that you can feel it,

You know,

Because there are some areas where we've got so much trauma and so much fear that it's hard.

It's very hard for us.

I had that with my ex-partner,

You know,

I was with him when I was a teenager,

When I left home and fend for myself,

And he was the only person in my life that I felt like,

Oh this is a human who loves me for me so deeply.

And as I got older and I recognized we're not in alignment,

I was so scared to let him go,

Even though I knew he's not aligned.

Right?

Like I,

It was so interesting because there was this cognitive dissonance of like,

Being like,

I feel guilty because I'm with him,

Even though I know it's not right and he wants to be with me and marry me,

But I know it's not right.

But the traumatized fearful little girl is too scared to let go of him.

She feels like,

What if nobody will love me afterwards?

So I had to do a lot of healing in that relationship and work,

And I did.

And I finally did find the courage to let him go,

To leave him.

Guess what?

Three weeks later,

Not even three weeks later,

I had kind of started dating my husband.

And it was so like,

I wasn't looking for it.

I remember going,

I'm gonna be single now.

I've been in a relationship since I was 17.

I'm gonna be single now.

Spirit was like,

Haha,

You're right.

And then literally three weeks later,

I met my husband.

I started dating him and like,

He's the only man I've dated since then.

And that was almost seven years ago,

Right?

So I found it funny.

I was like,

Wow,

That was really like,

Actually what I thought about was,

I wonder how long he's been waiting there.

Right?

I wonder how long,

If I had left that relationship earlier,

If I had said and recognized,

No,

This is an alignment,

And I had more courage to move forward,

Maybe I would have gotten an extra six months with my husband,

Maybe an extra year.

Right?

And so for me,

It was a big lesson of if we're saying yes to what's not aligned,

Which I was doing in that relationship,

We're also saying no to what is fully aligned.

I was saying no to my husband,

Because I was saying yes to a relationship that was in soul aligned.

So this is a really big opportunity for you to look into your life and see,

Where am I saying yes to what's not fully aligned?

Because it means that you're saying no to what is aligned.

And sometimes that transition,

You can come into the space of awareness of like,

Okay,

I recognize that in this area,

I'm accepting something,

Or I'm letting in something,

Or I'm being in something that isn't fully soul aligned,

And you might recognize that.

And there is a period of transition,

Right?

And that's okay.

You can take your time with that.

And that's usually where we then do the worthiness work,

Where we recognize,

Well,

This is what I'm settled for right now,

And what I actually desire is here,

Right?

So for a lot of people,

We go through the,

Well,

I'm in this job,

But I realize I'm settling for it,

Because what I want is my own soul aligned business,

Or I realize that I'm settling for this amount of income when what I actually desire is this,

Or this home I'm settling for when I actually want this.

The first step is knowing our desires,

Because then we get to see,

Wow,

Am I not claiming this desire,

Because I don't feel worthy of it.

So as you write out all of your desires,

Whatever they are,

And don't condition your desires.

If they're wild and outlandish,

Amazing.

If they're small,

Or objectively,

Someone might think they're small,

Doesn't matter.

It's your desires.

You have to own it.

And as you look at these desires,

You get to ask yourself,

And be honest,

Do I right now,

If all of these things showed up in my life,

For example,

If you are,

If you have decided,

I want to call in my divine life partner,

If that person showed up for you right now,

As you are,

Do you feel like you would feel worthy of them?

Right?

And asking that about all areas of your life,

Where you are recognizing,

Once you write down,

Like,

These are the things that I desire.

Do I feel worthy of it?

And that's where your work is going to be.

Because if you felt worthy of it,

The reality is,

You would have it right now,

Right?

That's how we expand our capacity as well by feeling worthy of it.

Right,

Especially with money as well.

So worthiness is where the work is.

So all those different areas,

Then when you've tuned into the desires are showing you,

This is where your lack of self worth,

Which is actually worthiness,

It's just a call in for love,

Right?

It's a younger version of you just being like,

I just want to be unconditionally love.

And that's where the worthiness work comes in.

And I mean,

There are a lot of different ways to do worthiness work,

We do a lot of it in Isaac House,

I do healing work,

I do shadow work,

That's number one thing for me,

Because that's what I did.

And that's what shifted it for me.

Like my worthiness was so bad.

Like,

I honestly,

I like this is the reason why I'm so passionate about this work.

And why Sharon,

I talk about it,

Because if you guys could have seen,

Like,

I'm wearing an $800 dress right now,

Okay?

When I like,

Let's go back,

Well,

Eight years ago,

I wore clothes from Kmart.

My handbag was from Kmart.

I don't know if you guys know what Kmart is.

But Google it in Australia.

Like it's,

I don't know,

The equivalent might be Walmart in the US.

I was all of my shoes were from Kmart.

I didn't spend more than $20 on clothes.

I didn't really feel worthy of dressing in anything nice.

I was like,

It wouldn't look good on me to dress nice because of how I am.

I didn't really put that much care or attention in my hair or my beauty because I don't really feel like I was beautiful or worthy of having those,

Those things.

I was charging $40 for a session because I didn't feel worth it.

I was like,

Oh my God,

That's so much money.

Cause I get paid $30 an hour at the job I was working before.

So that was a story that I told myself.

I was in a relationship where I was,

You know,

Like I did not actually feel worthy of the relationship I wanted.

I was like,

The only way that I'm going to ensure I have safety and love is to stay in this relationship.

So in all of these different areas,

I just didn't feel worthy.

And I was looking at women who had incredible businesses who today I far outgrown.

Back then I was like,

You know what my,

My desire was then I was like,

One day I want to have a clinic and make six figures.

That's how small my desires were.

My brain was like seven figures.

What?

Like previous me wouldn't see that because I went through so much trauma.

I went through so much assault,

Physical violence,

Like having to leave home early,

Rape,

Like you name it.

I've been through it.

Like I was trauma,

Trauma,

Traumatized and it took me a lot of work to get through it.

But I struggled so much with feeling worthy because there was this big gap of not feeling love.

Right.

And not feeling worthy of love,

Which obviously when you go through a lot of abuse,

That's often the scar that is left there.

Right.

That you feel like,

What's wrong with me?

Like why there must be something wrong with me for others to do this to me or for my parents to abandon me.

Right.

So you tell yourself these stories and you ingrain it.

And so it was so reflected in my life.

And at that age,

I began to recognize and read about,

Cause I was getting all into self-development and NLP and different things.

I began to recognize I've got some serious self worth issues.

Like it became very loud and clear to me that I have self worth issues.

So I began to do all sorts of healings.

I worked with healers.

I applied healing to myself.

I began to channel it.

So at that time I was channeling and it became a thing for me.

And because I was just like,

My worth is so,

Like,

It was rock bottom.

Like I honestly,

Almost everyone that I've worked with or helped with worthiness,

I'm like,

It still wasn't as bad as mine.

And I'm so confident in helping them because I was like,

It's not as bad as mine.

So you're good.

If I can get through it,

I promise you,

I promise you,

You can.

Right.

Like,

I promise you.

I remember,

Like just now I was going to my,

I remember I didn't even feel worthy of a haircut.

I don't know where I got this story from,

But I remember like going in and paying for a haircut at a hairdresser and just being like,

Oh my God,

I don't belong here.

I'm not pretty enough.

I'm not dressed up.

Like,

What,

Where did I get these stories from?

But that was,

That was my life.

That was my experience.

So I began to do all of the deep healing work to unravel it.

Right.

And that was a journey because I didn't know about it.

I didn't,

I had to learn.

I had to heal.

So honestly,

It probably like,

And healing isn't like this.

Healed.

Right.

It goes like this.

That's what happened.

Right.

Like all healing does.

And it was like,

I can't charge more than 40 an hour.

Actually,

I think I'm going to be okay to charge 80 an hour.

Okay.

I can do that.

And in every area it started to show up.

And then it was like,

It reached this tipping point up here where it was like,

I'm worthy of six figures and I'm worthy of being in a relationship that feels fully aligned.

And that was a massive shift.

Right.

But it didn't stop.

The work keeps going.

And obviously now I'm married to a really beautiful,

Incredible,

Spiritual,

Masculine man.

And I have a seven figure business and incredible friends and community,

All the beautiful things.

But I still recognize.

And when I had my big death rebirth last month,

Guess what?

I saw patterns where I was like,

Huh,

There is still a pattern here about needing to prove my worth.

And it wasn't the core belief,

But there was still a pattern there.

And I was like,

That's how I was showing up with my team.

Oh my goodness.

There's another level for me.

There's another layer.

Right.

Because there's still another,

There's a future version of myself that I've seen that I see and connect to.

And I know that what she feels worthy to,

I currently don't,

Otherwise I would be living that reality.

So worthiness healing was a very gentle process from,

But the beautiful thing is that I really understood worthiness in such a deep way,

How it shows up in business,

How it shows up in life because of it,

Because of that,

I've really been able to support women heal and shift this so deeply.

And it's a big part of what we do in Isis Car.

What I want to do with you right now is I just want to share with you a few symptoms of the worthiness stuff to see for you to go,

Hmm,

Does this show up for me?

And then I can see there's some stuff in the comments.

So I'll come to that.

And you might have questions about what I share,

What's coming up and you're welcome to ask.

So let me bring up my notes and I'm going to share with you some of these worthiness symptoms.

So obviously you don't follow your dreams.

You stop yourself early.

You know,

You want something,

But you hold yourself back telling yourself you can have something you want when you,

And then you give yourself qualifier,

Right?

So a really common one I see with women is like,

I really want that dress,

Or I really want those shoes.

I really want this bag.

I can have it when I,

When I lose this weight or when I hit this,

Right?

So you get something when you are a certain way.

And that's mirroring that belief of I'm not worthy exactly as I am.

I need to be a certain way to get what I want,

Which is,

Which is worthiness,

Right?

You're scared to put yourself out there for fear of someone calling you out because when we don't feel worthy,

There's also a level of imposter syndrome where we're like,

But if I show up,

Like if I,

If I show up,

Someone's going to see that I'm not worthy.

Somebody's going to be like,

Oh,

She's not worthy.

She shouldn't be there.

It actually ties into imposter syndrome.

And we can get scared that people are going to recognize and call us out and be like,

You're not supposed to be there.

And because imposter syndrome ties into who am I,

Right?

It ties into that identity,

That questioning said,

Well,

Who am I to do this?

Who am I to have this?

That comes from a place of worthiness.

This is a big one.

I see this one so much,

And I'm so guilty of this.

Seeking more qualifications when you already have so many,

Right?

And it's nothing wrong with getting extra qualifications,

But there is a pattern,

Right?

Which is,

Ah,

You know what?

I can't yet charge,

Or I can't yet do this.

I've got to get another qualification.

I'm going to do another certification.

I've got to learn more because we need external validation,

Right?

Because we don't have that internal,

You're good enough.

You are good enough.

You know,

You deserve to be paid.

And so we're like,

Let me get another qualification because it's externally validating.

So this is me.

I have like so many certifications and qualifications.

I'm so grateful for them,

But I put a pause on doing what I actually wanted because I kept telling myself I wasn't good enough,

Right?

I was like,

I'm not enough because I haven't had a 10k month,

And because I'm not skinny enough,

And because I don't have enough certifications,

Right?

It's just,

That's another one of those qualifiers.

Undercharging.

I know a lot of people are very guilty of that.

Undercharging.

When we undercharge,

It feels,

It might feel okay a couple of times,

But it creates resentment,

Right?

And usually what we want to have a look at,

And if you have low self-worth,

It's something that we can suppress so much we might not even notice it,

But we look for the energy and the feeling of resentment.

Of like,

This doesn't feel good and I'm starting to feel a bit resentful.

That's usually because you're undercharging.

And right now you might be recognizing,

I'm not charging as much as I actually want to.

I'll share with you.

I had a hard time with this because obviously I'm a channel,

Yet I had massive self-worth issues.

So when I started channeling my guides around my business,

They were like,

Okay Athena,

You're going to charge as much for the program.

I went,

I can't.

I think there's too much money.

I can't.

And they'd be like,

That's the energetically aligned price for it.

I'd be like,

Now like go do some money work,

Athena.

Like looking back,

The prices were not even high,

But even though it was like,

This is aligned and there was a higher part of me that knew it was,

My lack of self-worth was resisting it so much.

So again,

I was saying,

No,

What actually was aligned,

Settling for less than.

So undercharging is a really big one.

Over-delivering at the expense of self.

Nothing wrong with over-delivering.

I love over-delivering.

That's great.

But over-delivering at the expense of yourself,

Which I'm sure a lot of you can relate to,

Which is like,

We feel like not enough.

We feel not good enough.

And so we feel like we have to overcompensate,

Over-give to like,

For them not to be disappointed at us.

And if you've got any people-pleasing tendencies or fear of being disliked,

Which often go hand in hand,

If you've experienced childhood abuse,

Like I did,

I had this exact same pattern.

It's like,

I'm not worthy.

I have to prove myself.

And I also have to make sure that they like me,

Which is a really stressful way to do business.

Like that's not going to serve you in the long run.

That is fast track to burnout.

Letting clients cross your boundaries and not being able to say,

Hey,

No,

This is a boundary.

Because you feel there's almost what I've seen with people with very low self-worth is almost guilt.

I had it.

I was like,

I took your money.

I feel guilty.

Oh my God.

Even though when people were excited to pay for a service,

Right?

I've never felt like,

Ooh,

To a coach that I paid a lot of money to,

You should feel guilty for taking my money.

No,

But that was what I was experiencing.

And I do see it with people that there's an underlying guilt,

Right?

And because of that,

They let clients cross their boundaries or they have a hard time saying,

No,

This is a container.

This is how they work.

These are so focused.

I've got to make sure they're happy.

I've got to make sure that,

You know,

It all works out.

Needing validation,

Right?

That can be from partners,

From people constantly saying,

Oh,

Do you love me?

Do I look pretty?

All of those things.

Self-comparison.

This is a big one.

Comparing ourselves to others,

Right?

And I was very guilty of this in the online world.

When I first started,

I spent so much time looking at other people.

When I saw someone who was doing what I wanted to do,

But didn't feel worthy,

I'd be like,

What did they have that I don't?

Why did they get to have that?

And I don't,

I feel sad.

And I would compare myself constantly.

I can honestly tell you,

I do not look at anyone who does anything similar to me today.

And I remember I even hired a marketing agency at the start of the year and they were like,

Right,

Athena,

Like,

We need you to list out,

I think they said five competitors.

I was like,

What?

I was like,

No,

Mate,

This is,

This is not how I do business.

I don't have,

One,

I don't have competitors.

Two,

I don't believe in competitors.

And three,

I have no idea what other channelers are doing.

I'm so focused on my own work and in my own lane.

I have no idea what everybody else is doing,

Right?

Now that was at the start when I had low self-worth,

That was very different,

Right?

When we struggle with low self-worth,

We feel the need to earn,

Right?

Whether that be like earning success,

Love,

All the things.

So we get addicted to hustle and we over give.

So we're going to go a lot more into the giving receiving tomorrow,

Because that's obviously,

You know,

The theme of tomorrow.

But for today,

All you need to know is that the theme of over giving,

Very often tied to low self-worth,

Because again,

It's the overcompensation,

Because we are not inherently worthy,

Right?

And at the core belief of unworthiness,

It's usually one,

I'm not worthy of unconditional love exactly as I am.

So like actually speaking to your inner child,

Pulling forward your inner child,

And you're just going,

Hey,

Hey,

Hey,

You are loved exactly as you are.

Even that is so profoundly healing if you have worthiness issues,

Like connect to the child and get that love and give that love to that child.

But also,

Where was I going with that?

I've lost my train of thought.

I am inherently valuable,

Right?

That's another big one,

Because worthiness,

There is usually corresponding beliefs around value and intrinsic value.

So my value is intrinsic,

I don't need to earn my value.

Because people with low self-worth,

Or even like not even low,

Just like normal worth,

Because the majority of people don't have high self-worth,

Have beliefs around having to earn their worthiness.

And especially for the feminine,

It's inherent,

Right?

Our worth,

Our value,

It's inherent.

And I believe that about everyone,

Like men and women,

But it's definitely a pattern that women need to lead into more,

Because we are portals,

Right?

We have our womb,

We are creatrixes,

We have yonis.

Us having that being that way,

Being these divine soul sparks,

Like when we pour our love into someone,

Whether that's a man or a woman or family,

It uplifts them,

Right?

It gives to them,

We don't actually have to do anything,

Right?

It's just inherent,

Our value is inherent.

Women feel that when they come together,

Right?

Like women feel that when they're around other women.

The most successful men in the world are married men,

Because the feminine energy is so powerful in this.

She is inherently valuable,

She is inherently worthy,

Right?

Just in who she is and how she,

She doesn't need to do anything to prove it.

But we've grown up in such a masculine world that we're told we need to prove ourselves.

Men need to go through initiations,

Right?

We see this with a lot of ancient cultures here in Australia,

The aboriginal cultures,

They did have initiations for boys at 13.

It's very,

Very common across different cultures,

Because they recognize the man actually needed to,

I don't want to say earn his masculinity,

But he had to like go find it,

Right?

Go achieve it,

Go do something for it.

It's a doing,

The feminine is the being.

So men have a different journey of worthiness.

And I really am speaking here to the feminine journey of worthiness.

And it's not that men aren't worthy simply for being,

But the concept of masculinity is very different to the concept of femininity,

Right?

And with the feminine,

It's all about being,

Not doing.

But in the world that we are in,

We are told stories,

You have to do this to be worthy,

Right?

So what do we do in relationships with men?

We overgive,

We over deliver,

We take care.

We don't see what the feminine actually brings to the table.

We don't see what the feminine actually does.

And we measure ourselves from masculine lens.

Like that's what happens to women in our world.

They're measured in a masculine lens.

If I tell you like what I bring to the table for my marriage,

Like it's all about my feminine energy,

My priestess work,

My channeling,

Like my feminine,

Right?

That's what it all ties into.

Sorry,

I'm getting very white.

The sun is coming in,

So it's quite bright now.

But that's how it's measured.

That's how I actually measure it.

That's how the feminine measures it.

But in our world,

We actually are measured by men's standard.

And it doesn't work for us because we're so different,

Right?

So we have these standards for value that are actually for men and not for us,

But we take them on.

We say,

Right,

I'm going to achieve,

I'm going to create a ton of success.

I'm going to do this,

Which great,

Do that.

I did that.

Amazing.

Worked well for me.

But I also know that that doesn't have anything to do with my value as a woman.

That doesn't have anything to do with my worthiness,

Right?

If I left my business tomorrow,

I'm definitely not going to do,

But if I wanted to,

I could,

And I would still be worthy.

I would still be just as valuable,

Just as worthy as I am today,

Right?

But we measure things like the masculine because that's how our society is geared towards.

Not all cultures,

Not our society.

I'm specifically talking about the Western world.

It is measured that way.

And I do believe that in the future,

It's going to shift and even out because there was for a long time,

It was men here,

Women here,

And now it's starting to even out.

And so we're kind of finding our way.

We're going,

Does this work?

Does this fit?

No,

It doesn't.

Hold on.

Women have a 28-day cycle.

Men have a 24.

It's a little bit different.

We're still finding our footing,

But what's important that we as women go,

Well,

This is actually what I desire.

These are my needs as a woman.

This is what I,

The feminine,

Bring forward.

And that we're in tune with that and that we get to live our life because guess what?

I have a company today that runs around my menstrual cycle.

I know exactly where I am in my cycle.

And I literally like call schedules,

Time off,

Goes around it.

Like my company,

The people that work for me are around that.

My company is set up with the values that I believe in,

That are quite different to the way that companies out there are.

It's very different.

And so I know that with my feminine presence,

My intention,

My energy,

I'm changing that structure because that's actually my desire,

Right?

I had to tune into that desire and go,

I really don't want to take calls and be doing hard work,

Not hard work,

But output when I actually just want to be internal.

And I want to be in the first day of my bleed.

So I tune into my desires.

No,

I felt worthy of it.

And I got to make that decision for myself.

And when I make that decision for myself and I tell other women,

They're like,

You can do that.

Like,

Yeah,

You can do that.

And it's like a permission slip.

We give each other permission slips,

Right?

So for you,

It's like,

What do you desire?

And ever like for me,

When I worked on my period,

The last time I ever did,

I went,

This doesn't feel right.

It's like,

There's that energetic tension of,

It doesn't feel good.

And I just asked,

Well,

What do I actually desire?

Right?

A different model,

Right?

But like I was saying,

In our world,

We measure things through the masculine lens because that's just how our society was built,

Right?

But it's changing and it's changing because of us,

Because we're deciding what we actually want,

What would feel good.

And when we have these feminine leaders rising,

They're the ones who are implementing and creating change and showing what feminine structures,

Feminine leadership,

Feminine abundance can actually look like.

So those are the big signs of low self-worth.

We give ourselves conditions,

You know,

I need to be this way for me to be worthy,

Or I need to do that to be worthy.

The question you want to ask yourself is when will you know you're enough?

And when will you know you are worthy?

Because at the end,

At the core of it,

No matter what you tell yourself,

It comes down to who I am is not worthy or is not deserving of the things I actually want,

Right?

And that is the core belief that needs to shift most of the time from parenthood.

Occasionally,

Like ancestrally,

I have seen it with Holocaust survivors,

War survivors,

Sometimes from previous lifetimes.

But again,

95% of the time,

It's from childhood.

So if you know this is a big thing for you,

You get to go.

There are a few things that I recommend here.

One,

You get to go,

Where does this come from?

Do forgiveness processes to whoever comes from my focus on release to connect to your inner child and begin doing work to give yourself the love that you never got.

Give yourself the unconditional love.

Like,

I promise you,

It is so healing.

It is so powerful.

I know it just sounds like a simple exercise,

But honestly,

If you did that every day,

It would completely transform your life.

And three,

To start actually listening for your desires and going,

Well,

What do I actually desire?

This doesn't feel good.

So what do I desire?

And I'm going to give you one more,

Which is where have you said yes to that which is not aligned and recognizing that as long as you're saying yes to that,

You're saying no to what actually is fully aligned.

So that was my big ramble around.

Look at that,

5pm,

An hour exactly.

Well done,

Athena.

I didn't ramble on for too long.

Okay,

Great.

I want to have a look at the questions.

See,

Do you have questions about worthiness?

Do you have questions about something I shared?

I want to have a look at some of the questions and the shares,

Maybe you just want to share something.

And we can have an open conversation about that,

Answering questions you might have,

And just go into it.

I feel worthy now.

However,

I'll feel seen in my worth every time a client finds my website and uses the inquiry form to contact me.

Interesting.

Okay,

So it sounds like,

You know,

You've got a good baseline of self worth,

But there are still things that are externally validating it.

And so for many of you,

You'll be like,

My self worth is pretty good.

And those little things are still showing you,

Oh,

There's another level,

Oh,

There's another level,

Because we want to be in a place where like,

Client signs up or doesn't,

Doesn't,

Like at all,

Shift how I see or perceive myself,

Right?

Even if it's like a recognition of worth,

We don't like the end goal,

Which I know,

It's,

You know,

Quite challenging,

Even for me to just be like,

It actually doesn't matter what happens to me externally,

Because I'm so solid in who I am and my worth.

Yeah.

You never say a baby was unworthy of love.

We've always been worthy.

We came here worthy 100%.

Yet,

So many of us were told we're not worthy.

And so many of us were in the womb when our mother said,

Or our father said,

I don't want this baby.

And guess what,

We hear it,

And we take it on.

And then we feel unwanted.

And what happens if you were ever told that is you feel like a burden.

And you feel like you have to prove yourself,

Because you are not worthy of life,

You are not worthy,

Goosebumps,

You are not worthy of taking up that space,

Right?

And you start to feel like a burden.

And oftentimes,

Those scenarios,

You will feel like a burden in relationships,

As well.

And it becomes a pattern,

And it ties to worthiness.

So yeah,

We'd never say it to babies,

Yet,

Every single day,

Babies are told that and it's so sad,

Because it's not right.

You know,

We're all intrinsically,

Inherently worthy.

Beautiful.

Yes or no,

Following sacred strategy.

I love that.

So I'm saying yes to illness and no to pure health.

That depends,

Right?

Because when we look at illness,

It's a little,

It is slightly different,

Right?

Like I'm more talking about money,

Relationships,

Career,

Work,

Health issues is usually there's something for you to heal.

So rather looking at it,

Like I'm saying yesterday,

I mean,

You can if it helps you and empowers you,

You definitely can look at it from that lens.

But I would be going like,

What's the thing underneath the illness,

Because I'm a deep believer in,

There's always something energetic,

Emotional,

Mental,

Spiritual underneath the physical thing.

And that's what we're saying yes to,

Right.

So for example,

Things like breast cancer,

Oftentimes,

A lot of the times what we see it's receiving issues.

And we see it in women who overgive,

Right,

And then struggle to receive.

So someone might be saying,

Okay,

Well,

I'm saying yes to breast cancer.

Well,

Let's go underneath it a little bit.

Actually,

You're saying yes to overgiving.

And you're saying no to receiving.

That's actually the pattern.

So if it's an illness that you're thinking about,

Go a little bit deeper into it,

What is the root of the illness,

Why it's showing up.

And that's what I'd like you to focus more on.

Love the markers of feeling unworthy,

Amazing.

So that's like,

Ritika,

What I'm hearing is you have desires,

And the finances are not reflecting it.

And let me just I've gone very,

Very white.

The sun's coming in.

Just perfect.

So this could be about two things,

Right?

It could be about struggling to receive financially,

Or the worthiness and settling for less.

And so my question for you would then to be to sit with one,

Is there anywhere else in my life where this pattern is being reflected,

Because it even sounds like I don't have enough,

I don't have enough for what I want,

Which usually comes into I'm not enough to have what I want,

Right?

That's a story that we're telling ourselves.

And this is a core part of manifestation.

Because if you've been saying,

Okay,

Well,

I'm going to do all the manifestation work to create this abundance.

That's amazing.

It's super important.

And I highly encourage it.

And we've also got to make sure that we feel worthy to be a match for that,

Right?

Otherwise,

We like we just we can't receive it.

So this is where it's a great opportunity for you to go into deeper.

Okay,

These are my desires.

I want to have enough money to join channelings for Academy,

I want to do these things.

And I'm not having it.

So where am I not feeling worthy?

Where else is that reflecting in my life?

And I'd invite you to go do the processes that I shared today.

But you can already be doing significant workarounds just by working with your inner child just by continuing to go,

Well,

What are my desires,

Spirit guides,

Help me,

I'm ready to step into this higher level and create more abundance.

And this feeling or tika that you're experiencing,

Like,

I want this,

But I can't have this.

It's such an important feeling,

Because it's the gap,

Right?

That gap is so important,

Because the discomfort of the gap shows you,

There is another level available for you,

There is another level available for you.

And the work is bridging that gap.

And in this case,

It might be worthiness,

It might be something else,

It might be something more.

But no,

It's a really great place to be.

And I know it feels uncomfortable.

But we're also recognizing there is another level here.

I definitely relate to needing to earn the worth by achieving.

Yeah,

It's so common that many of us don't even realize we do it until we might go,

Well,

You know,

I'll take a week off or you're sick.

And then it's the second day,

You're sick and sitting on the couch.

And then you're like,

I'm not doing anything.

Oh,

My God,

I should do something.

I feel guilty.

I feel guilty about relaxing.

Oh,

My God,

If you feel guilt about relaxing,

That is a self worth issue,

Right?

All these like little things that we think are like,

Well,

There's this little thing,

That little thing,

It all comes down to,

Well,

If I actually did feel inherently valuable and worthy exactly as I am,

I would be completely fine with taking the time I need for my body to rest.

But if we don't,

We tell ourselves the story,

Guilt and stress,

And then we burn out and have to overachieve.

Can you describe the inner child healing process a bit more definitely?

So you can make it like a long,

Full drawn out process if you want,

Like you can go music,

You know,

See yourself entering into a sacred space,

Calling for during a child,

Having a conversation with them,

Then sending them love.

Or you can literally right now,

Actually,

You know what,

Let's all do it.

We're all here.

Close your eyes for a moment.

This is super quick version that you can just do on the go.

That's really good if you ever feel like triggered.

If you're ever like,

Oh,

Something's triggering me.

I have like,

Lack of worth stuff coming up.

Close your eyes.

You can place your hands on your body and just take a moment because we want to drop out of the mind,

Out of the stories.

Because remember,

The stories aren't yours.

They're not your truth and they're not real.

We want to drop into the body and full presence.

Now within you lives your inner child,

Right?

All these parts of you,

You're in a teenager,

You're in a child lives within you.

And so all you're going to do now is you're going to sit,

You can say it out loud,

You can say it internally,

That's up to you.

I call forward my inner child to be here with me now.

And this is going to be different for every single person.

For some of you,

You will actually see your inner child entering the space with you externally.

And for some of you,

And this is how it works for me as well,

You'll feel the inner child internally.

Usually if you've done a lot of inner child work,

They'll be integrated internally.

If there's a lot of healing that's still needed,

They'll often come externally.

So either way is perfect.

But I just want you to notice when you're calling your inner child is it an internal feeling,

Or is it you can actually feel them coming to you externally?

Just notice.

And as you feel your inner child,

And if they're integrated,

You might just feel it as an energy,

Like in your chest,

That's where I feel it might be in your stomach,

Just notice wherever you feel your inner child.

And just thank your inner child.

Thank you for being here.

Thank you for coming,

Sweetie.

I'm so happy that you're here.

And all I want you to do,

I'm going to give you one minute to do this,

Is I want you to think about what did you need to hear when you were growing up?

What were the words you needed to hear?

Maybe it's what you need to hear right now as well.

Might be,

I love you so much.

You're good enough.

You know,

I love you so much.

I love you so much.

You're good enough.

You know,

You didn't deserve what happened to you.

I love you.

You are so loved and so protected.

You can have your desires.

They're valid.

I accept you as you are,

Whatever it is that your inner child needed to hear.

I'm going to give you one minute to say all of those things to that part of you now.

And send the love from your heart.

You have beautiful energy in your heart.

So send the love.

Don't just say the words,

Send the love,

Send the energy.

Let all of that unconditional love pour into this inner child.

You could just feel how does your inner child feel right now?

What's coming up for them?

How are they reacting?

Sometimes seeing our children,

They can be so excited to perceive.

Other times they're a little bit wary.

You're like,

Not sure.

That's okay.

Now,

I had a client who did this every single day for three months.

You can see it's quite a short process.

So if you're like,

Worthiness is a big one for me.

I have a lot of stuff coming up.

I didn't have unconditional love growing up.

I had an abusive childhood.

This is a good one for you.

And look,

I know it's so simple,

But it's so powerful.

Do it for two weeks straight and watch.

Watch how things change.

When I up level in my worthiness,

The changes,

They're so.

.

.

I don't have to force myself to do the thing.

That's how I would describe it.

Because I went through this recently.

Like I said,

A month ago,

I went through a shift in my worthiness.

I already had high self-worth,

But it was like,

It went to the next level.

And whenever we integrate that next level of worthiness,

We don't have to consciously be like,

Okay,

Well,

What would be worthy?

If I felt worthy,

What would I do right now?

It just happens,

Right?

So I found,

When someone crossed my boundaries,

Like quite recently,

Maybe old Athena would have been like,

Okay,

Well,

I respect my boundaries.

So what would I say here?

Or even think about it,

Because this was my team.

I had something with my team that I needed to hold a higher self-worth to.

And when I did the healing and I integrated myself,

I didn't have to think about it.

I was like,

It just came through me because that higher self-worth was integrated and embodied.

And that only happens from the inner work.

You can write on your desk all you want or on your phone reminders of like,

If I was worthy,

What would I do?

How would I show up and act if I was worthy?

But it's still an external process.

When you do the work internally,

It just happens.

You don't have to remind yourself.

You become the woman who is worthy.

You become the woman who moves through the world in a worthy way.

And that's when the floodgates open,

Right?

Literally,

And everything begins to shift and open up.

And that's what I've seen time and time again with clients.

So when you do this work,

And this is like,

This is a very good foundation,

Inner child stuff.

I will say that depending on what you've been through,

Like the specific childhood traumas,

Often like there's a mother wound and a father wound,

Which we have separate sessions for that in IsisCar,

Because things are so big.

And that's usually where I see people have like the biggest shifts straight away,

Because it can come from the mother or the father.

So we do do work on those and receiving and then the healing of the feminine and masculine.

That all then starts to create a very holistically worthy,

Embodied woman.

And that's where then asking for our desires,

Knowing our desires.

And then obviously,

We do the sexual alchemy,

Which is you learn how to co-create your desires from a womb space through the Isis priestesshood.

And you can actually rise to them because you feel worthy.

And you know,

That it's your birthright that you get to have it simply because you desire it.

There's no formal qualification that you give yourself.

So beautiful soul,

We've gone over quite a bit.

So I'm going to finish up here today.

You will probably have more questions,

Bring them tomorrow.

Today went a bit longer because it was first day.

So I was doing introductions.

Tomorrow,

I will try and be more succinct.

So more questions because I think there were a couple that I couldn't get to.

So bring them tomorrow.

I'd love to,

You know,

I love this.

I love being able to have these conversations with you,

Hear about it.

Wow,

So short and powerful.

I felt that in my gut,

Brought tears to my face.

Amazing,

Gabby.

I love that.

Either way,

Beautiful souls,

I will see you tomorrow for our receiving,

All the patterns we have around that.

It's going to be a lot more anchored into the divine feminine,

Which is where all the receiving comes from.

So thank you so much,

Beautiful souls.

Have a beautiful rest of your day.

Bye-bye.